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bubzy
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Location: Juneau, Ak
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 Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 9:23 pm Post subject: Anyone have similar experiences with abusive people? |
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| I once had so called "friends" who turned against me. I thought I could trust them, I took them too literally, they verbally and emotionally abused me. They put me in a state of fear complete with nightmares and extreme anxiouty. The progress I had made with making friends was literally destroyed. I am now picking up the pieces and trying to overcome my fear of the world. I am looking for support from my fellow aspie comrads who have gone through similar experiences. |
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Spokane_Girl
There's no crying in baseball
Joined: Jul 17, 2007
Age: 24
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Location: Rockford (hometown Oregon)
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| Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 10:47 pm Post subject: |
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My own friends used me, my own friends bullied me. I had one online friend turned against me and I had another online friend who has bullied me online but we became friends and then he started to make fun of me about something and I was put off with his trolling on youtube he was doing to one of my other online friends so I blocked him. I don't think I should ever become friends with any of my bullies because they can decide to be mean again. I never said anything to him about it because I figured he wouldn't care because he liked calling other people emos who get hurt feelings and stuff and I didn't want that from him.
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Claradoon
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Age: 59
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Location: Canada
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| Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 2:43 am Post subject: |
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I gave up trying to make friends a long time ago. It was a conscious decision. The only thing that did work for me was when I was still living at home, if my sister liked somebody, then I could be friends with them. But I'm absolutely no judge of character myself. Maybe it's about missing social cues.
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