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19 Apr 2014, 2:57 pm

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If I bothered to look I'm sure I could find just as many women as victims in similar situations.
Are you paranoid of women?You think I'd let someone hurt my son?


feminism is an ideology. it is not synonymous with women

Are you paranoid of feminists? If I do the same job as you,do it as well,shouldn't I get paid the same?


were did i say i am against equal pay for the same job as i do? i am a humanist and an egalitarian



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What is wrong with any of this?

You're seriously going to go to the wall defending a sign that makes a mockery of domestic violence (further 'humour' added for the part alcohol plays in such crimes)? Really? You think that's a-ok?

Is it really cramping your day to not be a sexist, misogynist prick? To constantly worry that if you call a woman a stupid b***h, or shout after her that you like her arse, that she might take it the 'wrong' way? If so, you have issues way beyond the impending feminazi matriarchy.



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19 Apr 2014, 3:02 pm

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tell me how feminists are, or feminism is, in any way a significant block to the ending of male circumcision.


I'll be happy to respond to you once you quote me correctly.

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Raising the issue of male circumcision is also easily taken as anti-semitism. [...] Far better to have a go at feminists for not doing what you want them to - it allows one the luxury of pretending it could all be sorted out if it weren't for feminism.


Oh, is that what I'm doing?

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19 Apr 2014, 3:10 pm

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Raising the issue of male circumcision is also easily taken as anti-semitism. [...] Far better to have a go at feminists for not doing what you want them to - it allows one the luxury of pretending it could all be sorted out if it weren't for feminism.


Oh, is that what I'm doing?


quite succinctly, yes.



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19 Apr 2014, 3:15 pm

You just seem sort of obsessed in a negative way,that's all I'm saying.
Men tell nasty jokes to other men(women do too), all the time,some are funny,some are not,it's up to individuals to say,hey,that's joke's not cool.
But you have to cut those of us who like dark humor some slack,we can't help it,we were born this way.


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19 Apr 2014, 3:21 pm

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I assume the Juice placard is a photoshop? What is the joke, I don't get it.


Its not photoshopped.

He obviously meant "Death to All Jews" (which is no laughing matter). But since he is such an ignorant doofus who cant spell- it came out as a promotion of genocide against Tropocana products. So its hard not to laugh at him.


Ty. I can't believe I didn't see that :pale:



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19 Apr 2014, 3:25 pm

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Haha that pretty much sums it up.



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19 Apr 2014, 3:53 pm

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tell me how feminists are, or feminism is, in any way a significant block to the ending of male circumcision.


I'll be happy to respond to you once you quote me correctly.


Oh, pffft. I thought I was quite clear, but obviously not. If there's anything you take issue with in what I've said, by all means, do. But that's about all I have to say to you - and other MRAs - on the matter.

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Raising the issue of male circumcision is also easily taken as anti-semitism. [...] Far better to have a go at feminists for not doing what you want them to - it allows one the luxury of pretending it could all be sorted out if it weren't for feminism.


Oh, is that what I'm doing?


Yes. There is no reason to drag feminists into this. It would be good if they were supportive of the issue - and many are, ffs - but to suppose feminism is in any way behind the perpetuation of male circumcision is stoooooooopid.

MRAs cannot but leap from talking about how the matter needs to be taken more seriously - 100% with them up to this point - without then leaping into how the feminists are against FGM but not MGM and oh! the hypocrisy. Which then devolves into stuff like this, of 'yes you are' 'no we're not' ' yes you are' ' no we're not', all the while male circumcision carries on unheeded. Why? Because MRAs would sooner make pissy jabs at feminists than actually do something about non-consented/medical male circumsision.

Frankly, this is what happens when your 'movement' can't analyse or critique for s**t. My call on the matter is, as stated, that MRAs are far, far more interested and invested in attacking and blaming feminists and feminism than they are in actually getting the issues they protest about thought about, talked about, and dealt with.

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I know male circumcision can kill! I'm against the practice, for goodness sake. Have I not made that clear? So, advocates of circumcision say: this particular form of circumcision is comparatively rare, there are far safer ways of performing the ritual, and indeed procedure. To which those of us opposed to such thing say.....? All together now: regardless of the safety of the procedure, it is still unnecessary surgery performed on an unconsenting child denying them the right to bodily integrity. Thank you!


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19 Apr 2014, 3:56 pm

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so you all think calling for men to be killed jokes. ok why don't you tell these feminists that they should also take jokes who get men fired for jokes they don't like.


news stories of men getting fired over dark humor by mainstream feminists



An indian woman living in Austin, Texas, took offense at a small joke posted on a sign outside a bar that said "I like my beer like I like my domestic violence: domestic". She freaked out, took a picture of it, posted it on Facebook and it went viral. Next day the bar manager fired the guy who posted the sign.


http://www.crimesagainstfathers.com/aus ... fault.aspx



Canadian Feminist Kyla Garvey Gets Two Firemen Fired

http://www.returnofkings.com/17666/cana ... emen-fired




Feminist gets programmers fired because she felt uncomfortable overhearing their dongle joke. Even took their pics and posted it on twitter.

http://venturebeat.com/2013/03/21/break ... n-twitter/


Feminist tries to get veteran fired over Twitter

http://facts-not-feminism.deviantart.co ... -447803591


Sephardic Male (and other MRA's), I have doubts about any of you being serious, but incase you are, I'd be curious to know what you think about this (If you don't already know what this is, read Wikipedia before you make a judgement):


A MODEST PROPOSAL

For preventing the children of poor people in Ireland, from being a
burden on their parents or country, and for making them beneficial to
the publick.

by Dr. Jonathan Swift


1729

(excerpt)

I shall now therefore humbly propose my own thoughts, which I hope will
not be liable to the least objection.

I have been assured by a very knowing American of my acquaintance in
London, that a young healthy child well nursed, is, at a year old, a
most delicious nourishing and wholesome food, whether stewed, roasted,
baked, or boiled; and I make no doubt that it will equally serve in a
fricasie, or a ragoust.

I do therefore humbly offer it to publick consideration, that of the
hundred and twenty thousand children, already computed, twenty thousand
may be reserved for breed, whereof only one fourth part to be males;
which is more than we allow to sheep, black cattle, or swine, and my
reason is, that these children are seldom the fruits of marriage, a
circumstance not much regarded by our savages, therefore, one male will
be sufficient to serve four females. That the remaining hundred thousand
may, at a year old, be offered in sale to the persons of quality and
fortune, through the kingdom, always advising the mother to let them
suck plentifully in the last month, so as to render them plump, and fat
for a good table. A child will make two dishes at an entertainment for
friends, and when the family dines alone, the fore or hind quarter will
make a reasonable dish, and seasoned with a little pepper or salt, will
be very good boiled on the fourth day, especially in winter.

I have reckoned upon a medium, that a child just born will weigh 12
pounds, and in a solar year, if tolerably nursed, encreaseth to 28
pounds.

I grant this food will be somewhat dear, and therefore very proper for
landlords, who, as they have already devoured most of the parents, seem
to have the best title to the children.

Infant's flesh will be in season throughout the year, but more plentiful
in March, and a little before and after; for we are told by a grave
author, an eminent French physician, that fish being a prolifick dyet,
there are more children born in Roman Catholick countries about nine
months after Lent, the markets will be more glutted than usual, because
the number of Popish infants, is at least three to one in this kingdom,
and therefore it will have one other collateral advantage, by lessening
the number of Papists among us.

http://www.gutenberg.org/files/1080/1080-h/1080-h.htm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_modest_proposal



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19 Apr 2014, 4:05 pm

Hopper, that was a Jewish website that I pointed you to, talking direectly about circumcision as a religious issue. I hardly avoided the connection there, nor did I "drag" feminists in.

I live in the US, where we have to deal with AIPAC. I can get a lot of crap for what I say, much more than you or starvingartist would have to worry about in the UK or Canada.



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19 Apr 2014, 4:09 pm

Angry MRAs are equivalent to radical feminists.


However, I agree that male circumcision is a fine example of double standards against males, it is not caused by women but much of the society take it as a natural standard procedure, which it should not. However, I've encountered a lot of women who prefer circumcised penises and get offended by the idea to stop the procedure, this attitude is purely cultural, Americans and Muslim societies encourage male circumcision hence why most of their women prefer circumcised penises for their partners and their sons (they find the idea of natural penis gross) while most European women find circumcision gross and backward.

No, "health benefits" and appearance benefits don't justify it, male circumcision is a mutilation too! It would be like saying that removing breasts from female infants has health benefits regarding breast cancer. Like the FGM, the custom had originally the same reasons: Controlling male sexuality and "preventing" boys to masturbate easily.

A skin product founded by Oprah contains male foreskin cells, just imagine how Oprah would respond if a skin cream for men went on the market that was made from parts of the genitalia of little girls. That would be an outrage and rightly so.

I am even against piercing ears of baby girls, let alone removing a whole foreskin, hmm that would be a hard conflict with any future partner who happens to be somehow even moderately religious; I don't know a single mother in my surrounding who wouldn't pierce her little daughters' ears or go against her boy's circumcision. That's another serious dating issue I didn't think about before! lol.



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19 Apr 2014, 4:47 pm

sephardic-male wrote:
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currently on twitter feminists are using the #killallmen hashtag advocating, murdering, genocide and enslavement of men. how comes feminists aren't protesting against that.


Like this one, you mean https://twitter.com/jaythenerdkid/statu ... 64/photo/1 ?


so a post of a pervert justify postings calling for my murder and enslavement




[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZcTG2yFcBE[/youtube]


#killallsephardic_male? Didn't see that. :P
Fixed the encoding wont work anymore with the s in the http every time ya put the url take the s off the https for it to work.


Here's my problem with all this though. I get that you guys are trying to get some sort of argument about hypocrisy going but are any of you actually offended by any of this? I am male and I don't find it offensive. I see it as hyperbole and I'm able to laugh at it. I'm not fearing for my life nor are my feelings hurt.

Honestly, are any of you truly offended by this.



i cannot laugh at postings of feminists openly advocating mass murder and enslavement of males which includes me. if the posts where doing the same towards women would you still laugh at them? why is it ok to call for killing of men and not women? why is that advocating the genocide of men is seen as humor but when it directed at women it is not?


It was meant to be a probing question. I wanted to see if you were truly offended or if you just wanted to debate. There is a very important difference and it matters.

I was trying to understand where you are coming from.



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19 Apr 2014, 4:49 pm

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Anyway, do you know who the real victim is? Muggins here. Because the fedora has been humiliated and ruined as a hat, so now I'm going to have to get a f***ing Homburg.


get a fez--fezzes are cool. also bowties. :wink:


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Angry MRAs are equivalent to radical feminists.


However, I agree that male circumcision is a fine example of double standards against males, it is not caused by women but much of the society take it as a natural standard procedure, which it should not. However, I've encountered a lot of women who prefer circumcised penises and get offended by the idea to stop the procedure, this attitude is purely cultural, Americans and Muslim societies encourage male circumcision hence why most of their women prefer circumcised penises for their partners and their sons (they find the idea of natural penis gross) while most European women find circumcision gross and backward.

No, "health benefits" and appearance benefits don't justify it, male circumcision is a mutilation too! It would be like saying that removing breasts from female infants has health benefits regarding breast cancer. Like the FGM, the custom had originally the same reasons: Controlling male sexuality and "preventing" boys to masturbate easily.

A skin product founded by Oprah contains male foreskin cells, just imagine how Oprah would respond if a skin cream for men went on the market that was made from parts of the genitalia of little girls. That would be an outrage and rightly so.

I am even against piercing ears of baby girls, let alone removing a whole foreskin, hmm that would be a hard conflict with any future partner who happens to be somehow even moderately religious; I don't know a single mother in my surrounding who wouldn't pierce her little daughters' ears or go against her boy's circumcision. That's another serious dating issue I didn't think about before! lol.


I think the radical* feminists get the edge, though, as they put effort and structure into their thinking, however wrong one may find it. Whereas for MRAs it's the equivalent of very basic comprehension learning - you know the kind of thing, where a paragraph will have three sentences, one of which is 'John's kite is red', and the question is, 'who has a red kite?'. It's like that, only everything is the fault of feminists and/or feminism.

Otherwise you make sensible and agreeable points.

*Do they designate themselves so, or are they designated so by others?


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19 Apr 2014, 9:28 pm

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Whereas for MRAs it's the equivalent of very basic comprehension learning - you know the kind of thing, where a paragraph will have three sentences, one of which is 'John's kite is red', and the question is, 'who has a red kite?'. It's like that, only everything is the fault of feminists and/or feminism.


Sure :)

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Frankly, this is what happens when your 'movement' can't analyse or critique for sh**. My call on the matter is, as stated, that MRAs are far, far more interested and invested in attacking and blaming feminists and feminism than they are in actually getting the issues they protest about thought about, talked about, and dealt with.


My movement can't analyze or critique? :D

Let's recap:

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If the majority of men's rights "activism" was put towards those issues that MRAs claim they care about (male circumcision, custody laws, prison rape, the draft, etc) rather than towards harrassing feminists and denouncing the gains of women, they might actually see support outside of Reddit.


The local NCFM chapter here does work on those issues. That's most of what they do.

From their April meeting agenda:

"4. First Steps Baby Expo, Saint Cloud, April 12"
"7. Rochester Baby & Kids Expo, May 17"
"9. Saint Francis Baby Fair, Shakopee, June 14"

They have booths at several of those events each year. They staff them for 4-8 hours with volunteers. The main issues that they do outreach on are circumcision, excessive drugging of kids, and unnecessary punishment of schoolkids for harmless things like fidgeting. The latter two would help a lot of Aspies and quite a few girls.


So yeah, you feminists were totally on target there.

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I really fail to see how women are protected from cheap import imports, more than men.


Not working in manufacturing is pretty good protection from import pressure. Is the gender breakdown different in the UK?


This is a stupid argument [...]


Yeah, calling my argument "stupid" is a much better way to "analyze or critique," especially when you guys get your facts wrong:

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http://www.wantedanalytics.com/analysis/posts/how-to-attract-more-women-to-close-the-gender-gap-in-manufacturing

The male-female split is 73%-27%. As the article noted, there's also a skill-gap in the same direction.


And again here:

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Obviously, manufacturing is a lot easier to cheaply do overseas then import than nursing or teaching.


It would actually be easier to import nurses and teachers. India is full of people more qualified to teach English than most Americans. Even for those who've emigrated, teaching certifications in the US are deliberately onerous. We also have full-fledged doctors from overseas already living here who aren't allowed to practice unless they re-do their internships. By contrast, an Indian engineer who moves here can compete for jobs from the day his plane lands.

It was extremely hard to move manufacturing overseas in the first place. The US didn't have a national highway system until the 1950s, and yet by the '70s and 80s we were building road systems in faraway parts of the world simply so that we could access cheap labor there. That meant building power plants and electrical grids, and even things as basic as a reliable water supply. Then we had to ship the machines there, and even a small lathe weighs 6,000 pounds.


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Men worked in jobs they would have preferred not to - still do. They had to do so because they could only get by selling their labour. That's capitalism.


No, it's reproduction. Not many women choose to never have sex, and until recently having sex meant having kids. Having kids meant having to work a lot. My point stands:

Regardless of how arbitrary gender roles were, women got the better half of those roles, since both men and women reliably choose stability and safety over freedom. That's why people keep applying for stable corporate jobs with good benefits even though they dislike them in most other ways.


You may not like this argument, and you may not agree with it, but you haven't offered a better one.

For a sideshow, the US president was fibbing on gender-issues here as well: "Today, the average full-time working woman earns just 77 cents for every dollar a man earns…in 2014, that’s an embarrassment. It is wrong."

http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/fac ... _blog.html
http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/fac ... io-rating/
http://spectator.org/blog/57588/obamas- ... m-debunked

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Oh, pffft. I thought I was quite clear, but obviously not. If there's anything you take issue with in what I've said, by all means, do. But that's about all I have to say to you - and other MRAs - on the matter.


Yes, so back to the first issue:

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MGM is normal in western society (and around the world). No, it does not make it right. But it does make it normal. It is particularly normal in the US


I'm not going to accept that any more than second wave feminists accepted 'normality' as an excuse for patriarchy or FGM.

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tell me how feminists are, or feminism is, in any way a significant block to the ending of male circumcision.


Where did you find "blocking" (or any synonym) in what I wrote? I'm obviously not going to answer for what you wish I'd said.



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20 Apr 2014, 1:52 am

I guess its easy to conclude that both feminists and MRAs are always angry! :lol:


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20 Apr 2014, 6:45 am

MGM is normal Hopper? Just because most do it?

Guess what, enslavement was done by most, was it normal?

Your argument regarding MGM is very weak.

and starvingkid, I *really* want to hear your opinion regarding MGM.



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20 Apr 2014, 6:52 am

sephardic-male wrote:
i am a humanist and an egalitarian


[Citation Needed]