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Pandak
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 Posted: Fri Apr 27, 2007 8:34 pm Post subject: HELPPPPPPP: I AM IN LOVE WITH AN ASPIE |
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hi, i got on this site a little while back, and i am ALREADY in love
... and i don't know what to do. so WHAT do i do ???
im not good at ALL in relationships so .. IDK what to do ??
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KBABZ
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Location: Middle Earth. Er, I mean Wellywood. Wait, Wellington.
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| Posted: Fri Apr 27, 2007 8:50 pm Post subject: |
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In love eh? Heheh, so am I, and we both know we love each other. I think the best thing to do is to not go "OMG i luv u!!!1! !1one", as that may creep her out a bit. The best thing to do is to let her get to know you better so that she falls in love with you herself.
That's my two cents (but we don't have that in NZ, sadly)
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Kilroy
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| Posted: Fri Apr 27, 2007 8:59 pm Post subject: |
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try not to come off to suddenly-spie's get a little creeped out by that (at least I do)...
try to apporach her in a nice quiet setting and spark up a convorsation-yuo know what she likes?
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xboxboy247
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| Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 12:01 am Post subject: |
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To be honest, you should try and go into this slowly.
Go in too fast and you'll scare her off and go in too slow and she'll get taken.
Just approach her one day, say that you would like to go out with her (as a friend) and take it from there.
Your heart will tell you what to do next.
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SuPaStAr
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 6:17 am Post subject: |
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im in love with an aspie myself
all is well but i have a tendancy to push people away
i get creeped out when people come to close to me
and i get scared because of it.
i hope all goes well for you
i fell in love with my soulmate as soon as i met her
she's the only 1 i can hold a conversation with |
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BigT
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 8:03 am Post subject: |
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| Did you meet through this site? |
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SuPaStAr
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 8:04 am Post subject: |
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yeah i met my soulmate through this site after being on for just a week
she lives 5mins drive from me and has basically everything in common with me |
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SuPaStAr
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 8:07 am Post subject: |
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| it would be hard to meet an aspie and fall in love if they weren't from this site i think |
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BigT
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 8:32 am Post subject: |
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Everyones making me jeolous now. I feel like everyone has a soulmate but me.  |
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SuPaStAr
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 8:40 am Post subject: |
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| BigT wrote: | | Everyones making me jeolous now. I feel like everyone has a soulmate but me. |
i felt like id never meet anyone
she saved my life
you will find sum1 im sure of it
i'll even bet my life on it.
there is a person for everyone |
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Kilroy
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 10:45 am Post subject: |
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yeah...I'm just sick of waiting (plus internet dating terrifies me) so that's not an option 
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SuPaStAr
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i wasnt dating at the time
we just started as friends and got closer to each other |
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Kilroy
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 awww...still I won't ever meet anyone from the internet-and if they ask me to, end of friendship and I suspect them of being a "peto"
it sucks being afraid of everyone you talk to
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SuPaStAr
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 11:03 am Post subject: |
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hmmm iv had that problem-i wont say why.
but yh it can be hard when barriers stop us that we cnt control |
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Kilroy
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 11:06 am Post subject: |
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yeah...it sucks
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