Anyone... want to come live with me?! :D

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Alright, so, I'm just putting this out there. Why not, right?

The thing is... last year someone messaged me (on here, actually) saying that he was in the same situation as I was (lonely, life going nowhere etc.) and that if we met up we might help each other... well, a week later, after constant chatting, we decided to live together. We happened to have not only these life circumstances in common, but were also attracted to each other and ended up falling in love. So living together a week later isn't too drastic, is it? (Especially, when, we both seemingly couldn't bear our lives.)

We lived together for six months until he said that apparently he didn't feel any love for me anymore. It was working wonderfully until then, or so I thought... he always said he wanted to do more things together, but didn't know what exactly (what we mostly did was watch movies, in my attempt to watch every single iPlayer film).

So... I've just been plunged to the underworld of solitude, once again... and it's more unbearable than ever before. I can't even get a cat because of my landlord, and now that I have nothing to lose I'm going to go all the way in my threats... because hey, having at least a cat is always better than just meeting the bleak darkness of the self every day, right?

So... I don't know. If there's possibly another Matthew out there, another person who's constantly desperate like I am... would you like to share life together?

Apparently, before he messaged me he read all of my previous posts on WP (I did write a lot) and that's how he came to know me and that circumstances in life are similar. I always thought that must surely be one advantage over dating sites: content over superficiality. But, this is not a dating site...

At any rate, as mentioned, I'm just leaving this out there. Statistically, with the billions of people in the world, there must be someone else out there who can mutually soften the pain of existence. And, so, since this is the site where my first love initially contacted me, here I am again, boldly striving to seek a needle in a haystack.

I do not happen to live on the same continent as you, but I am more than willing to offer you friendship.

In any instance, good luck with your quest!

Be careful who you meet over the internet, it can be very dangerous and deadly. Be very cautious and bring friends if you meet people, there are bad bad bad people out there who want to take advantage and do bad things to other people.


Only adopt a cat if you are going to be able to commit to that feline child for it's whole life.
If you aren't allowed to have cat says your landlord, what will you do? Just toss the feline child out? That feline child will be your child and you will have to take care of it as if it were a human baby you had. So unless you are really certain you can keep a cat and not abandon the poor feline child that needs its mother don't get one.

Chloe, please don't preach to me. I don't intend to abandon any cat - I truly love them. And the Internet isn't the nightmare you seem to be depicting, seriously. I met some of the best people I've known online... and the most stupid, hateful personalities offline, so there you go.

This is really a good idea in my opinion!
You can learn a lot about a person by reading what they write, especially what's written over a period of time and over a wide diversity of topics and emotions.

This is tempting offer.
If I didn't live on the transportationally opposite side of the hemisphere....

Good Luck! =)

I also wish you lots of luck, Mootoo.

Indeed, good luck An interesting thought, but I'm a little young I think, even if I am mature for my age. I wish you only the best of luck though, and I can still offer friendship.

Wouldn just blindly trust people over the internet. Definitely not just move together with someone.

Please, before you even consider anything like that, at least do a background investigation of the person. It is always best to meet a stranger in public and not to give out your personal address.

Unfortunately I'm married with kids

But yes, like everyone is saying - be very careful when it comes to meeting people off the internet. And I'm not just talking about violent sicko's. There are trolls who come on here just to 'make fun of the aspies', And one of these people could mess you around badly if they got it into their head that it would be fun to do so.

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