good stuff about shy guys

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so much negative stuff about the shy dateless guys well we should have some postive stuff about them
1-since their not good with women, they are most likely not going to cheat
2- they don't go to party's and get hook up on drugs or alcohol
3- they have no friends, so they have more time with their girlfriend

that just some I can think of.

1) Shy men tend to be more sensitive and some women find that very attractive.
2) Shy men try hard to please their woman. They are reliable, curteous, and sweet.
3) Shy men relate really well with shy women.

im one of those who has no friends, but i also hate to go out to bars and clubs by myself!!

I find it hard to believe that a male being shy is a positive in the cut throat world that we live in.
A male being quiet and shy is usually regarded by society as a weakness. Males are expected to make the first move and be able to deal with countless rejection from females.
Shy guys are unlikely to ever find suitable females because most(not all) females are usually attracted to strong, outgoing, attractive guys.
Shy/nice guys usually finish last because we usually have nothing to offer a female. The attractive, alpha male attracts most females.
Shy guys may either live lives of solitude or revert to the humiliation of online dating that is a lottery based on pure luck in the odd chance of meeting a female partner.

There are SOME positive aspects to be had... why not consider them instead of "throwing out the baby with the bath-water?"

Hard to imagine that only a couple generations ago, a kind man wooing a woman to get her to choose him and stay was considered perfectly normal. In trying to break away from any negatives of the past, our culture is also throwing away a lot of GOOD aspects in the process.

this is like saying "the best thing about not affording a car is all the excerisize i now get

All this should/could be applied to shy women as well. There's nothing inherently wrong with shyness; sure, it may garner you less opportunities, but honestly, it's not an end all be all deal.

I actually like the shy type. I don't mind being the 'chaser'. That's what attracted me to my guy. Chased him down! He's so sweet, sensitive and kind. I prefer that to the 'alpha' male type.

you know I never got why there so much hatred towards shy guys. They just stand there. They don't do anything and have no effect on any women life at all. But yet so many women hate them for some reason.

Still waters run deep.

My shy guy tends not to talk too much. Which is awesome, as I love the sound of my own voice

Plus it means he's less likely to pick someone else up while I'm trying to conjure up the courage to ask him out...

This supposed shy guy just did something totally out of the ordinary on his first date with someone last night: Made the first move... and we were both sober.