ShadesOfMe Bunny Pirate on the seven seas!


Joined: Jul 01, 2004 Age: 22 Posts: 19223 Location: California
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 8:02 pm Post subject: what did I do wrong? |
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| So, back in november, I met a girl at an Aspie teen support group. I am also a girl. I got her number, and another dudes number. I never called her. I was ery busy for awhile. but then in march, she suddenly Text Messaged me. I was like, oh, wow, she remembered me and wanted to talk. She took forever to reply to me, after each message...but anyway i asked her if she wanted to hangout sometime, maybe go to the mall. We both had spring break. So she said yes. I wasn't sure wether ti would be that wednesday or that thursday, because I had made plans already. So wednesday comes, and my other plans had fizzled out. So I text her, and ask if she wants to do it that day. She got very weird. She suddenly was like, "well, how about we meet at the mall, and then later that night you can sleep over!" I hardly know her. So I thought about and didn't reply for awhile. Then a bit later she messages me saying "Maybe we should just plan another day to do this so we can see how things work with us." I was like Huh? whats supossed to work? it's just two girls going to the mall together. I was like, Ok... so then about a week later, she texts me again. She was in math class and wanted to know what i was doing I told her I was playing with my dog. She goes "don't you go to insert random highschool i've never head of hear?" and I was like "no. I'm homeschooled." and she was like "have you always had a dog?" and I told her about my dog, and asked about her pets. and she was like "you remember I have two dogs. You met them." and I was confused. and then she goes "just to be sure this is Kayla right?" No i'm not kayla. not even close. and I was like "no...this is Emelia." I don't know how she thought I was someone else. it should say my name when she texted me. I felt really bad. because I thought someone had remembered me, and thought it would be nice to hang out with me. instead she thought I was someone else, and I wasted a good month talking to her. she never wrote back. |
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zombie Phoenix


Joined: Dec 07, 2006 Age: 23 Posts: 598 Location: Mannum South Australia
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ShadesOfMe Bunny Pirate on the seven seas!


Joined: Jul 01, 2004 Age: 22 Posts: 19223 Location: California
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 8:13 pm Post subject: |
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| It really did. and I was having trouble with friends again at that time so...I feel sorta let down. |
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AnonymousAnonymous Is Not A Sociopath


Joined: Nov 24, 2006 Age: 22 Posts: 22510 Location: Portland, Oregon
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 10:35 pm Post subject: |
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That's a big owch!
If she tries to contact you again, ignore her. _________________ Silly NTs, I have Aspergers, and having Aspergers is gr-r-reat! |
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hartzofspace Red Dragon


Joined: Apr 15, 2005 Posts: 7577 Location: On the Road Less Traveled
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 11:02 pm Post subject: |
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Sounds like a first rate space unit. Whoever heard of text messaging somebody without checking to see who the hell your texting? Sorry that happened to you. Must be frustrating and disappointing. But maybe this person is very scattered and superficial? _________________ Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born.
-- Dr. Dale Turner |
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TheMidnightJudge Ghost in the Shell


Joined: Mar 29, 2007 Posts: 1844 Location: New England
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 11:32 pm Post subject: |
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| AnonymousAnonymous wrote: | That's a big owch!
If she tries to contact you again, ignore her. |
Nah, don't let useless resentment ruin potential for a friendship.
Sympathys |
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dime_jaguar Sea Gull


Joined: Mar 08, 2007 Posts: 219
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2007 3:05 am Post subject: |
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Thats pretty funny, at least i think so. If you still want to get to know her, why not use what happened as conversation, the month is only wasted if you dont want to get to know her anymore. _________________ “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and
expecting different results. ” |
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deep-techno Rocker


Joined: Jan 08, 2006 Posts: 1119 Location: Swindon, England.
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 12:12 pm Post subject: |
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There are a lot of grammatical errors. _________________ If the phrase "you are what you eat" is correct, technically we must all be cannibals. |
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ShadesOfMe Bunny Pirate on the seven seas!


Joined: Jul 01, 2004 Age: 22 Posts: 19223 Location: California
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 5:49 pm Post subject: |
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| Thank you for that assesment./ sarcasm When I'm worked up over something I tend to spell poorly, and have bad grammar. |
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xboxboy247 Velociraptor


Joined: Apr 12, 2007 Posts: 457 Location: USA
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 11:03 pm Post subject: |
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Wow. That has never happened to me before. _________________ Recipient of 2 KBABZ awards
20 STI awards given out
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lawenforcementguy2866 Yellow-bellied Woodpecker


Joined: Jun 18, 2007 Posts: 53
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 2:09 pm Post subject: |
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| If you have a place where you can block out people, use it on her. If you don't just ignore her. Next time when you don't know people as good as you think, then don't give them your phone number, or any extremely personal information. |
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