hale_bopp
All Kinds of Freak
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 Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 7:15 pm Post subject: What type of man do you not want? |
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| Interested to see the opinions of women/gay men here. |
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Aimless
innocent bystander
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| Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 7:23 pm Post subject: |
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Anyone who refers to how attractive a woman is on a 1-10 scale. It really creeps me out.
More later... |
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hale_bopp
All Kinds of Freak
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Location: New Zealand
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| Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 7:26 pm Post subject: |
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| Aimless wrote: | Anyone who refers to how attractive a woman is on a 1-10 scale. It really creeps me out.
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Yeah that's pretty weird. |
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abaisse
Phoenix
Joined: Feb 05, 2011
Posts: 1360
Location: England
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| Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 8:06 pm Post subject: |
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Don't want...
- desperate
- clingy
- jealousy over my friends (some of whom are male)
- self-centered |
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Bloodheart
Grisha's Gal
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Age: 30
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Location: Newcastle, England.
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I have three rules;
1. No abusers - been there, done that, never again.
2. No one who disrespects me; I tolerated someone who once told me 'I wouldn't respect you if we did that' - men should respect you no matter who you are, what you do, or what you want to do in the bedroom, too many men go for you because of how you look then get put-off by the fact you have personality and opinions of your own, and try to put that side of you down by disrespecting that, no way bucko!
3. No one who says anything along the lines of 'Music is my life' - translation of which is normally 'You're never going to be the most important thing in my life' or in other words 'I will not commit'.
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wefunction
Christian Soccer Mom
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Age: 36
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There's obvious things like No Abuse. But other than the obvious things that are unacceptable to everyone, my list consists of one thing:
- No Negativity.
It's a lot easier for me to write a list of positive things that I would like in a partner than it is to cite the myriad of things that I would consider unacceptable. Detailing it all out, I end up with things like, "won't beat me awake at 3am" and "won't blow his nose at the dinner table" on the same list like they are equals and, we all know, these things are not equally unacceptable. In the end, what I really don't ever want around me is a negative man. He's got to be energetic, aggressive, ready for the challenge, confident, ambitious, positive and optimistic. Everybody has bad days, of course, but his genuine personality must have this drive in his heart. I treasure that and thrive off of it.
I've been with people who were very negative and were just bumps on a log. I like my carpe diem husband. |
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CWhite978
Blue Jay
Joined: Dec 16, 2007
Age: 24
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| Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 8:48 pm Post subject: |
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| wefunction wrote: | There's obvious things like No Abuse. But other than the obvious things that are unacceptable to everyone, my list consists of one thing:
- No Negativity.
It's a lot easier for me to write a list of positive things that I would like in a partner than it is to cite the myriad of things that I would consider unacceptable. Detailing it all out, I end up with things like, "won't beat me awake at 3am" and "won't blow his nose at the dinner table" on the same list like they are equals and, we all know, these things are not equally unacceptable. In the end, what I really don't ever want around me is a negative man. He's got to be energetic, aggressive, ready for the challenge, confident, ambitious, positive and optimistic. Everybody has bad days, of course, but his genuine personality must have this drive in his heart. I treasure that and thrive off of it.
I've been with people who were very negative and were just bumps on a log. I like my carpe diem husband. |
Unfortunately, the only thing you'll find on this planet are child molesting chimpanzees. |
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wefunction
Christian Soccer Mom
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| CWhite978 wrote: | | Unfortunately, the only thing you'll find on this planet are child molesting chimpanzees. |
Would you like to elaborate about this a little more so we can understand your point of view? |
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hale_bopp
All Kinds of Freak
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| Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 8:52 pm Post subject: |
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| CWhite978 wrote: | | wefunction wrote: | There's obvious things like No Abuse. But other than the obvious things that are unacceptable to everyone, my list consists of one thing:
- No Negativity.
It's a lot easier for me to write a list of positive things that I would like in a partner than it is to cite the myriad of things that I would consider unacceptable. Detailing it all out, I end up with things like, "won't beat me awake at 3am" and "won't blow his nose at the dinner table" on the same list like they are equals and, we all know, these things are not equally unacceptable. In the end, what I really don't ever want around me is a negative man. He's got to be energetic, aggressive, ready for the challenge, confident, ambitious, positive and optimistic. Everybody has bad days, of course, but his genuine personality must have this drive in his heart. I treasure that and thrive off of it.
I've been with people who were very negative and were just bumps on a log. I like my carpe diem husband. |
Unfortunately, the only thing you'll find on this planet are child molesting chimpanzees. |
She's married.. |
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CWhite978
Blue Jay
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Age: 24
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My statement still stands.
Heh. It's not my fault. |
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Bethie
Take your hierarchical ethics elsewhere.
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Age: 25
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Location: My World, Highview, Louisville, Kentucky, USA, Earth, The Milky Way, Local Group, Local Supercluster
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A sexist republican meat eating theist.
Someone who's social wouldn't work very well, either-
they'd feel bad for leaving me alone to go out with friends, who I'd never be able to meet,
and I'd feel bad for causing him to be known as the guy with the weird girlfriend,
and resent him for choosing time with them over time with me.
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TeaEarlGreyHot
Your Maya
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| Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 10:13 pm Post subject: |
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An abuser.
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TeaEarlGreyHot
Your Maya
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| CWhite978 wrote: | | Unfortunately, the only thing you'll find on this planet are child molesting chimpanzees. |
Male is not synonymous with pedophile.
Seriously. 
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zen_mistress
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| Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 10:30 pm Post subject: |
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| Aimless wrote: | Anyone who refers to how attractive a woman is on a 1-10 scale. It really creeps me out.
More later... |
Agreed!
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zen_mistress
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| Bloodheart wrote: | I have three rules;
1. No abusers - been there, done that, never again.
2. No one who disrespects me; I tolerated someone who once told me 'I wouldn't respect you if we did that' - men should respect you no matter who you are, what you do, or what you want to do in the bedroom, too many men go for you because of how you look then get put-off by the fact you have personality and opinions of your own, and try to put that side of you down by disrespecting that, no way bucko!
3. No one who says anything along the lines of 'Music is my life' - translation of which is normally 'You're never going to be the most important thing in my life' or in other words 'I will not commit'. |
And this I agree with too..
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