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Beatles_girl
Snowy Owl
Joined: Jan 16, 2006
Posts: 142
Location: Salt Spring Island, Canada
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 Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 3:00 am Post subject: Masterbating- Mature Topic |
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Well I think i found the right place. If people are talking about gyno's, periods and sexual subjects i think it's ok to talk about this.
Yesterday I bought myself a vibrator. They feel very good. I find it's best to rub the outside
than stick it in..... It calms me down and makes me tired after I do it I think this will be huge help with my sleep disorder. If any of you are interested in a vibrator here are some tips
- You can buy a vibrator at a sex store. You must be 18 years or older though (like a 16 year old doesn't know anything about sex!) I learned about the birds and bee's when i was 9. lol it's a stupid law. It's worse than that stupid Cannabis law Bull shight.
-Ask the person in the store (preferably a women) It can be be embarrassing to ask but imagine
what that person actual dose every night.... and they dealt wit many sex obsessed people so you should not feel humiliated.
-If you are a virgin, tell them.They will know the right one for you. The smallest size is best.
Some were REALLY huge and freaked me out. Mine cost me $15.99 they could tell I was a virgin by looking at me. So they told me what was best.
When you get your vibrator
-Wash it before and after you use it with soap and water.
- Wet your vagina
-put lubricant on the vibrator (optional) you can also put a condom on it if you like.
-you have any pets they may be attracted to what you are doing. Chase your dog or cat out of the room. I learned this because my pet rat started going crazy on me and I had to stop. I put my rat in the cage.
- Also keep your vibrator in a box or in a drawer SECURE because it would be really humiliating
if your dog dragged it into the dinning room at a family get together...... and your grandparents! what would they think? So make sure it's hidden secure.
- Remove the batteries while it's not in use. It's best to use cheap batteries. Using good quality brands like Duracell or Energiser can be too powerful.
-If you live in a house with other people make sure everybody is out. Turn music up loud
because you will tend to moan and the vibrator can be loud. I blared "I Want To hold Your Hand"
and "A Hard Day's Night" so my parents would think I'm just doing my typical obsessive behavior with The Beatles and not doing sexual activity.
That is my beginner info I learned about Dildo's/Vibrators. I'm a beginner with these things.
Am I the only dildo user here? I won't make fun of anybody. |
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Aysmptotes
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Joined: May 11, 2007
Posts: 286
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| Thanks for the information. I've been thinking about getting a vibrator for a while now, but the fact that I have to buy it from people is very unsettling. And since I live in a small town/city thingy I am terrified of ever seeing that person ever again in public. But for now I have been using a hairbrush handle with a condom over it. It works but I am sure a vibrator will be loads better. |
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ahayes
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Joined: Dec 03, 2006
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| Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 4:17 am Post subject: Re: Masterbating- Mature Topic |
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| Beatles_girl wrote: | Well I think i found the right place. If people are talking about gyno's, periods and sexual subjects i think it's ok to talk about this.
Yesterday I bought myself a vibrator. They feel very good. I find it's best to rub the outside
than stick it in..... It calms me down and makes me tired after I do it I think this will be huge help with my sleep disorder. If any of you are interested in a vibrator here are some tips
- You can buy a vibrator at a sex store. You must be 18 years or older though (like a 16 year old doesn't know anything about sex!) I learned about the birds and bee's when i was 9. lol it's a stupid law. It's worse than that stupid Cannabis law Bull shight.
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This is why geek girls have an advantage, they can build their own vibrator!
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-If you live in a house with other people make sure everybody is out. Turn music up loud
because you will tend to moan and the vibrator can be loud. I blared "I Want To hold Your Hand"
and "A Hard Day's Night" so my parents would think I'm just doing my typical obsessive behavior with The Beatles and not doing sexual activity.
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Though it is somewhat hot, I find the image somewhat disturbing as well. (I'm an oldies fan) |
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LabPet
Phoenix
Joined: Jan 05, 2007
Posts: 1825
Location: Alaska
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| Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 5:01 am Post subject: |
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I love a speculum too, and so does my man....try this! Buy a metal medical speculum (smaller size) and use water-based lubricant. If you're visual (I am, so is he), you'll love this. He uses a flashlight and can see all the way inside the open vagina. The speculum blades hold it open but can hurt a little, go slowly. Hand mirror too, for you.
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Beatles_girl
Snowy Owl
Joined: Jan 16, 2006
Posts: 142
Location: Salt Spring Island, Canada
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 6:59 am Post subject: |
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I named my vibrator Mr. yellow.  I find massaging the outsides feel much better I don't feel
much pleasure actually sticking sticking it in. |
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jewelie
Tufted Titmouse
Joined: May 09, 2007
Posts: 37
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Hey there,
Just in case you don't know why it feels better on the outside, it's (in all likelihood) because you're stimulating your clitoris, located above your urethra. Females vary alot in this respect, it can be extremely, painfully sensitive, or less so. Go slowly and be careful. One can definitely have an orgasm without inserting anything anywhere.
There's a good book called The Technology of Orgasm or something like that that discusses the history of vibrators. Not what you'd think.
Another good book is Our Bodies, Ourselves by the Boston Women's Health Collective.
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rosered
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If anyone is a bit shy about going into a store, shop online.....
www.passion8.com
Enjoy...  |
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Starbuline
The Blues Are Brown.
Joined: Sep 26, 2006
Posts: 8232
Location: .....Russia
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I want one.  |
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ghostgurl
Phoenix
Joined: Nov 07, 2006
Age: 23
Posts: 1557
Location: Orange County, CA
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I masturbate, but I haven't used a vibrator...yet. Maybe when I'm on my own.
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alex
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Joined: Jun 14, 2004
Age: 22
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Location: DC Metro Area (No. VA)
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| Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2007 2:41 am Post subject: |
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| jewelie wrote: | Hey there,
Just in case you don't know why it feels better on the outside, it's (in all likelihood) because you're stimulating your clitoris, located above your urethra. Females vary alot in this respect, it can be extremely, painfully sensitive, or less so. Go slowly and be careful. One can definitely have an orgasm without inserting anything anywhere.
There's a good book called The Technology of Orgasm or something like that that discusses the history of vibrators. Not what you'd think.
Another good book is Our Bodies, Ourselves by the Boston Women's Health Collective. |
Hope I'm not intruding... But you will generally not experience a vaginal orgasm without penetration since your g-spot won't get any contact from the outside. Many girls find vaginal orgasms more satisfying, although it obviously depends on the person. It's certainly worth a go.
Definitely be careful, however. While your hymen is unlikely to be intact, you will still experience pain until you get used to penetration. Clitoral stimulation is definitely recommended immediately before attempting to insert anything. Also, you really do need some type of water-based lubrication if you don't want it to hurt. |
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LisaMarie53183
Hummingbird
Joined: Jun 07, 2007
Posts: 24
Location: NJ
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| Posted: Fri Jun 08, 2007 2:18 am Post subject: G Spot |
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It will stimulate inside if you stick it in about 2 inches and aim the tip up to your pubic bone as you go in and out... then HALLELUJAH vaginal orgasm!!! You may even squirt... it's way more intense than the clit:)
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TheMachine1
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Joined: Jun 12, 2006
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Location: 9099 will be my last post...what the hell 9011 will be.
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LabPet
Phoenix
Joined: Jan 05, 2007
Posts: 1825
Location: Alaska
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TheMachine1: You are a genius &/or a mind reader!
Recently, during an intimate moment, I asked my man for a certain favor, and I then said, "Comply."
He said he'll never forget "Comply." And, he had never had said with an autistic before! P.S. He liked! 
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fruitcake
Hummingbird
Joined: Jun 17, 2007
Age: 31
Posts: 23
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| Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 10:54 am Post subject: |
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| Thankyou for the rabbit, delux is my fav, helps me chill as well and sleep, I got my own flat so I can scream as loud as I want, does make me somewhat lazy in actually looking for a guy, not had a guy for over a year, whilst yep it does the job I miss the other person grr! |
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Graelwyn
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Joined: Dec 21, 2006
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| Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 12:05 pm Post subject: Re: G Spot |
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| LisaMarie53183 wrote: | | It will stimulate inside if you stick it in about 2 inches and aim the tip up to your pubic bone as you go in and out... then HALLELUJAH vaginal orgasm!!! You may even squirt... it's way more intense than the clit:) |
I have yet to be able to find that damn spot, lol.
I have tried with a so called g spot vibrator and still...it eludes me, though I know it is there.
Grrr.
I didn't get my first vibrator until I was 27. Got very desperate one night and raided the fruit bowl and that is when I realised... I needed to take action  
I want to find rampant rabbit original. The ears are a lot softer and I find them more effective than the more rigid ones on latter models.
However, I have the 3 way and the thruster...the thruster is rubbish. Don't waste money on it. |
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