Uprising
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 Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 8:01 am Post subject: (@ the men) Are you a sissy? |
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Do people often call u that? I know my dad does because I act like a wimp on purpose to troll the sweet jeebus out of him but he seems to take it literally actually (NT-trait?). He says I'm pretty damn good at it, naturally talented.
Sadly enough, my dad isn't the only one who thinks like this, I had been called a p**** enough at high school, some people actually thought I was gay at first sight. |
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kobi_galon
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I was called that too. Especially by my older brother (he's NT), who probably still thinks that I'm gay. He called me that when I was younger and didn't want to do things that he did when he was my age.
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bucephalus
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| Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 3:45 pm Post subject: |
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| kobi_galon wrote: | | I was called that too. Especially by my older brother (he's NT), who probably still thinks that I'm gay. He called me that when I was younger and didn't want to do things that he did when he was my age. |
having the balls to not do the things you were expected to is more of a brave feat |
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Aimless
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| Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 4:22 pm Post subject: |
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| bucephalus wrote: | | kobi_galon wrote: | | I was called that too. Especially by my older brother (he's NT), who probably still thinks that I'm gay. He called me that when I was younger and didn't want to do things that he did when he was my age. |
having the balls to not do the things you were expected to is more of a brave feat |
True. It's not being a sissy to choose not to do stupid things.
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sluice
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| Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 5:02 pm Post subject: |
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| I probably am, though no has had the nerve to call me that. People are idiots. I wouldn't let someone else give you your identity. |
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abacacus
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Before I started putting on weight people used to call me a bit of a sissy, I never did the stereotypical "little boy" stuff. I was more interested in reading a book.
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TeaEarlGreyHot
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I'm a sissy. 
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RockMaster0421
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| Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 7:28 pm Post subject: |
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| I hate all these cultural requirements on men forcing them to be aggressive, brutal assholes instead of caring, sympathetic beings! f**k YOU CULTURAL NORMS!!! |
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unduki
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| RockMaster0421 wrote: | | I hate all these cultural requirements on men forcing them to be aggressive, brutal assholes instead of caring, sympathetic beings! f**k YOU CULTURAL NORMS!!! |
Amen!
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nick007
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I've been called wussy aLOT & another word that rhymes with wussy but starts with a P. My personality is kind of the opposite of the stereotypical masculine guy, I have anxiety issues & some people think I'm really sweet
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RockMaster0421
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| nick007 wrote: | | I've been called wussy aLOT & another word that rhymes with wussy but starts with a P. My personality is kind of the opposite of the stereotypical masculine guy, I have anxiety issues & some people think I'm really sweet |
Way to go bro! I'm with ya on this one! Only other thing I have to say is that it can be really tough for guys to actually be like you- I for one often find it somewhat tempting to be aggressive or assertive in many cases. I try to be as empathetic and caring as I can, but I have very low tolerance for certain types of people. |
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kobi_galon
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| Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 9:10 pm Post subject: |
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| Aimless wrote: | | bucephalus wrote: | | kobi_galon wrote: | | I was called that too. Especially by my older brother (he's NT), who probably still thinks that I'm gay. He called me that when I was younger and didn't want to do things that he did when he was my age. |
having the balls to not do the things you were expected to is more of a brave feat |
True. It's not being a sissy to choose not to do stupid things. |
Yes, I agree with you guys. And that's what I always thought when he called me sissy (or something else that meant this). I just couldn't say it to him, because of my lack of communication skills. But I always had this in mind. And I never ever wanted to be like him or other boys who did stupid things.
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Ganondox
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Eeyup.
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I have not. I like to think give off a "Push the wrong button and that guy will explode" vibe.
Come on, push the button, I dare you 
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AnonymousAnonymous
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| Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2012 1:30 pm Post subject: |
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| TeaEarlGreyHot wrote: | | I'm a sissy. |
Same here, but proud of my sissiness. 
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