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21 Oct 2014, 11:24 am

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Now there is a good outfit... for attracting some females.


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21 Oct 2014, 11:26 am

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Notice how they carry themselves when they wear the clothes, look at how the clothes fit them as the fit is very important.


There is indeed something to be said for tailored clothing instead of standard measure (off the rack) clothes. Since such clothes are made to fit your own personal sizes and would therefore fir a lot better.
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Also probably expensive.


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21 Oct 2014, 12:21 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
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Now there is a good outfit... for attracting some females.


That isn't a professional image for many professions, doctor, lawyer, police officer, teacher, accountant, military, civil servant or anyone in an authoritative position.



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21 Oct 2014, 12:37 pm

^ but isn't bad for a filmmaker I guess.



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21 Oct 2014, 12:56 pm

Brianruns10 wrote:
s**t this is all so overwhelming. I just don't know where to begin, because up to now I've never cared about clothes. I still don't, but I just wanna get more women to notice me. I don't even know how much to spend or if I can afford these clothes.


Charity shops, thrift shops, ebay or Primark. Looking good doesn't have to break the bank.



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21 Oct 2014, 1:03 pm

You don't have to break the bank to look nice. Just check out the websites of cheaper trendy brands such as H&M, Old Navy or Gap and find the look that you'd be comfortable in.
All you need is some plain shirts, thin cardigan or sweater, and straight-legged dark wash jeans or maybe corduroy pants But you need to make sure they all fit your body nicely.
AVOID pleated pants and baggy shirts.
Don't you have a female friend who would help you shop for clothes?



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21 Oct 2014, 1:04 pm

AlexanderDantes wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
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Now there is a good outfit... for attracting some females.


That isn't a professional image for many professions, doctor, lawyer, police officer, teacher, accountant, military, civil servant or anyone in an authoritative position.


And? as I said it all depends on the type of female one wants to attract....I have no idea what the OPs preference is....but if they are a metal-head or even into punk they should wear that except with punk they'd have to put punk rather than metal patches on their vest. Of course if they also have a professional career with a dress code they should tone it down for work but when off work why stick to that look? If the OP is more of what you describe then they probably would not be into the females that sort of dress would attract and thus should not wear that.


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21 Oct 2014, 3:18 pm

sorry



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21 Oct 2014, 4:21 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
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Sweetleaf wrote:
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Now there is a good outfit... for attracting some females.


That isn't a professional image for many professions, doctor, lawyer, police officer, teacher, accountant, military, civil servant or anyone in an authoritative position.


And? as I said it all depends on the type of female one wants to attract....I have no idea what the OPs preference is....but if they are a metal-head or even into punk they should wear that except with punk they'd have to put punk rather than metal patches on their vest. Of course if they also have a professional career with a dress code they should tone it down for work but when off work why stick to that look? If the OP is more of what you describe then they probably would not be into the females that sort of dress would attract and thus should not wear that.


Professionals should maintain a respectable appearance outside of their profession as they are a representation of that institution or corporation, there's nothing wrong with that appearance but you should maintain a respectable image outside of the work environment. You have to ask what type of image you want to promote, Brian isn't a biker and for him to dress like a biker would be detrimental.

It is much better to dress in a professional manner and if Brian wants to add a hipster vibe on top of that, that can be done easily. You can't go wrong with that and you can attract women at any age with a professional and sharp image.

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Brian, just get one well tailored slim black suit to begin with.



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21 Oct 2014, 4:23 pm

sly279 wrote:
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You don't have to break the bank to look nice. Just check out the websites of cheaper trendy brands such as H&M, Old Navy or Gap and find the look that you'd be comfortable in.
All you need is some plain shirts, thin cardigan or sweater, and straight-legged dark wash jeans or maybe corduroy pants But you need to make sure they all fit your body nicely.
AVOID pleated pants and baggy shirts.
Don't you have a female friend who would help you shop for clothes?


old navy doesn't sell clothes in my size any more they use to but not anymore.
I have to wear baggy shrits. i'm a 2xl size but have to wear 3x-4x depending on the company to cover my gun. also I don't like people seeing my man boobs. (no one wants to see the outlines of my fat body anyways lol)

whats pleated pants?

my sister picked out my shirts, my pants are either khaki/tan or camo. i have some black jeans but they are uncomfortable.


Yeah sorry my post was intended to the OP specifically.



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21 Oct 2014, 4:34 pm

Brian you don't need a suit. No one wears a suit to a date. You just need some casual but tasteful geek-chic clothes.
And get a proper haircut by a female stylist. And a stylish pair of glasses makes a big difference too (you wear glasses don't you?)
Like these:
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21 Oct 2014, 5:31 pm

Yuzu wrote:
Brian you don't need a suit. No one wears a suit to a date. You just need some casual but tasteful geek-chic clothes.
And get a proper haircut by a female stylist. And a stylish pair of glasses makes a big difference too (you wear glasses don't you?)
Like these:
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He needs to come across as sharp, edgy and confident. If you think no one wears a suit to a date, you clearly haven't been taken to an upscale restaurant in the New York or London area.

Here's good advice.
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/05/2 ... irst-date/

So it depends on the area, venue and type of girl, an unbuttoned shirt, skinny black blazer with black skinny jeans works well but if you are going for professional, conservative women, go for a professional look.

By any means, stay away from converse shoes, they are for teenagers.



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21 Oct 2014, 5:45 pm

^ Have you ever seen his dating site profile? I have and he's not a "black skinny jeans" type. And he does not have a lot of money to spend on clothes, let alone taking a date to an upscale restaurant. Give more practical advice tailored to the OP.



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22 Oct 2014, 3:26 am

I wouldn't dress differently to attract someone. That to me would be trying to be something that I'm not.



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22 Oct 2014, 3:29 am

Yuzu wrote:
Brian you don't need a suit. No one wears a suit to a date. You just need some casual but tasteful geek-chic clothes.
And get a proper haircut by a female stylist. And a stylish pair of glasses makes a big difference too (you wear glasses don't you?)
Like these:
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Both guys look fine :)



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22 Oct 2014, 3:39 am

andrethemoogle wrote:
I wouldn't dress differently to attract someone. That to me would be trying to be something that I'm not.


That's true, my advice was based on the assumption that Brian's taste in clothes is mainstream, hence my mainstream advice.