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Kris94
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 Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 7:41 am Post subject: a GF at last =] <3 |
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finally! I have a girlfriend! i really love her... Better yet, she understands me because she has AS too!
im so happy... I have never felt love before, Ive never really FELT love for another girl before...
I have been confused lately, but its clear to me now.
i love her... Its like magic! 
Ive noticed a shift in my personality lately too... Ive been happy, optimistic, ive gone from liking metal to the smiths/the cure ect (indie music in genral)
i thought id never have a GF with as... but I do! Best months of my life! im gonna be 14 soon...
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JerryHatake
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Congrats!!!!
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MissConstrue
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That's great to know seems like a quick and drastic change for you. Just in case something does happen like a breakup, remember that feeling you posted in this message and know that there is hope afterall as long as you're doing it for yourself and not others for peer acceptance.
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weather1man
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He's 13, it doesn't mean anything. Your going to be easily crushed, but I can understand the feeling of euphoria.
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weather1man
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double post. sorry.
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CanyonWind
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| Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 12:11 pm Post subject: |
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| weather1man wrote: | | weather1man wrote: | | He's 13, it doesn't mean anything. Also I'm sure she doesn't know what AS means, nor does she care. I give it 2 weeks. Your going to be easily crushed, but I can understand the feeling of euphoria. |
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When I was 13, I was a person, just like I am today. Less experienced, but just as much of a person. When you're talking about feelings, I don't think age makes any difference at all. Older people get crushed too. Happens all the time. It's one of the risks of being alive, and it doesn't go away with age.
Kris94, glad to hear it partner, and nobody knows the future. It just might work.
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weather1man
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| Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 12:21 pm Post subject: |
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| CanyonWind wrote: | | weather1man wrote: | | weather1man wrote: | | He's 13, it doesn't mean anything. Also I'm sure she doesn't know what AS means, nor does she care. I give it 2 weeks. Your going to be easily crushed, but I can understand the feeling of euphoria. |
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When I was 13, I was a person, just like I am today. Less experienced, but just as much of a person. When you're talking about feelings, I don't think age makes any difference at all. Older people get crushed too. Happens all the time. It's one of the risks of being alive, and it doesn't go away with age.
Kris94, glad to hear it partner, and nobody knows the future. It just might work. |
No it won't work. Middle school romance doesn't go anywhere, and for all we know she may not be his "girlfriend". At 13 being a boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't mean nearly as much as it does at an older age, and with the lack of maturity that you mentioned when they break up, it will be much harder for this poor aspie boy. Believe me.
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CanyonWind
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| weather1man wrote: | | No it won't work. Middle school romance doesn't go anywhere, and for all we know she may not be his "girlfriend". At 13 being a boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't mean nearly as much as it does at an older age, and with the lack of maturity that you mentioned when they break up, it will be much harder for this poor aspie boy. Believe me. |
Sorry, but I don't believe you.
I'm sure you know that half of all marriages end in divorce, and of the married couples that don't get divorced, a lot of them aren't happy being together. Fact is, it's a risky game, regardless of your age. Adults don't do too well at this stuff either.
I'll be working up on a ladder today. If I fall off and break my leg, it's gonna hurt. It's gonna hurt as much today as it would have hurt when I was thirteen.
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weather1man
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| CanyonWind wrote: | | weather1man wrote: | | No it won't work. Middle school romance doesn't go anywhere, and for all we know she may not be his "girlfriend". At 13 being a boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't mean nearly as much as it does at an older age, and with the lack of maturity that you mentioned when they break up, it will be much harder for this poor aspie boy. Believe me. |
Sorry, but I don't believe you.
I'm sure you know that half of all marriages end in divorce, and of the married couples that don't get divorced, a lot of them aren't happy being together. Fact is, it's a risky game, regardless of your age. Adults don't do too well at this stuff either.
I'll be working up on a ladder today. If I fall off and break my leg, it's gonna hurt. It's gonna hurt as much today as it would have hurt when I was thirteen. |
You do realize the emotional IQ of a 13 year old aspie is much younger than 13, right? How old are you? You should not encourage something like this, seriously. 16 is a bit young, 13 for an aspie guy is sorta silly. Farther more it's highly likely that this is an "online girlfriend" ,because the shear likely hood of meeting another AS girl in his school/community, them both admitting it and hooking up is low.
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CanyonWind
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| weather1man wrote: | | How old are you? |
I was thirty eight years old when you were born. That doesn't automatically make me smarter than you. It doesn't prove that I'm right and you're wrong.
I think we've both clearly expressed our views here and our life experiences have led to different conclusions. Either one of us is free to start another thread if we want to discuss this more, but this is Kris94's thread, so maybe we should let some other people put in their thoughts.
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weather1man
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| Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 3:21 pm Post subject: |
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| CanyonWind wrote: | | weather1man wrote: | | How old are you? |
I was thirty eight years old when you were born. That doesn't automatically make me smarter than you. It doesn't prove that I'm right and you're wrong.
I think we've both clearly expressed our views here and our life experiences have led to different conclusions. Either one of us is free to start another thread if we want to discuss this more, but this is Kris94's thread, so maybe we should let some other people put in their thoughts. |
Old guy,  , but I do agree with you here.
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MissConstrue
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Glad you two resolved your issues on this congrads thread!!! 
He is 14 afterall and now has a GF for the first time....I'm assuming  So he should be proud whether or not something will happen in the future.
So Congrads!!!
.....didn't mean for my first post to come off as dry as it did.
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Blasty
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Kris, that's great.
Regardless of what people say, you've got something right now that a lot of us have yet to experience. I've got 9 years on you and still have not had a close female friend. I think I'd do well with a girl who had AS as well, but they're too much of a statistical anomaly for that to be practical.
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weather1man
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This site makes me sick.
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Blasty
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Keep your head out the window then, so the rest of us don't need to deal with it.
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