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09 Sep 2014, 2:47 pm

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A polite letter to the editor, asking for an apology to the AS community and for the part on Asperger's to be removed from the article, explaining that it's a misrepresentation and that AS isn't indicative of this sort of behavior. Would that be helpful?
reports care about storie and editors care about headlines,the media never cares about the people there stories hurt

So basically they'll look at it and have a good chuckle to themselves.



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09 Sep 2014, 9:26 pm

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Wow, and out comes all the ugly stigmas in the comments section. No empathy is there, just as predicted, wasn't expecting this forum to be described as full to the brim with "pick up artist" advice.

Oh, misogyny now. Who here hates women? Last time I checked I don't hate women, misogyny isn't normal for AS people, what rot.


I took a several year hiatus from this forum because of the rampant misogyny.

This place does not seem to have changed. People are demanding apologies yet if certain behaviours are tolerated and condoned then the forum gets a bad rep. It is not the first time that WP has been in the news for the.. "unfortunate" behaviour by a couple of it's members. If certain attitudes are tolerated and encouraged that may effect the actions of those members in the real world. WP has a culture of it's own and it is up to all members to make it a more positive one.



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10 Sep 2014, 2:57 am

Moromillas wrote:
vermontsavant wrote:
Moromillas wrote:
A polite letter to the editor, asking for an apology to the AS community and for the part on Asperger's to be removed from the article, explaining that it's a misrepresentation and that AS isn't indicative of this sort of behavior. Would that be helpful?
reports care about storie and editors care about headlines,the media never cares about the people there stories hurt

So basically they'll look at it and have a good chuckle to themselves.
its doubt full they they would retract or rewrite the article.but it never hurts to try if you have strong feelings about something.if we lived in a world of sinics nothing would ever changed.your call but I'm sinical


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10 Sep 2014, 3:02 am

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Wow, and out comes all the ugly stigmas in the comments section. No empathy is there, just as predicted, wasn't expecting this forum to be described as full to the brim with "pick up artist" advice.

Oh, misogyny now. Who here hates women? Last time I checked I don't hate women, misogyny isn't normal for AS people, what rot.


I took a several year hiatus from this forum because of the rampant misogyny.

This place does not seem to have changed. People are demanding apologies yet if certain behaviours are tolerated and condoned then the forum gets a bad rep. It is not the first time that WP has been in the news for the.. "unfortunate" behaviour by a couple of it's members. If certain attitudes are tolerated and encouraged that may effect the actions of those members in the real world. WP has a culture of it's own and it is up to all members to make it a more positive one.
when has a confirmed member of W.P been in the news for good or bad press.aside from this article.and if coarse excluding already famous members like Alex or J.E Robison.I mean members not known outside wrong planet


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10 Sep 2014, 7:13 am

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when has a confirmed member of W.P been in the news for good or bad press.aside from this article.and if coarse excluding already famous members like Alex or J.E Robison.I mean members not known outside wrong planet

I'm really not comfortable answering specifically and I fear it would get deleted anyway. WP has been in the news before a few years ago now.. someone was posting.. "disturbing" things and it turned out he wasn't just trolling. :(



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10 Sep 2014, 12:53 pm

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There's a lot of stupid, naive and uninformed NT people out there who just can't be arsed to look into the facts and form an informed opinion of what autism is really like.
if you were to substitute "one race" for "NT", and "another race" for "autism", would you not have a pretty good working definition of racism? different things can be similar in some ways. oppression is as oppression does.



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10 Sep 2014, 3:21 pm

riley wrote:
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when has a confirmed member of W.P been in the news for good or bad press.aside from this article.and if coarse excluding already famous members like Alex or J.E Robison.I mean members not known outside wrong planet

I'm really not comfortable answering specifically and I fear it would get deleted anyway. WP has been in the news before a few years ago now.. someone was posting.. "disturbing" things and it turned out he wasn't just trolling. :(
I have never heard of that.never heard of W.P in the news.and certainly not in a negative way


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10 Sep 2014, 8:33 pm

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I'm really not comfortable answering specifically and I fear it would get deleted anyway. WP has been in the news before a few years ago now.. someone was posting.. "disturbing" things and it turned out he wasn't just trolling. :(


Are you referring to William Freund?
http://murderpedia.org/male.F/f/freund-william.htm


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10 Sep 2014, 8:36 pm

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Now we've got the general public finding L &D and thinking that's all Wrong Planet is like. Very worrying.

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Given the nature of the complaint, the knowledge of the site displayed by that commenter, and the name they posted under, I'm pretty sure that's a certain disgruntled L&D regular taking advantage of the soap box, not some random person that happened to stumble in here.


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10 Sep 2014, 11:34 pm

vermontsavant wrote:
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Moromillas wrote:
A polite letter to the editor, asking for an apology to the AS community and for the part on Asperger's to be removed from the article, explaining that it's a misrepresentation and that AS isn't indicative of this sort of behavior. Would that be helpful?
reports care about storie and editors care about headlines,the media never cares about the people there stories hurt

So basically they'll look at it and have a good chuckle to themselves.
its doubt full they they would retract or rewrite the article.but it never hurts to try if you have strong feelings about something.if we lived in a world of sinics nothing would ever changed.your call but I'm sinical

If you put it that way, then perhaps it's worth a shot. I'll make it as diplomatic as possible.

TYT has also picked up the story:
http://youtu.be/myUUjZCVklA



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11 Sep 2014, 2:16 am

Moromillas wrote:
vermontsavant wrote:
Moromillas wrote:
vermontsavant wrote:
Moromillas wrote:
A polite letter to the editor, asking for an apology to the AS community and for the part on Asperger's to be removed from the article, explaining that it's a misrepresentation and that AS isn't indicative of this sort of behavior. Would that be helpful?
reports care about storie and editors care about headlines,the media never cares about the people there stories hurt

So basically they'll look at it and have a good chuckle to themselves.
its doubt full they they would retract or rewrite the article.but it never hurts to try if you have strong feelings about something.if we lived in a world of sinics nothing would ever changed.your call but I'm sinical

If you put it that way, then perhaps it's worth a shot. I'll make it as diplomatic as possible.

TYT has also picked up the story:
http://youtu.be/myUUjZCVklA
yea sure,I wouldn't bother,but if you to go ahead.if they chuckle,take it as a badge of courage


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11 Sep 2014, 2:29 am

Moromillas wrote:
TYT has also picked up the story:
http://youtu.be/myUUjZCVklA


Actually, Cenk gets this one pretty right IMHO, and I don't usually care much for him.


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12 Sep 2014, 10:55 pm

Hi_Im_B0B wrote:
Charloz wrote:
There's a lot of stupid, naive and uninformed NT people out there who just can't be arsed to look into the facts and form an informed opinion of what autism is really like.
if you were to substitute "one race" for "NT", and "another race" for "autism", would you not have a pretty good working definition of racism? different things can be similar in some ways. oppression is as oppression does.


Where in the WashingtonPost article [which is what this thread is about] is there evidence of oppression of those with autism? Sometimes I try to read to fast- I'll give that. Perhaps I missed it.

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Bad press comes up constantly about one forum or another pretty frequently, the mentions of Asperger's as well as WrongPlanet in the Post article are basically that- mentions.

I admin'd a [support] forum in the past that was reported about in a heavily circulated paper, in a not so positive light. But... ultimately what are you going to do but forge on, as you were, take advantage of the traffic boost and just be on guard for the possiblity of more trolls in the meantime?

It sucked that like 70% of what was reported was skewed BS initially associated directly with the site [I used to be on] but it ended up being a real boost in the end. Any kind of attempted recourse will likely just be skewed.
No win there.


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12 Sep 2014, 11:11 pm

Also, is it going to piss everyone off if I respond in commentary on the Post, by the way? [to a user comment]


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06 Oct 2014, 2:35 pm

Moromillas wrote:
A polite letter to the editor, asking for an apology to the AS community and for the part on Asperger's to be removed from the article, explaining that it's a misrepresentation and that AS isn't indicative of this sort of behavior. Would that be helpful?


I don't like the implications of that stating "No one can say anything bad about people with a form of Autism!" I've found people claiming their or their child's Autism means they shouldn't be told they're wrong, and they didn't realize they were doing anything bad. It gives NTs reason to avoid us, because what is advocated is having a form of Autism means your a angel and if you do any harm you didn't understand. It's infantilizing people with Autism, and worse making people wary about being around someone with Autism who can't be held accountable for anything.

It's one of the main reasons "entitled" Aspies want to avoid LFA. It's not about Autism, it's that anyone would prefer to avoid people who can't be counted on to be responsible. The probem is Autism advocates advocated "I have Autism!" should be the response to any issue. Can't help not touching others, "I have Autism!" That's not how things should work, if you have issues with self control you need to apologize if you disturb others. I realize I've gone off topic, but I really tire of the notion that advocacy means demanding unconditional acceptance from others, and that everyone must sympathize with the aspects of Autism that tramples on people's personal borders.

This man did a bad thing, and when you do bad things you need to be held accountable for them. It only reinforces the stereotype that people on the Autism spectrum are childlike when our response to one of our own doing wrong is, "BUT HE HAS AASSSPPPEERRGGGERRRS!"
instead of respecting he screwed up and should face the music. Or has Autism advocacy become about demanding society respond to our mistakes like toddler who made a boo boo? I'd rather have my dignity, than play into the "forever child" stereotype of Autism. It's part of
growing up, learning responsibility. Why insist society must treat us like fragile children because we were born differently?



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06 Oct 2014, 4:00 pm

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riley wrote:
I'm really not comfortable answering specifically and I fear it would get deleted anyway. WP has been in the news before a few years ago now.. someone was posting.. "disturbing" things and it turned out he wasn't just trolling. :(


Are you referring to William Freund?
http://murderpedia.org/male.F/f/freund-william.htm



Uh oh, you broke a rule, provoking members. :lol:

I remember mentioning him years back and this got me into lot of trouble and I was told I was provoking members by bringing up a incident that may upset members. But perhaps that rule changed.


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