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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 3:57 pm    Post subject: Who's "normal"? Reply with quote

I think that (mental) health is a very elusive subject. It has something to do with being balanced and perceptive, which doesn't mean intelligent in terms of IQ, or any other test. Character and personality are such complicated combinations of instincts, learning and experience (and luck) that you can detect the right mix, only with a some sort of (again instinctive) sixth sense. Someone who has the capacity to make you feel at ease in his/her company is "normal" in a good sense.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 5:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Without sentimentalism or political colouring, I think I can safely say that "normal" describes the mean or average value within a large diverse group. And with that mean average as a reference polint, we can find the upper, the lower, and the fringes. If you've got a better, simpler explanation of "normal," I'd like to see it.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 5:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I read an interesting article about mental health a few weeks ago - sorry, can't find it now to tell you who wrote it, but the general theme of it was that what is generally considered to be 'abnormal' states of mental health, i.e. depression, bipolar disorder, etc are far more common in the general population than was at once thought by mental health professionals. Also that most people slip between what would be considered by psychiatrists to be 'normal' and 'abnormal' states quite frequently, so being 'abnormal' at times, may be entirely 'normal'.

I have heard that mental resilience is a good test for mental health. The more resilient one is to change/environmental pressures etc, the healthier one is. That's me out then, lol, I hate change.

Humour I think is a very healing/healthy thing...people who make you laugh are worth their weight in gold Smile


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 6:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

How can abormal be considered normal?

That's like saying drunk is considered sober.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 6:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't feed trolls.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 6:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Unfortunately years ago I feel people on the autism spectrum had 2 choices growing up keeping there difference to them self or being 'processed' by the mental health system - people like to prejudge what they do not understand!

But of course your right we are all born as unique individuals, some just a little more different than others... and often due to the narrow mindedness of others feel isolated and live on the edge of society... I never knew what it was really like to be an minority until diagnosed with aspergers last year!
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 6:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

slowmutant wrote:
How can abormal be considered normal?

That's like saying drunk is considered sober.

I don't really have a concept of what normal is, it sure isn't what you see on TV, like the Brady Bunch.
So called NT's also have their issues, just like us so called neurally diverse people, the fact is there is
no such thing as normal.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 6:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is no such tnig as normal. All that really exist is a concept that a majority of people agree on.
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There's an average mainstream standard considered as 'normal' perhaps (but that's due to majority opinion), but there's no true normal in a sense of what the human species is suppose to be.
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 8:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What is the human species "supposed" to be? FWIW, I still like my idea about commonalities and statistical norms.
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 9:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

All things are suppose to be individualistic and free, including humans, so how can one determine normality to that? Razz
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 9:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Free will and normality are unconnected. A lot of cranks, pyschos and whackjobs out there are using their free will to escape normality.
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 9:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

From a somewhat long essay (not by me) which can be found here (link):

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... "What is pathological?" is an inescapably normative question, and orders of magnitude more so when it is asked of conscious phenomena. A tidal wave of binding assays, brain scans, and receptor sequencing may obliterate everything in its path, but will never turn this normative, value-laden question into a positive question. Vanilla ice cream could be subjected to the most exhaustive physical and chemical analyses imaginable, but no amount of data that could ever be assembled would answer the question, "does it taste better than chocolate ice cream?" On such matters, science is, properly, silent, for these are not positive, or scientific, questions. When, as with biopsychiatry, scientists must be shushed, disabused of their delusions of grandeur in public, it is embarrassing for all concerned. For 'pathology' to exist, one person must examine some feature of another person, and render a negative judgment about that feature. When the feature under examination is someone's mind, the 'judge' would be well advised to watch his or her step. ...


(The author is talking about biopsychiatry in the sense that neurobiological "imbalances" are impugned to cause "pathological" mental states. One point he doesn't make clear is that even in the view that no mental states are pathological, there could still be those that are distressing to the person and that if that person want treatment for it they should have every right to get it. The difference is that with "pathology" there is the implication that it must "treated" or "cured" whether the person wants it or not.)

The essay has a lot of interesting points, from a short history of schizophrenia, to the use of neuroleptics in psychiatry, to the war on drugs.

[edited due to hitting the darn submit button too fast]
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 10:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

As I said, pathological.

Not to mention OCD. hmph
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 10:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

"Pathological," as in somebody else's negative judgment? Ah, too many people in the world think they've got the whole of human experience between their two ears, IMO. "There' more on heaven and Earth..." and all that.

OCD sounds rough.
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