SillyEnigma
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| All of these are pointless, but tell me. Mine is just like I'll be someone people don't approve of and they'll hurt me. And I let it ruin my life in total. Hby? |
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TenPencePiece
Curiosity Killed the Cone
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Location: Greater Manchester, United Kingdom
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Everything
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IdahoRose
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- People making fun of me because of my special interests and hobbies
- My artwork being deemed "unacceptable" (either because of my skill level or my drawings' content)
- People laughing at me behind my back
- Being annoying/irritating towards people I care about
- Hypochondria
- My friends, my pets and my family/relatives dying (which I'm sad to say is a real possibility concerning one of my cousins at the moment...)
- People thinking I'm too fat or ugly (though this is probably something every woman worries about, especially in Western countries)
- My special interests ending and not being able to find new ones
- Feeling guilty over things that aren't my fault/have nothing to do with me
- Being hurt/betrayed by the people I'm close to (which is why I rarely trust anyone, and have actually wound up hurting others myself through having a "hurt them before they hurt me" mentality)
- Losing my religious faith
- Throwing up
- Things being stuck in my throat
- Being considered a mean person
- Completely losing (what's left of) my sanity
- Unleashed dogs attacking me when I go running at the park
Wow, I knew I was a worrier but I never realized just how many things I was so concerned about in my daily life. There's probably even more but that's all I can think of right now. |
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Sylkat
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A few items on Idaho Rose's list are my fears, too.
An absolutely paralyzing fear of heights is my worst.
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nick007
old-skewl fan-boy
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Age: 30
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Location: was Louisiana but moved in with my girlfreind in Vermont
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Yoshie777
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Location: Seattle, WA
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I would normally have some, but I can't explain them at this time...I've been hampered!
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Sweetleaf
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Location: Somewhere in Colorado
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-Society.
-Being bullied by teachers and students growing up.
-People judging me and causing me harm due to their judgement.
-having ptsd, anxiety, panic attack symptoms at inopportune times and the worst that could happen because of it.
-failing at life
-being a burden to others/otherwise causing them trouble
-getting manipulated/used
-feeling worthless
-life in general
-feeling totally misunderstood, alienated and lonely
-things that trigger my symptoms or that I think will trigger my symptoms.
-what the mental conditions I have, have probably done to my brain by now...long term depression does not look pretty according to the picture and description and the anxiety and PTSD probably don't help matters.
and that's about all I can think of at the moment.
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rebbieh
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Age: 22
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Location: Sweden
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- Working (I absolutely hate my job)
- People laughing at me
- That I'll hurt people close to me because I don't always pay much attention to them
- Making mistakes
- Meeting new people
- Travelling to new places by myself
- Something bad happening to my family
- Being a burden to people
- Feeling misunderstood
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2wheels4ever
Just Another Weirdo From L.A.
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Age: 41
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Location: Losing status at the high school
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| Yoshie777 wrote: | | I would normally have some, but I can't explain them at this time...I've been hampered! |
That reminds me, doing the laundry when others aren't already doing theirs
Yardwork when neighbors are doing theirs
Having a grand mal seizure on the road during rush hour
Running out of Diet coke and Swisher cigars
Getting my wheels jacked
Having to sleep behind dumpsters
Running out of special interests
Divorcing the ones I have now
Going to jail or the hospital |
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Moonhawk
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| I get random anxiety attacks out of nowhere, but some main things that do make me anxious/paranoid etc, are people who yell outside, i'm always afraid they might attack me, but because of my hearing it seems like they're close by when they're not :x And sometimes i'm scared that i wont have anything to do, which is impossible probably but oh well. |
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Bun
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| Communication with females is at the highest risk factor for anxiety/paranoia/negativity to me. |
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SillyEnigma
Blue Jay
Joined: May 14, 2012
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| Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 2:07 pm Post subject: |
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| Okay, Aspies just seem to have a negative attitude about everything...Would you stop if you could? |
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identity
Disconnected
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Location: South West UK
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Yes too much with me aswell. Absolutely I would like to stop because apart from anything else it's such a waster of energy. How to stop though is the question...  |
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tuffy
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I've just got back to work after 7 weeks of severe depression and anxiety. Now that I'm well enough to interact with people again it becomes even more obvious that I get a lot less anxiety at work. I like my job and there I'm in control; it's people wanting things from me, which makes a big difference. In my private life a have phone phobia & people phobia. When I'm at work I can act pretty social, it is very draining, but I can do it.
And now that I'm outed at work, as someone with mental issues, they respect me more. |
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SilkySifaka
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Age: 27
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Location: UK
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I am anxious about almost everything, even when I know logically that there is nothing to worry about.
- I worry that my boyfriend will stop loving me (even though he has never done or said anything to make me feel that way)
- I worry that somehow I will do something wrong without realising and everyone will be angry and upset.
- I worry that people will laugh at me (this does actually happen quite a lot)
- When I have a job I am always worried that I will get fired, even though I've never been fired or ever had a disciplinary of any kind.
- I worry that my boyfriend, my Mum or my sister will die.
- I worry that I won't be able to have children.
- I worry that something will happen to the few possessions I have that are very precious to me (although worthless to everyone else)
- I worry that people don't like me, even people I have been friends with for a long time.
- I worry that I am a disappointment to everyone (even though my family have never done or said anything to make me feel that way)
I'm much less anxious now than I was when I was younger, so I am slowly improving. |
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