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LenaMarie
Tufted Titmouse
Joined: May 25, 2008
Posts: 33
Location: SoCal
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| every time i talk to someone not close to me they think I'm being rude because i cant look them in the eye and make for a very awkward conversation, this is to people i will most likely never see again, how do you talk to someone who you see as a potential bf/gf? |
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Bradleigh
Aspie Vampire Gamer
Joined: May 26, 2008
Age: 18
Posts: 3720
Location: Sydney, Australia
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 4:34 am Post subject: |
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| i havnt had a gf ive had cushes but am way too shy to talk to them. i think i have scared them off aswell by stareing at them, i seem to stare at people who interest me. plus how in the world would i know if they like me. |
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GodsWonder
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: May 27, 2008
Age: 19
Posts: 71
Location: Pennsylvania, USA
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 12:13 pm Post subject: Probably not |
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| I am a 19 year old guy and I still have yet to even have a sexual attraction. For now I don't even understand relationships and all that comes with them. I can't look at a girl and tell you if she is "Hot"; to me people are people whether boy or girl and they really don't seem that much different to me. I do have a little more apprehension towards girls than guys becasue they act differently and I don't understand alto of things that they do so they cause confusion and discomfort for me sometimes. I was told that things might change for me into my twenties but there is also a possibility that things might not change ever. For me it doesn't seem like all that big of a deal because I don't have any interest in dating, for now atleast, and since I don't have any idea what all the craze is about I don't feel like I am missing all that much. |
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aspiebeauty87
Snowy Owl
Joined: Nov 12, 2007
Age: 21
Posts: 143
Location: California,USA
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 5:40 pm Post subject: ........... |
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I feel that too i can't even keep a online bf i've had one b4 but it didn't work out 
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Eel_Nadroj
Raven
Joined: May 10, 2008
Age: 18
Posts: 124
Location: Reseda, California
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| Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 12:16 am Post subject: |
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I was never into the idea of online relationships...I did meet a girl online but she lived down the street from me and we met in person a day later, and i'm trying singlesnet.com to find a near by girl. Idk if that counts as online or not.
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SierraBell
Velociraptor
Joined: Aug 24, 2007
Age: 16
Posts: 447
Location: On the mother earth in the USA
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| Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 1:18 am Post subject: Re: ........... |
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| aspiebeauty87 wrote: | | I feel that too i can't even keep a online bf i've had one b4 but it didn't work out |
I had an online relationship that I knew right from the beginning that it was wrong to have. The guy was an obnoxious pervert that kept changing his story, he kept brushing aside my feelings, and then I decided to stop talking to him because I knew I had to take a stand against him. Then he started spreading false rumors about me to other people. Well, now it's been three years since that happened. It wasn't a long relationship, it only lasted for a few weeks  it really did hurt though... |
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chrism
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: Jun 07, 2008
Posts: 63
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honestly if you have difficulties coping with things DONT DATE...
seriously, i dated a girl for 2 years and she broke up with me because some girl at school was telling her lies about something stupid, it's about 6 months after that and i STILL think about her whenever i wake up and whenever i see her my heartbeat jumps...
I loved her to bits and i can't seem to stop loving her. and it hurts cos she hates me for silly, inappropriate reasons.
love/dating hurts. |
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freak_audio
Snowy Owl
Joined: Dec 10, 2007
Age: 20
Posts: 147
Location: Belfast, N. Ireland
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Even though I have before... Yes. I think I understand people even less than I used too. 
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Ashton
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: Jun 10, 2008
Posts: 72
Location: Australia
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 8:20 am Post subject: |
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| freak_audio wrote: | | Even though I have before... Yes. I think I understand people even less than I used too. |
Quoted for truth.
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tweety_fan
Phoenix
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i feel that i may never get a b/f ...doesn't worry me. i don't base my life on looking for one. i just feel like i would not cope with relationships and that stuff.
never bothered dating, people have done the "my friend likes you" joke on me, which was just annoying. |
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