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skonamis
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aww.. parents again. Everyone has a nice family to grab when the trouble comes. But the reason is that i do not have one. They are living 150 km away in the childhood town. Mother is poor and had a hard life herself. Father and mother have been divorced for 9 years now. Father has a new family and 2 new kids. They sure cannot help from such a distance being poor also. They sure are not confident or knowing enough to deal with such things anyway.
Second would be grandparents.. haha. I'd never trust them. They were the reason why my mother is screwed and divorced. They gave me the history with verbal abuse.
And third,.. well my aunt?(living at her place) I do not want to tell her because she always overreacts on such things. She starts asking embarassing stuff and gets crazy allover. And she would probably ask me if the school is helping. And if not then she would be like "aww.. happens. u get over it"
Seems like i am on my own. |
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SoulcakeDuck
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| Posted: Fri Nov 13, 2009 10:25 am Post subject: |
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I swear, you're like a girl version of me. My family is and was as useless as yours (parents divorced when 3, not much money people were always emotionally unstable) when I was in your age, I've always been on my own. That's why you need to toughen up a little, NOT "grow up", but say enough is enough when it makes you feel bad. You'll see people will back off.
You'll learn to cope, we are the survival type.
We're bad asses, aspies with iron knuckles.  |
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skonamis
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| Posted: Fri Nov 13, 2009 10:54 am Post subject: |
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| Quote: | You'll learn to cope, we are the survival type.
We're bad asses, aspies with iron knuckles. |
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SoulcakeDuck
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| Posted: Fri Nov 13, 2009 11:10 am Post subject: |
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Thing is I was not very verbal when 18 and quiet, school was so and so and I was surrounded by morons as well that made my life a bit heavier. After that I moved abroad to Budapest (Hungary) to study at a Uni (Material-Virtual Design and Art Management) and there I also learned and developed more verbal skills because of the environmental change, was more calm and I felt I could evolve my weaknesses in peace without oddjobs breathing down my neck.
Life is one f**** up roller coaster. ^__^ |
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HH
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| Posted: Fri Nov 13, 2009 12:33 pm Post subject: |
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Ok, so that would be a no on the parental units intervening.
Here's a thought. From the sound of it, you are already constantly on the watch for this guy. Would you be able, do you think, when you see him from a distance and he's watching you, to hold out your hand in front of you, arm straight, palm out, in a "stop" motion?
And can you buy a whistle of some kind? And if he starts to move toward you, or if he suddenly appears beside you, blow the whistle like mad? |
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skonamis
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I am very sorry that i have to decline your methods. I have always been extremely introverted and i get confused over doing small things like raising hands or sitting down when asked. I even get confused when my favorite seat is taken. So i never raise hands either. I hate taking attention on to myself. I think school is a quiet place for study and not a whistling ground. I don't think i would see him out of school anymore, because i have decided to use the latest bus time, no one wants to be late at school, right? I do, so that is my chance.
I have decided to suffer in silence. I know this is very wrong, but it is something i can do best, without losing my mind. Until the school really(meaning that i do not have to face him myself) is going to help. Maybe they will, i do not know.
I hope i wont die in some heart attack first  |
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HH
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Ok, so that won't work either. There's nothing wrong with that.
If silence and dodging him is your choice of strategy for the time being, I'm confident you're the one best able to decide what you can do in the circumstances you've been trapped in. I'm wishing you luck at becoming really good at dodging the guy. |
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skonamis
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| Posted: Fri Nov 13, 2009 4:46 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | Ok, so that won't work either. There's nothing wrong with that.
If silence and dodging him is your choice of strategy for the time being, I'm confident you're the one best able to decide what you can do in the circumstances you've been trapped in. I'm wishing you luck at becoming really good at dodging the guy. |
Thank you for understanding  |
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HH
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Try not to let all the "you should"'s shatter your confidence -- this is a very complex and involved situation, and you're more on your own on this one than any of us likes to realize. That means that you are the only person who even has a chance at deciding the best course of action for you to take. The rest of us simply do not have even a fraction of the insight into the situation that you do.
You're doing a very good job of realistically assessing what actions you can take and be sure of completing successfully. That's a huge accomplishment right there. It will serve you better than trying to take on something you can't handle and have it blow up in your face -- but you already know that, because that's what you've been telling us. 
Good luck, and if you can do let us know how it progresses. |
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SoulcakeDuck
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| skonamis wrote: | | no one wants to be late at school, right? |
I have never been in time for school in my life. I have no sense of time and always late 15-20 min (even though I ALWAY plan to do things in time and always think that I will be on time). It's my trademark.
I believe that my classmates would take it as a sign of a coming apocalypse if I would show up in time, they would all shake and stare at me frozen in fear. |
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Tach
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| SoulcakeDuck wrote: | | skonamis wrote: |
Sometimes i still wish i was born as a boy so people wont check my looks that much. I am not interested in this man&woman stuff. It freakes me out. I wish i was the most unattractive girl in the world. So i could live with less anxiety. can't change what i am  |
No you can not change who you are or what gender. But it is what it is you're a girl.
You wanna be a boy like me? I'm much like you, quiet, never bother anyone and do not seek attention and yes, told to be quite attractive. Then I'm labled as a homosexual and picked on by a horde of guys, you want that instead?
I got a gold solver for you, next time step on the buss and smile at him. He will then come sit next to you. Then you muster in the most erotic soft voice you can fabricate "Do you want to feel my skin?", he will of course become very taken off guard and say yes, when he's as most excited you elbow him in the face. If you're lucky and execute your move correctly you might even get a bonus and send his nose bone up his brain and instantly kill him.
Problem solved, happy I could help.  |
I'm sorry, but that would constitute assault if it doesn't kill him, and murder if it does... Sorry, but you would get busted for that if ANYONE heard what you said before you elbowed him, and if you got away with it, are you sure you could live with yourself afterward.
| SoulcakeDuck wrote: | | skonamis wrote: | | no one wants to be late at school, right? |
I have never been in time for school in my life. I have no sense of time and always late 15-20 min (even though I ALWAY plan to do things in time and always think that I will be on time). It's my trademark.
I believe that my classmates would take it as a sign of a coming apocalypse if I would show up in time, they would all shake and stare at me frozen in fear. |
Same with me, one time I was on time and they literally said "oh my god you're on time!"
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SoulcakeDuck
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| Posted: Sat Nov 14, 2009 6:27 am Post subject: |
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| Tach wrote: | | SoulcakeDuck wrote: | | skonamis wrote: |
Sometimes i still wish i was born as a boy so people wont check my looks that much. I am not interested in this man&woman stuff. It freakes me out. I wish i was the most unattractive girl in the world. So i could live with less anxiety. can't change what i am |
No you can not change who you are or what gender. But it is what it is you're a girl.
You wanna be a boy like me? I'm much like you, quiet, never bother anyone and do not seek attention and yes, told to be quite attractive. Then I'm labled as a homosexual and picked on by a horde of guys, you want that instead?
I got a gold solver for you, next time step on the buss and smile at him. He will then come sit next to you. Then you muster in the most erotic soft voice you can fabricate "Do you want to feel my skin?", he will of course become very taken off guard and say yes, when he's as most excited you elbow him in the face. If you're lucky and execute your move correctly you might even get a bonus and send his nose bone up his brain and instantly kill him.
Problem solved, happy I could help. |
I'm sorry, but that would constitute assault if it doesn't kill him, and murder if it does... Sorry, but you would get busted for that if ANYONE heard what you said before you elbowed him, and if you got away with it, are you sure you could live with yourself afterward. |
Live with myself? But of course. I would probably just go too a a café order myself a cheesecake and a cappuccino, grab a smoke after the snack followed by making my way home to play some video games.
Does that make me a horrible person?
| Tach wrote: | | SoulcakeDuck wrote: | | skonamis wrote: | | no one wants to be late at school, right? |
I have never been in time for school in my life. I have no sense of time and always late 15-20 min (even though I ALWAY plan to do things in time and always think that I will be on time). It's my trademark.
I believe that my classmates would take it as a sign of a coming apocalypse if I would show up in time, they would all shake and stare at me frozen in fear. |
Same with me, one time I was on time and they literally said "oh my god you're on time!" |
I heard that as well ones, and then they asked me if everything was OK.
Not that they would care whatever answer I would give but the reason for my punctuality was due to me being up all night writing an essay that was total bull crap and I just made sh** up and mixed some philosophical bull sh** in there and they ate it up, got a next to top grade on that paper and i just laughed when it was handed back.
I always love to read the teacher comment on the last page he/she adds and what they think was interesting about it, fools.
They are just people...
God I'm beaming, where does all this love come from?  |
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Followthereaper90
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| skonamis wrote: | They told me that if they told him to stop then he might not listen, and wont stop. But if i did... Well, if a miracle happens and i'd tell him(i don't think i can, because even to think of it makes me confused and scared) to stop then he also might not listen to me and keep doing this. I am quite sure that this guy is mentally retarded, because they are protecting him at some degree.
I'd like the see this school having a bigger picture of this. They should know that if that person will go work and living in real life then he might become dangerous to other people like me. After this bus thing i do not think that he doesn't know what he is doing. It is quite disturbing and sick. But you never know..
I am afraid what others might think if they see me in bus with that guy or at school. What if he lies to the school and tells that he hasn't done anything that i am making this up. I do not know if a mentally retarded person is capable of this. But never know again..
These are all my paranoid thoughts i guess
By the way, i skipped school today.  |
just ask him name from school to find him at facebook and tell him almost everyone are at facebook
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Tory_canuck
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| Quote: | | I'm sorry, but that would constitute assault if it doesn't kill him, and murder if it does... Sorry, but you would get busted for that if ANYONE heard what you said before you elbowed him, and if you got away with it, are you sure you could live with yourself afterward. |
Actually, it would not be murder...at most it would be manslaughter if he died.In order to charge someone with murder, there has to be that INTENT that they wanted to kill them (mens rea), in this case, since she did not have a weapon and that it was on the fly, it can only be manslaughter.HOWEVER, if she did not tell the guy come feel my skin, and the guy just came up and touched her or implied to and she decked him, she could argue self defence and state that she felt he was going to assault or kill her.One has the right to use reasonable force in defending themselves in accordance with the law.
Failing that, go to the police and file a restraining order...then the school will have no choice but to keep him away, or they can find themselves in legal hotwater.It does not cost anything to go to the police... If they charged you money for filing a restraining order, that would put the fundamentals of justice into disrepute.
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skonamis
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| Posted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 3:47 am Post subject: |
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I am not going to hit or kill that person. I wouldn't even touch him. I do not even want to see him.
Also i try to keep this topic updated by further investigations. |
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