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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 1:41 am    Post subject: Dear holy Jesus Reply with quote

I got a 21 year old all up in love with me! WTF!!!!! WHY?????

Now first off, even if my husband hadnt apologized and showered the other night, and been working and give me $300 on payday for the house, and today spet the day cutting the grass and the ines even though he messed up my tree with he idiotstick, still.

Aint no 21 yo got no right to be saying sh** like that.

This particular kid, I've known him since he was 10. He's between the ages of my boys. Younger than my older and older than my younger. So he's friends with both. There was a time when he was about 17 when he tried to kill my younger son who was about 13 or 14 or something and then me and his mother threw down but then those boys made up and even though they made up, i threw the boy through the sheetrock just to show him dont mess with us, and he was ok with it.

Then fast forward to this past year. He stayed with my older son who hates us and is a douchebag and all and lived on his dime. so come to find out my sons ole lady is giving this sob head the whole time! yeah. wel i was FURIOUS with him and told him i done threw you through one wall you wanna go for another? he gives me this story about how sorry he is and how whorey she is and i sorta buy it cause i know she's horey.

Anyway so he hits on me! ROFLMAO, really? Sweetie no. I'm pretending I don't know what you mean!

So he does this several times on FB. I still ignore him and talk to him like he's a kid.

Then tonight my daughter is having people over for a poker game. her and her fiance. It's a BYOB thing, and she wants wine and so do I. So I first go to the grocery store and they dont have what we want. I then go to he liqour store. Where my soon to be SIL works. Where my younger son works part time. Where his best friend works. It's a small town. Who'se out there but the boy! He's making lewd gestures to me with an ornge juice bottle. I get out of the van and say shake it baby its got more weight than anyhing youll ever handle. So I go in and my sons best friend goes "He's been talking about you". I said "Whats he said yall got any barefoot moscanto and also i want two bottles of some decent merlot." He goes I don't know about wine, pick it, it's yours for 5. So I got really dcent sh** for nothing. He's the owners brother. I said whats he been saying? He said he's been talking about your butt, cause you wear shorts. I said I smell pot, why yall been smoking pot in this store?????? (I know the kids who own it and they are careful to not lose the license) and so he changed the subject and kept on at me and finally I went out there and put the hrt on that boy.

I am sick and damn tired of people seeing me as some kinda piece of ho ass! Just cause I wear shorts and a tank top don't mean sh** except it's hot outside. And children aint got NO CALL to be discussing it, or else I'll be handing the their asses and taking them home to their mamas.

I'm sorry, but I'm PISSED!!!
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 1:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What happened tonight, OOM? Your writing seems disjointed and erratic. You're not known for random grammatical errors. You're in rare form tonight. I hope things are not as bad as they seem to me.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 1:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

D:
no way
sympathize with you on the shorts thing, getting leered at scared me into uncomfortable long pants on many a hot day in my teens
the rest is just...no way
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 1:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Half drunk and mad Sorry. I'll go into it more later. It's a kid I know, grown into a 21 yo who overstepped his boundries. I'll be happy to make him cookies, but I won't "make him cookies!

Know what I mean?
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 2:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Laughing

Kids in your town are weird OOM ... maybe you should get your water checked ...

At least the wine's cheap, though
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 3:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

redrobin62 wrote:
What happened tonight, OOM? Your writing seems disjointed and erratic. You're not known for random grammatical errors. You're in rare form tonight. I hope things are not as bad as they seem to me.

Um yeah I was wondering the same thing.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 4:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

We have a thread like this by her about once a week(not saying that theres anything wrong with drinking and posting just letting other members know because I was a bit concerned first time I saw one of this threads by OOM as well).

As for the thread itself: Be clear with the boy and tell him that he is the age of your son and it´d just be too weird/whatever.
You tried ignoring him and it doesnt work, try something else.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 7:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

spongy wrote:
I was a bit concerned first time I saw one of this threads by OOM as well).


I've seen a few now, I think they're great, usually quite comical. It'd make a good column of some sort ... The Adventures Of OOM or something
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 10:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My nephew did that a few years ago. I just redirected him that I would be no fun cause I was old and a homebody. He did get girlfriends eventually. My son said young guys want older women because of less drama and they are not looking to get knocked up like the younger ones who live off the state with three kids each.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 2:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

curlyfry wrote:
My nephew did that a few years ago. I just redirected him that I would be no fun cause I was old and a homebody. He did get girlfriends eventually. My son said young guys want older women because of less drama and they are not looking to get knocked up like the younger ones who live off the state with three kids each.


Okay wait, your nephew? Am I reading this wrong? Your nephew tried to come on to you, his aunt? Is this your real nephew? I'm not judging or anything. I just need some clarification.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 2:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Incest is best! (But that's relative).

A game the whole family can play!

(Sorry. Couldn't resist).
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 2:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

redrobin62 wrote:
Incest is best! (But that's relative).

A game the whole family can play!

(Sorry. Couldn't resist).
lmao
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 3:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

IlovemyAspie wrote:
curlyfry wrote:
My nephew did that a few years ago. I just redirected him that I would be no fun cause I was old and a homebody. He did get girlfriends eventually. My son said young guys want older women because of less drama and they are not looking to get knocked up like the younger ones who live off the state with three kids each.


Okay wait, your nephew? Am I reading this wrong? Your nephew tried to come on to you, his aunt? Is this your real nephew? I'm not judging or anything. I just need some clarification.


Yeah from an ex-inlaw, I know, it was weird and he was young and mixed up obviously but is better now.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 3:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

curlyfry wrote:
IlovemyAspie wrote:
curlyfry wrote:
My nephew did that a few years ago. I just redirected him that I would be no fun cause I was old and a homebody. He did get girlfriends eventually. My son said young guys want older women because of less drama and they are not looking to get knocked up like the younger ones who live off the state with three kids each.


Okay wait, your nephew? Am I reading this wrong? Your nephew tried to come on to you, his aunt? Is this your real nephew? I'm not judging or anything. I just need some clarification.


Yeah from an ex-inlaw, I know, it was weird and he was young and mixed up obviously but is better now.



Ohhh okay! I just read nephew and.....um thanks for the clarification!!! Very Happy
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 3:50 pm    Post subject: Re: Dear holy Jesus Reply with quote

OliveOilMom wrote:
I got a 21 year old all up in love with me! WTF!!!!! WHY?????

Now first off, even if my husband hadnt apologized and showered the other night, and been working and give me $300 on payday for the house, and today spet the day cutting the grass and the ines even though he messed up my tree with he idiotstick, still.

Aint no 21 yo got no right to be saying sh** like that.

This particular kid, I've known him since he was 10. He's between the ages of my boys. Younger than my older and older than my younger. So he's friends with both. There was a time when he was about 17 when he tried to kill my younger son who was about 13 or 14 or something and then me and his mother threw down but then those boys made up and even though they made up, i threw the boy through the sheetrock just to show him dont mess with us, and he was ok with it.

Then fast forward to this past year. He stayed with my older son who hates us and is a douchebag and all and lived on his dime. so come to find out my sons ole lady is giving this sob head the whole time! yeah. wel i was FURIOUS with him and told him i done threw you through one wall you wanna go for another? he gives me this story about how sorry he is and how whorey she is and i sorta buy it cause i know she's horey.

Anyway so he hits on me! ROFLMAO, really? Sweetie no. I'm pretending I don't know what you mean!

So he does this several times on FB. I still ignore him and talk to him like he's a kid.

Then tonight my daughter is having people over for a poker game. her and her fiance. It's a BYOB thing, and she wants wine and so do I. So I first go to the grocery store and they dont have what we want. I then go to he liqour store. Where my soon to be SIL works. Where my younger son works part time. Where his best friend works. It's a small town. Who'se out there but the boy! He's making lewd gestures to me with an ornge juice bottle. I get out of the van and say shake it baby its got more weight than anyhing youll ever handle. So I go in and my sons best friend goes "He's been talking about you". I said "Whats he said yall got any barefoot moscanto and also i want two bottles of some decent merlot." He goes I don't know about wine, pick it, it's yours for 5. So I got really dcent sh** for nothing. He's the owners brother. I said whats he been saying? He said he's been talking about your butt, cause you wear shorts. I said I smell pot, why yall been smoking pot in this store?????? (I know the kids who own it and they are careful to not lose the license) and so he changed the subject and kept on at me and finally I went out there and put the hrt on that boy.

I am sick and damn tired of people seeing me as some kinda piece of ho ass! Just cause I wear shorts and a tank top don't mean sh** except it's hot outside. And children aint got NO CALL to be discussing it, or else I'll be handing the their asses and taking them home to their mamas.

I'm sorry, but I'm PISSED!!!


I have no idea what this person is talking about. Too many unfinished words, run-on sentences, and indistinquishable ancronyms. If this is what the civilian world is becomming, my God do I fear retirement from the military - in fact, I fear it more than combat!

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