Stargazer43 wrote:
Most things in life required hard work to achieve, and this is one area that's no different, particularly for those of us who have additional challenges to overcome.
True enough, just like with career I often feel like I'd have to work twice as hard to achieve the same thing, twice as hard to get the same credit.
Stargazer43 wrote:
Figure out what is causing you difficulties, and try to work on those issues. I'm starting to see a therapist this week to work on mine...
Hmmm. Maybe my shrink can refer me to whatever type of therapist does that sort of thing.
I don't even know if I really have a "mental barrier" or if it's only something in my head.
Stargazer43 wrote:
I remember when I switched from my original "apartment selfie" to a picture in front of a waterfall, the response rate to my messages went through the roof.
Wow that seems like such a simple thing. There are a few waterfalls 'round here, I just need to figure out which of my friends is the best photographer.
That's another difficulty I have. It seems like men and women think differently and that makes it harder to figure out what women are thinking. I mean, when I judge a woman's picture on her profile, I do it solely based on attractiveness, I'm unlikely to notice what's the the background.
The only problem with having a background such as a waterfall is that in order for my face to be recognizable in a thumbnail I always have to heavily crop the picture and that means there might not be much background to be seen.
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