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27 Oct 2014, 12:31 am

But to be honest I feel like I am hijacking the topic, where has TS gone?



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27 Oct 2014, 8:20 am

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I am not looking for a brad pitt or orlando bloom with a 170 IQ and a 6 digit yearly salary. I just want an average looking guy that looks taken care and has a tiny bit of a fashion sense (because, so do I). I lke a guy that shares some interests and i can keep a good intellectual conversation with. And the rest is just chemistry.
So I am just not being the 'too critical' crap.

And you didnt upset me sly it is okay :)


I didn't think you meant celebs,
what do you consider intelligent? or intellectual conversation?

also I've told you before about that stuff about attractive girls and how its assumed they are A.taken. B. probably get tons of messages(too much competition) C. too good for the people looking.

so they might be thinking such a awesome amazing and gorgeous woman like yourself must already have a bf. or get tons of messages from guys far better then them(men) or c. or could be mix of any.

unfortunately people like you can also seem scary as in fear and anxiety about approaching you cause you have so much going for you. I don't bother with this type on dating sites the ones who say ( I have a degree and working on another, i speak 3 languages, vacation in europe,) how can I be good enough for a person who speaks 3 languages. that and 99% of these women/attractive women are red dots on okc.

do you have a dating profile? I'd like to see and probably rate you but its ok if not I understand desire to remain anonymous.


Speaking 3 languages isn't impressive nowadays, what matters is how fluent in these.



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27 Oct 2014, 9:09 am

Love is overrated.

If you wanna lose your desire for a woman real quick, move in with a manipulative, conniving one. My roommate was like that and after dealing with her, all desire went down the drain lol.



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27 Oct 2014, 9:18 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:

I am not looking for a brad pitt or orlando bloom with a 170 IQ and a 6 digit yearly salary. I just want an average looking guy that looks taken care and has a tiny bit of a fashion sense (because, so do I). I lke a guy that shares some interests and i can keep a good intellectual conversation with. And the rest is just chemistry.
So I am just not being the 'too critical' crap.

And you didnt upset me sly it is okay :)


I didn't think you meant celebs,
what do you consider intelligent? or intellectual conversation?

also I've told you before about that stuff about attractive girls and how its assumed they are A.taken. B. probably get tons of messages(too much competition) C. too good for the people looking.

so they might be thinking such a awesome amazing and gorgeous woman like yourself must already have a bf. or get tons of messages from guys far better then them(men) or c. or could be mix of any.

unfortunately people like you can also seem scary as in fear and anxiety about approaching you cause you have so much going for you. I don't bother with this type on dating sites the ones who say ( I have a degree and working on another, i speak 3 languages, vacation in europe,) how can I be good enough for a person who speaks 3 languages. that and 99% of these women/attractive women are red dots on okc.

do you have a dating profile? I'd like to see and probably rate you but its ok if not I understand desire to remain anonymous.


Speaking 3 languages isn't impressive nowadays, what matters is how fluent in these.


It depends on the language.

If you speak Cantonese, Russian and Arabic fluently, I would consider that to be impressive but many Europeans can speak several languages.

However, language studies are viewed in same way that people view humanities.

It is impressive if you are doing a degree in further mathematics, biochemistry, pharmacology, dentistry, medicine, engineering, accounting or veterinary medicine.



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27 Oct 2014, 9:23 am

http://www.cimaglobal.com/Thought-leade ... ting-game/

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?Most people want security,? says Dr Victoria Lukats, psychiatrist and dating expert for Parship. ?Of course the idea of travelling around the world - the adventure and the passion - sounds exciting. But in practice, people have mortgages to pay, their job and their career to think about.?

Dr Lukats is keen to avoid stereotypes: ?You can?t say accountants are all the same.? But one thing you can say is that to be professionally qualified, you will have passed the intelligence test, a trait that is highly rated on the dating scene.

Other highly rated traits include integrity, honesty, stability, security, decisiveness and the ability to cope under pressure, says Dr Lukats.



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27 Oct 2014, 2:53 pm

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I think that I might possibly be too evolved to attract decent looking women, and to be a popular well-adjusted person in general. I'm a paranoid neurotic miserable loner and I think it might be because I'm evolved. I think women are genetically programmed to be attracted to unevolved men, and that the only purpose of procreation is for unevolved humans to keep coming back to Earth, aka hell, to evolve. Whereas those that are evolved no longer have to come back.

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Rodger that.

I see what you did there.



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27 Oct 2014, 9:18 pm

If only Genies existed



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27 Oct 2014, 10:55 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
If only Genies existed


depends could I wish myself dead?



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27 Oct 2014, 11:54 pm

Uprising wrote:
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tomato wrote:
I think that I might possibly be too evolved to attract decent looking women, and to be a popular well-adjusted person in general. I'm a paranoid neurotic miserable loner and I think it might be because I'm evolved. I think women are genetically programmed to be attracted to unevolved men, and that the only purpose of procreation is for unevolved humans to keep coming back to Earth, aka hell, to evolve. Whereas those that are evolved no longer have to come back.

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A true philosopher is one who, realizing the wisdom of death, resists the inherent urge to reproduce his kind.
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Rodger that.

I see what you did there.


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28 Oct 2014, 12:57 pm

CynicalWaffle wrote:
Love is overrated.

If you wanna lose your desire for a woman real quick, move in with a manipulative, conniving one. My roommate was like that and after dealing with her, all desire went down the drain lol.
Amen to the throw in violent and controlling as well then you'll be in fear of getting into another relationship again your passion will be gone as well. True love is fake its never existed.


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28 Oct 2014, 1:48 pm

AlexanderDantes wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:

I am not looking for a brad pitt or orlando bloom with a 170 IQ and a 6 digit yearly salary. I just want an average looking guy that looks taken care and has a tiny bit of a fashion sense (because, so do I). I lke a guy that shares some interests and i can keep a good intellectual conversation with. And the rest is just chemistry.
So I am just not being the 'too critical' crap.

And you didnt upset me sly it is okay :)


I didn't think you meant celebs,
what do you consider intelligent? or intellectual conversation?

also I've told you before about that stuff about attractive girls and how its assumed they are A.taken. B. probably get tons of messages(too much competition) C. too good for the people looking.

so they might be thinking such a awesome amazing and gorgeous woman like yourself must already have a bf. or get tons of messages from guys far better then them(men) or c. or could be mix of any.

unfortunately people like you can also seem scary as in fear and anxiety about approaching you cause you have so much going for you. I don't bother with this type on dating sites the ones who say ( I have a degree and working on another, i speak 3 languages, vacation in europe,) how can I be good enough for a person who speaks 3 languages. that and 99% of these women/attractive women are red dots on okc.

do you have a dating profile? I'd like to see and probably rate you but its ok if not I understand desire to remain anonymous.


Speaking 3 languages isn't impressive nowadays, what matters is how fluent in these.


It depends on the language.

If you speak Cantonese, Russian and Arabic fluently, I would consider that to be impressive but many Europeans can speak several languages.

However, language studies are viewed in same way that people view humanities.

It is impressive if you are doing a degree in further mathematics, biochemistry, pharmacology, dentistry, medicine, engineering, accounting or veterinary medicine.



Yes, I agree on that.

I speak 3 languages myself, Arabic, French and English - but it's pretty standard around here; some people in some communities even speak up to 4 (like Armenians and Kurds).

What people find more impressive here is having a perfect accent (rather than simply knowing English and French) , which I do not have honestly.

Languages like Spanish and Italian are more impressing too because they are uncommon.



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01 Nov 2014, 9:03 pm

tomato, who says you have to be in a serious relationship with someone in order to have sex? You can get your sex needs met without being in a committed relationship with someone.



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01 Nov 2014, 9:08 pm

I'm quite happy without a boyfriend. I would rather have no-one than someone average.