Taybot97
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| I guess either of those two things make sense. It doesn't make sense why this is common among girls my age, if the feelings are gone in under 5 months they couldn't have been great in the first place. I understand if you think they can grow to try it but if they don't it shouldn't last more than a month. I don't understand NT and I don't understand girl, so once again I'm glad all you are here to help. |
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ghostar
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Location: Most likely work. Sigh.
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| Posted: Mon May 21, 2012 11:32 pm Post subject: |
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| I agree with what IlovemyAspie has said for better or worse. |
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IlovemyAspie
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Location: On the brink....
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| Posted: Mon May 21, 2012 11:46 pm Post subject: |
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| Understanding NTs and girls will come with time. There are NT guys that don't understand NT girls! You're right about 1 month. 5 months was just too long for her to be acting like that. Oh well, better 5 months than 5 years. School will be out so enjoy the summer! |
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Chipshorter
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Age: 34
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Location: The Georgian Quarter of The Pool of Life, The Centre of The Creative Universe
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| Posted: Mon May 21, 2012 11:58 pm Post subject: |
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I had a girl who did just that "I don't know" phrase all the time.
This is what I did with her, I started saying "I don't know" too alot more times that she would plus right after she would say it.
The reason for this was to point out to her that she was saying this too much & it pissed me off! Doing that worked, she stopped for a month then start doing it again. So I did that again this time she got pissed off with me of copying her.
Next I try to question her to see if it was indecision or that she was hiding something from me. At first it was indecision but one night when she was doing it, I questioned her. She refused to answer then asked for a brake in the relationship. I thought ok
Now a few months late, she comes back to like everything was ok & back to square one.  Two weeks after getting back with her she was still doing the same old "IDK" crap, in one chat with her I lost it when say that. I said "You f***ing know, NOW make a bloddy decision!", we had a fight then she told me that she was seeing another bloke behind my back. In the end I got rid of her.
Basically you need to challenge your gf about the issue or end the relationship, for you own insanity. 
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Taybot97
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| Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 12:23 am Post subject: |
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| My best choice still appears to be break up. I guess Ill do it Wednesday, like I said earlier to avoid attention. Sure 5 months is better than 5 years of a 'fake' relationship, but had I know it would end like this I would have just let her be from the beginning. Because for me learning my girlfriend and one of the only people I would call friend never really liked me is pretty crappy feeling. Atleast hurray for summer, whatever fun possibilities I thought could happen have been changed to skyrim alone in my room. Whatever, that's fun too. |
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IlovemyAspie
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| Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 1:33 am Post subject: |
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| Yes I'm sure it is a crappy feeling but guess what? I bet you'll know better next time, right? So you'll learn from this and keep it from happening again. As long as you learned something then that 5 months was worth something. |
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