I'm a wounded bird

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Folks, even though some good things have happened to met his year, I've realized, that socially, I am a wounded bird. Cases in point:

-In 2010, @ SakuraCon, I was accosted by police because a friend I met @ my first SakuraCon four years earlier in 2006 thought I was harassing her, which I was not. They gave me a no-contact order against said girl, and to this day, while it is behind me now, I refer to her as only "Bitchy b***h". She wronged me big time.

-A certain member on these forums, whom I will not name, also thought I was stalking her with my messages. I just wanted to brighten up her day and say hello, and yet she sees me like I'm some sort of criminal?! WTF?!?!?!

Guys, because of these incidents and misunderstandings, I don't think there is any way I will have a wife, EVER. A girl I talked to @ Fanime in San Jose this year has yet to contact me back as of right now........... so I am heartbroken over these incidents. What am I to do? I need hugs.

I really feel you bro, I too have been unfairly accused of stalking and sexual harassment plenty of times in the past. Granted some of the stuff I did in high school would legitimately pass for sexual harassment if hugging and kissing women without their permission counts, but I at least have never groped anyone or made lewd sexual comments towards women. Other times, I would either be straight out set up for things I didn't do and get punished for it or have people spread rumors about me saying I was a stalker and people I barely even knew would be terrified of me and want nothing to do with me, and it sucks that this keeps happening even in college. I have already been accused of stalking by another girl whose boyfriend is probably spreading rumors about me being a stalker, and because he's been stalking my Tumblr and YouTube accounts and sees what I like and repost (a lot of it is related to anti-feminism/anti-SJW stuff) he has been harassing me for almost a year and calling me a "stalker" and a "rape apologist" among other things, and even before he once said to my face that he thinks I'm going to rape someone I really f*****g hope he doesn't try to set me up for a false rape/sexual harassment accusation to try and have me expelled from school and end up in legal trouble. Also in April there was another girl who I had talked to only a few times and all I did was say hi to her and she turns the treadmill off and runs from me terrified and pointed me out to one of the security guards. He didn't come up to me thank god, and I tried to ask her why she was afraid of me even though I hadn't done anything to her and all she gives me was "Look, we're not friends, we're not part of the same lives" and she runs off and all I can judge from this is that either she's prejudiced against me because of my disability or someone is going around spreading false rumors about me knowing that my disability makes me an easier target for such things.

It really, really sucks when you don't have perfect social skills and don't know what to expect of people's reactions to you, and it sucks even worse when stuff like feminism and rape culture hysteria and especially people like Elliot Rodger are only making the social stigma towards men on the autism spectrum even worse.