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PostPosted: Fri Jun 03, 2005 5:34 pm    Post subject: Strife says hello, bonjour, hola, whatever.. Reply with quote

Hello everyone! I am a normal fourteen year old girl, I do not have Aspergers, but I am veeery interested in what you all have to say, and I do know a couple of people with it. I've been lurking around for a while, so I thought I might as well register..

BTW, I think there should be an official topic to say 'hello' in, because there are quite a lot of 'hello' threads, and we may as well have just one thread to introduce yourself in, if you know what I mean. (;
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 03, 2005 5:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello... welcome to WrongPlanet! There is the 'questions about you' thread, but maybe an official 'hi, newbie here' thread might be a good idea. Very Happy

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 03, 2005 7:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Welcome. Feel free to post here, we usually let in non-Aspies as long as they are civil. We've had to ban a couple of trolls in the past, and i've done my fair share of hexes over the internet, but i don't think you're that kind of person. I'm sure that you'll have fun.

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 1:39 am    Post subject: Hmmmm? Reply with quote

Strife wrote:

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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 7:34 am    
Post subject: Strife says hello, bonjour,
hola, whatever..
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Hello everyone! I am a normal fourteen
year old girl, I do not have Aspergers,
but I am veeery interested in what you
all have to say, and I do know a couple
of people with it. I've been lurking around
for a while, so I thought I might as well
register..

BTW, I think there should be an official
topic to say 'hello' in, because there are
quite a lot of 'hello' threads, and we may
as well have just one thread to introduce
yourself in, if you know what I mean. (;



Well Strife! You choose the right place.
Describe your friends from a NT
point of view? Hmmmm? What have
you learned from this site so far?

And....Welcome to WrongPlanet
Very Happy

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Strife
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 6:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, they aren't my BEST friends and I don't talk to them all that often, but they seem fairly normal most of the time.. except I find it odd that they won't look me in the eyes, this one guy has the cutest green eyes but I never get to see them! Confused
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 10:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Welcome to WP!
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 12:29 pm    Post subject: Re: Strife says hello, bonjour, hola, whatever.. Reply with quote

Strife wrote:
Hello everyone! I am a normal fourteen year old girl


...wait a minute, there's something wrong with this sentence. Confused
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 12:33 pm    Post subject: Re: Strife says hello, bonjour, hola, whatever.. Reply with quote

Sanityisoverrated wrote:
Strife wrote:
Hello everyone! I am a normal fourteen year old girl


...wait a minute, there's something wrong with this sentence. Confused


Sorry, I meant I don't have Asperger's, not meaning to offend anyone (:
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 3:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Strife wrote:
Well, they aren't my BEST friends and I don't talk to them all that often, but they seem fairly normal most of the time.. except I find it odd that they won't look me in the eyes, this one guy has the cutest green eyes but I never get to see them! Confused


How well do you know them? Do they have any other friends? Since you've been lurking for a while. by now you should know that aspies are often uncomfortable with the mechanics of conversations - knowing when to start and stop talking, etc. They might be willing to talk to you more often if you take an active role by starting the dialog, not asking dead-end (yes/no) questions, and above all by being patient. On top of whatever speech problems they may have due to AS, they're going to feel the same tension as any neurotypical 14-year-old boy talking to a 14-year-old girl. Don't try to fill every awkward pause in the conversation with your own chatter.

Gaze avoidance is a very strong reflex action. You may find that if you stick with them long enough you'll get your chance to see those green eyes, at least in brief flashes now and then.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 8:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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except I find it odd that they won't look me in the eyes, this one guy has the cutest green eyes but I never get to see them!


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 9:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I did, but he slapped me!

Thats it! I'm never following any of your advice again! Mad
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 11:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey, you're "normal". Congrats! You've stereotyped yourself! Hahaha!!! Laughing

Anyways, welcome to WP. Your point of view could be useful. I need a different point of view.


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