What if we *didn't* have trouble getting dates in early yrs?

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funeralxempire
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29 Oct 2014, 7:03 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
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so overall just go out and practice socializing, talking to anyone literally?


That seems to be the suggestion. That's what worked for me when I was younger. The better you are talking to members of the appropriate gender the more likely you are at achieving meaningful friendships and other relationships with them.

Think of it like shooting grapeshot instead of a sniper rifle. The sniper rifle might be more precise, but the cannon with grapeshot is bound to hit something. :lol:


ya just wondering if any specific self-help articles on the Internet or books that give you great techniques, go over specifically how to put yourself out there in real social situations so you can practice efficiently


I don't really know what to say, most of my friends have always been female and when I was more social I always knew a few girls who were close to me.

At this point I'm starting over from scratch.



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29 Oct 2014, 8:25 pm

Well there's be an action plan of some sort I can do in order to finally get a girlfriend