My girlfriend removed me from Facebook

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Just ask her outright. Guessing won't be any good at this point. Teenage girls can be awfully confusing and indecisive at times.

Are you sure 'overreacting' isn't your middle name?:D

repeated post.

Last edited by Jono on 13 Apr 2014, 12:02 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Hang on. I need some more information than that for me to give an opinion. Why did you not want to spend time with those people in your family and why were you afraid that they would pick you up to go to the hotel anyway? For that matter, why would you be spending time with them in the hotel? From what you've written, I don't understand what you're saying but I do want give you advice if you can explain it better.

Edit: I've read your posts if I'm to understand you correctly, this about a problem with your father right? So, correct me if I'm wrong but from what I seem to understand, the issue is that live with your father, with who I suspect, you do not have a good relationship with, you lied to your girlfriend about your father allowing you some freedom and then you lied to your girlfriend a second time to cover up your first lie. Can I ask you a question? Are your parents divorced? If this information is true then I think that I know reason why your girlfriend may have removed you from her friendship list on Facebook. The problem is that isn't just a white lie, I think that you seemed to have lied to her repeatedly about your relationship with your father and given that I also think you're still both teenagers, there's a possibility that she may simply not be mature enough yet to deal with those kinds of issues in a relationship with someone. Please understand that while she may of decided that you have "too many issues" be her boyfriend after you had told her the truth, what happened is not your fault. I sincerely believe that two people in a mature adult relationship would be able deal with such issues, you just haven't found the right person yet.

Last edited by Jono on 13 Apr 2014, 11:59 am, edited 1 time in total.

I didn't want to go there for many reasons, one of them being that I just wanted to be home and if I wrote that I didn't want to come to my father and he just showed up either trying to pick me up or forcing me I would have a hard time forgiving him and I would feel very pissed.

Sorry to confuse you but I've edited my post. It's got some advice for you.

Well she's 22 and I'm 21 but still I think she should quit the attitude and talk to me about it and at least be my friend, I also blame my father more than her for this I just realized this now, if it wasn't for him being so untrustworhty I would still be with her.

Just based on what you wrote here I can tell you have too many issues. Plus your thinking is all confused and illogical and all over the place, half the time you are contradicting yourself.

There are no *shoulds* in life that are not followed by a lot of suffering, so just avoid them if you can.

Chill out dude. Seriously, all the worrying is not helping.

F*ck this, I sent a message and said that I'm bored and if she wants to hang out but no answer, now I'm more angry than sad, by the way she hasn't said nice things to me sometimes and goes emo like she's 10 and says that I made her cry around 15-20 minutes afterwards and that she won't smile anymore, she can also shut the f*ck up about telling me how to get friends when I have more than her and she doesn't have a disorder containing social problems while I have AS, I have some more explanation but maybe It's not worth it after this bullsh*t, she could at least keep me as a f*cking friend, how hard is it, I've read and heard about people including my mother who has lied (maybe on purpose unlike I who wasn't aware of things) and they have been forgiven and swore to never do it again and guess what, they were together until they didn't have feelings for each other, yet they remained friends, I also think she should be grateful for wanting to be with her because she said I can't have a normal brain after watching a cheap gore scene with little shock value in it with her.

Last edited by Lukario on 24 Apr 2014, 9:35 am, edited 1 time in total.

I don't see a reason to make a call if you decide to text either, I have problems sleeping at night (I haven't slept today) and I've cried/had tears in my eyes because of this, my f*cking father can't be trusted for sh*t no matter what he tries to convince me with, he of all people had to be that dumb and stubborn, FML (yes, It's childish to write those three letters but it gives a nice description of my current life situation) I feel like the tears are coming again soon as well

I just hope that I can at least explain myself fully, I really want to even though I may have to learn the lesson the hard way and at least remain friends with her if she is normal in the head and can accept it, I just did one little mistake which I wasn't aware of and I didn't see her in the (big) picture she wasn't a part of it then I just saw my dad, stephfather and mother as my enemies and I didn't think my mom would figure out her number and she would know, I curse that day so much.

You know, you are responsible for your half in any relationship you are involved in. This includes the relationships you have with your family, your friends and any potential girlfriend, and your business relationships. You have to do your part to sustain the relationships and know when to cut off when things aren't working out (especially when you know you are doing your best). Your ex may not understand this from what you have said.

I wish for you this much... knowing that you did the best you could with what you had. Ask yourself privately these kinds of questions rather than answer them here as they are for you, not us:

Did I do the best I could? If not, what do I need to do in order to improve moving forward? What kind of behaviour will I brush off and move on from? What will I not tolerate from other people?

If she unfriended you on FB I really don't think she's still your girlfriend. Most couples I know have their significant other listed as "In a relationship with...." on their FB. If she didn't have that to begin with and then got mad at you and unfriended you on FB, that's sort of like breaking up with you via FB.

Also, if she's gonna get so mad about something like that, do you really want to be walking on those kind of eggshells from now on? That's kind of f****d up. You really want to worry about her getting so mad over something that harmless?

I'd seriously move on.

Send her a Virus then DDOS her!

Maybe but I just don't get why she said it was okay some weeks later and then suddenly removed me as a friend, a normal person tells a person that they're not interested and I remember laying my arm around her, she said no and didn't want a hug and removed me as a friend days later, I don' think I tolerate this, I don't want her to frown at me when she sees me just because of a mistake I did.

It's a long time since I posted here but this needs an update.

I got courage and sent my ex a friend request which she accepted but then I sadly found out that she has been together with a guy she met early when school began about 1/2 year after she broke up with me.

In the end the one who matters most has to be my first ex who I overreacted at during something stupid 2 years before I met the ex in this topic, so far I've only said hi in one text message and my name in another when she asked who I was, maybe she's just forgotten my number since It's 6 fricking years since we had contact. I miss having her on my lap and holding around her.

Did you have another relationship ever since?