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How Do You Keep Your Libido from Getting Ahead of You?

 
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NeantHumain
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PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 1:28 pm    Post subject: How Do You Keep Your Libido from Getting Ahead of You? Reply with quote

Being single, I find one major problem is that my libido is never sated (and please, no one make suggestions about lending yourself a hand). What happens is that, when I'm talking to an attractive woman, my sex drive starts taking over, and the conversation becomes more and more sexualized. This is hard to prevent because it's based on hormones and is largely automatic. I don't think this has been a major contributor to my trouble with meeting women, but it's possibly played a role (I suspect some women may actually prefer a virile libido).
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PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 8:16 pm    Post subject: Re: How Do You Keep Your Libido from Getting Ahead of You? Reply with quote

NeantHumain wrote:
(and please, no one make suggestions about lending yourself a hand)


Then don't

http://www.fleshlight.com/
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PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 9:02 pm    Post subject: Re: How Do You Keep Your Libido from Getting Ahead of You? Reply with quote

ZakFiend wrote:
NeantHumain wrote:
(and please, no one make suggestions about lending yourself a hand)


Then don't

http://www.fleshlight.com/

Idiot.
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 10:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well unless your going to go buy an Androgen blocker you only got one option I suggest a nice quite place if you get what I mean.
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 10:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is medication available that numbs your hormones and thus kills your libido for a while, while leaving other feelings (such as emotional attraction) intact. Like an on/off switch when it comes to sex drive. I took it for a while (not because my libido is too high but because my phobia made it easier to not have any sex drive at all) but the side effects made me feel hyperactive constantly, most people have no issues with this however so maybe you should ask your GP if this medication can help you.

I can look up the name for you if you want.
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ZakFiend
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:31 am    Post subject: Re: How Do You Keep Your Libido from Getting Ahead of You? Reply with quote

NeantHumain wrote:
ZakFiend wrote:
NeantHumain wrote:
(and please, no one make suggestions about lending yourself a hand)


Then don't

http://www.fleshlight.com/

Idiot.


My apologies it was a joke Smile
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ToadOfSteel
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 12:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Welcome to the world of manhood...
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BallisticMystic
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 7:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I exercise what little self control I have and beat off a lot. My dates with Rosy Palm have kept me out of trouble more times than I can count. Razz
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 8:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Drugs are for weaklings. Absorb your problems with your big hairy manly chest.
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crackedpleasures
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 10:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

nonsense. If you feel you have a problem, medication is a logical next step (medication I said, not drugs)

And these pills can help for this problem, I experienced that myself (I had no high libido but the medication I got took all that was left away... if it wasmn't for the hyperactive side-effects it would have been a great aid)
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Cyberman
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 7:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crackedpleasures wrote:
There is medication available that numbs your hormones and thus kills your libido for a while, while leaving other feelings (such as emotional attraction) intact. Like an on/off switch when it comes to sex drive. I took it for a while (not because my libido is too high but because my phobia made it easier to not have any sex drive at all) but the side effects made me feel hyperactive constantly, most people have no issues with this however so maybe you should ask your GP if this medication can help you.

I can look up the name for you if you want.

Please do. I think I could use a bit more hyperactivity, and a lot less of my utterly useless libido.
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