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northern_light_girl
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PostPosted: Mon May 05, 2008 11:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Khan_Sama wrote:
Thanks, I do hope so...I tried calling her, and she spoke in a very rude and cold voice. It's worse than being stabbed in the back. To make things worse, I was taken into custody because an acquaintance of mine had pot on him (I didn't even know they toke) and his neighbours got fed up with the smell, and decided to call the cops. I just happened to have dropped by as my friend wanted to say hello to him as we were nearby. The moment I met him, cops appeared out of nowhere and took us into custody. Spent 4 hours in the slammer with rats yesterday (yeah, Indian jails have rats! >_<) before I was released. I refused to bribe them as I was innocent (i was caught with pot three times before and never spent more than $10), so they couldn't do much, especially since my dad knows the MP very well. So yeah, yesterday was a baaaaaaad day. >_<

I just realised that my feelings for her turned into hate. I detest her to the core now. I spit at her picture. I feel like slapping her. Strange...


Hey but actually I'm not sure I understand what has happened. She..doesn't know you like her, yet? Is she upset about something else...what? I'm not sure I understand what has happened, as long as you didn't actually get a chance to tell her how you feel. So it might be she's upset about something else? And that phone call...again, we don't know the context and why she became upset Very Happy

Don't hate her Laughing Come on, if anything, this was a girl you liked a lot but things didn't work out with. Move on, let your heart heal....don't distance yourself from people but just be patient. The right girl will come along and she'll be more of a match to you than this one. She will meet you half way, it will be real, not one-sided.
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Khan_Sama
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 7:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I talked to her and found out why she hates me. She did tell me, and I apologised, although I wasn't responsible, and she misunderstood my intentions. She still hates me, so I've decided to call it quits. She was the last person I assumed would treat me like this, so I don't think I want to be her friend anymore, let alone have a relationship with her. I'll just forget about having a relationship for now, I think I'll just take up a job this summer and keep myself busy to avoid thinking about her. Thanks for your advice everyone. ^^
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LePetitPrince
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 8:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

is she muslim?

traditionalist muslim girls don't go out with a guy without someone of their family
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LePetitPrince
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 8:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Khan_Sama wrote:
I talked to her and found out why she hates me. She did tell me, and I apologised, although I wasn't responsible, and she misunderstood my intentions. She still hates me, so I've decided to call it quits. She was the last person I assumed would treat me like this, so I don't think I want to be her friend anymore, let alone have a relationship with her. I'll just forget about having a relationship for now, I think I'll just take up a job this summer and keep myself busy to avoid thinking about her. Thanks for your advice everyone. ^^


sh**...didn't read that before. Even a bitter troll like me felt sad for that.

btw why she hates you?

Anyways, it's all good.... anything that doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
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Khan_Sama
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 9:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a (very) liberal Muslim and she's a Brahmin Hindu. Brahmin families are even more strict than traditional Muslim families, although hers is quite liberal as well.

I'd rather not mention why she hates me as it concerns a third party. All I'll say is that I was only partially responsible for his actions, and I apologised anyway. She misinterpreted it as my actions unfortunately.

Yeah, I do feel much better now. Life must go on. ^^
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Dhawal
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 11:18 pm    Post subject: Which city are you from? Reply with quote

Hi Khan_Sama, my name is Dhawal and I'm trying to search for Indian aspies on this forum. I'm from Ahmedabad and I'm 30. Which city are you from?
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computerlove
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 12:31 am    Post subject: Re: Which city are you from? Reply with quote

Dhawal wrote:
Hi Khan_Sama, my name is Dhawal and I'm trying to search for Indian aspies on this forum. I'm from Ahmedabad and I'm 30. Which city are you from?


better try sending him a private message, just click the "PM" icon at one of his posts
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 7:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks computerlove!
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