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AlphaNtu
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05 May 2014, 1:57 pm

I'm glad you guys found each other (Bill and your family). Sometimes the family who started out as friends are the best.

I wouldn't just outright dismiss your son's interpretation. He had no reason to willfully interpret what he heard that way, so if that was what he took away from what he heard, he could've been on the mark. How he treated your son afterward is suspicious. I feel bad for your son that he's just assumed to have been wrong, that might make a person feel like, "Well, I guess I'll just keep things to myself since no one will believe me (because they don't want to)".



Dan_Undiagnosed
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06 May 2014, 7:25 am

It seems odd to me that a single man in his mental and physical condition would even try to adopt. Sorry for your grief.



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18 Jul 2014, 9:04 pm

AlphaNtu wrote:
I'm glad you guys found each other (Bill and your family). Sometimes the family who started out as friends are the best.

I wouldn't just outright dismiss your son's interpretation. He had no reason to willfully interpret what he heard that way, so if that was what he took away from what he heard, he could've been on the mark. How he treated your son afterward is suspicious. I feel bad for your son that he's just assumed to have been wrong, that might make a person feel like, "Well, I guess I'll just keep things to myself since no one will believe me (because they don't want to)".


I am finally at a place where I can see that maybe LJ did not misinterpret anything. That does not mean that Bill would ever have acted on it.