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23 Oct 2014, 4:03 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Always the shirt above the short, don't put it inside the short.

I sed dat one already :D



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23 Oct 2014, 4:04 am

yellowtamarin wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Always the shirt above the short, don't put it inside the short.

I sed dat one already :D


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23 Oct 2014, 5:25 pm

If you don't feel confident enough to pull off something "edgy" or something that stands out go with with a classic "timeless" look - neutral which shouldn't equal boring, be it jeans and a button up shirt or a more discrete suit. Best advice given here is well fitting clothes, this can make a world of difference. If you can't afford tailored just shop around, thrift stores included until you find something that fits you properly. Boo made some good points on what to avoid.

And something else, you should still feel good and at ease in those clothes otherwise you might as well not bother. I still remember one night out, there were some fancy dress events in the city - I can't remember why - and I saw a young guy wearing a very well made, well-fitted Victorian suit, watch chain, top-hat, cane and all, looking so embarrassed and self-conscious it was a shame, 5 minutes later we pass another dude wearing a pink bathrobe with fluffy slippers, king of the ball surrounded by girls, he was enjoying it and making it work so well. Some people can actually pull off the squid hat and long beard :lol:

To sum up, well-fitting clothes in which you feel comfortable/yourself. Trends and eccentricities or strong styles are best suited for people who feel very confident with their bodies and themselves, no offence meant here, I only react to what you wrote earlier.


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23 Oct 2014, 8:25 pm

BenderRodriguez wrote:
If you don't feel confident enough to pull off something "edgy" or something that stands out go with with a classic "timeless" look - neutral which shouldn't equal boring, be it jeans and a button up shirt or a more discrete suit. Best advice given here is well fitting clothes, this can make a world of difference. If you can't afford tailored just shop around, thrift stores included until you find something that fits you properly. Boo made some good points on what to avoid.

And something else, you should still feel good and at ease in those clothes otherwise you might as well not bother. I still remember one night out, there were some fancy dress events in the city - I can't remember why - and I saw a young guy wearing a very well made, well-fitted Victorian suit, watch chain, top-hat, cane and all, looking so embarrassed and self-conscious it was a shame, 5 minutes later we pass another dude wearing a pink bathrobe with fluffy slippers, king of the ball surrounded by girls, he was enjoying it and making it work so well. Some people can actually pull off the squid hat and long beard :lol:

To sum up, well-fitting clothes in which you feel comfortable/yourself. Trends and eccentricities or strong styles are best suited for people who feel very confident with their bodies and themselves, no offence meant here, I only react to what you wrote earlier.


I've literally outsourced the choosing of cute, stylish clothes to 1) my v stylish BFF and 2) the nice, free personal shopper lady at Lord a& Taylor (call ahead, tell them your size & price range & occasion and they'll pre-select clothes for you to try on). I hate shopping, left to my own devices all my clothes would be black and boring and this system ensures I look reasonably put together. Every 12-18 mos the "work" clothes get downgraded to weekend wear and replacement as purchased, that are picked by BFF & the dept store lady.



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26 Oct 2014, 10:31 am

No girl wants a guy who looks like an loser. So yes if you want to have a girlfriend you have to learn how to dress to at least fit in. If you don't care about it, then do it for her. People do things, change their behavior for one another in relationships, to make them work. That is one of the keys to having a lasting one.