Discussion | Articles | Blogs | Books | Contact Us | Chat | Shop | Search
  WrongPlanet.net
User Stats
   Members: 21,200
   Online Now: 232



People Online:
Visitors: 151
Members: 81
New Today: 2
New Yesterday: 17
Latest: RockerChick

Search
Google
Web WP.net



  Aspie Affection
Support Wrong Planet Awareness!
I didn't get the job! :(

 
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Wrong Planet Forums Forum Index -> Work and finding a Job
View previous topic :: View next topic  
Author Message
kip
Phoenix
Phoenix


Joined: Mar 14, 2007
Age: 21
Posts: 628
Location: Las Vegas NV USA

PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 11:05 am    Post subject: I didn't get the job! :( Reply with quote

So... I didn't get the job. I tried applying to be a corrections officer for city of NLV, but... yea. I figured it would be a good job for me cause you really aren't supposed to make friends with the prisoners, you aren't expected to make eye contact, ect. I passed the written test no problem, but when I went to do the phsical exam, one of the proctors decided that since I was a girl I had to do the impossible push up. See, pushups they want your arms at a 90 degree angle, which I did. But the guy kept telling me I had to go lower, lower, till my elbows were sticking up behind me and I fell on my face.

One of the other proctors said I was doing fine, the guy I got was just a dick. But, they are all the same rank, so no one can overrule the other. He says just come back and test again in october.

Which doesn't help the bills I have now, I have like 1,000 in past due bills I need to pay. And my dad in all his grace was more than willing to help me out if I got a job and paid him back. But since I have no job to pay my bills, I'm not worthy of money from him.

He owns his house oughtright and makes over 100K a year. Seriously, he could afford to give me a hand and wait till I can to pay him back. And his other idea was that I move in with him. Well, he's the same guy who used me as a punching bad, so not gonna happen. And, if I were to move in with him I'd have to leave my BF to clean up the mess we got both of ourselves into. Plus I couldn't bring my cat. So I told him to go screw himself on that idea.

I really wish I had gotten the job... ><
_________________
The two loudest sounds in the world are a click when you should hear a bang, and a bang when you should hear a click.

You can purchase anything off the Internet except common sense.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
rifler39
Pileated woodpecker
Pileated woodpecker


Joined: Mar 17, 2008
Age: 69
Posts: 178
Location: Moses Lake, WA

PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 12:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What skills/training/education do you have? There should be many jobs in Las Vegas. My son tells me he is busier (construction - insulation) than ever and, too, his band is getting plenty of gigs. Granted, not all of those jobs are suitable for Aspies, but many are, with some training. Perhaps your father would be willing to carry you for some training, in lieu of a job, with the prospect of a better job later.

Check into the fire department and EMT. Fires don't care about your personality and injured people don't mind a professional attitude.

Check the hospitals for janitorial. Finding someone to clean up blood and vomit for longer than two weeks is always a problem for hospitals. That job takes a lot of attention to detail and using the proper tools and chemicals for each different task.
Check with the school district for janitorial or maintenance grounds-keeping. Check with the local janitorial and building maintenance firms.

Take a class for highway construction flagging.

Corrections is not the best job for an Aspie, because you have to be able to quickly read body and face language. It can be learned, but it is essential for your own safety.

My thoughts. I like your sig line. Notice mine.Very Happy

Pops
_________________
Tools are dangerous only while being controlled by a human.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Send e-mail Yahoo Messenger
kip
Phoenix
Phoenix


Joined: Mar 14, 2007
Age: 21
Posts: 628
Location: Las Vegas NV USA

PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 2:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't have to much trouble reading body language. It was one of the things my dad beat into me.

And I really try to avoid the guy unless I need money or something else. He's a complete ass who's had my mum arrested on false charges, will probably get my background check flubbed up because in 26 years he hasn't qualified for promotion cause he sexually harasses other employees and inmates, beat me to the point of being borderline disabled... I try to avoid him.

The only reason he still has a job is he's bloody smart and knows who's ass to kiss.

I like the idea of the janitor thing... not really much training involved there since i have experience, and there's a hospital right down the street. Though puke makes me want to puke myself, I caint see them minding me wearing a mask. Razz

And Vegas SHOULD have a buttload of jobs, but we are hurting worst cause of the economy. People don't have the money to burn that the economy needs to survive. Basically, if you didn't have a job before january, good luck getting one.
_________________
The two loudest sounds in the world are a click when you should hear a bang, and a bang when you should hear a click.

You can purchase anything off the Internet except common sense.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
ebec11
Missing In Action: Innocence


Joined: Jan 18, 2008
Posts: 5251
Location: A Bubble in the Ocean

PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 5:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

*hugs*
I'm so sorry for you!
I hope you feel better!
_________________
"You can do the math a thousand way, but you can't undo the past"
From P!nk's song 'I'm Not Dead'
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
drybones
Sea Gull
Sea Gull


Joined: May 15, 2008
Age: 38
Posts: 234
Location: UK

PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 5:50 pm    Post subject: Re: I didn't get the job! :( Reply with quote

ah, sorry to hear that

when i get turned down, i usually convince myself its their loss not mine. do it for long enough and i soon forget about it and focus on another job.

kip wrote:
He says just come back and test again in october.<


well thats better than "dont bother coming back" i guess but not great either
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
juliekitty
Phoenix
Phoenix


Joined: Jun 26, 2006
Posts: 1687

PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 9:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry things didn't work out.

On the other hand, if you're a girl and you're not that strong, you probably are best not to go into corrections. Speaking as a girl who's not that strong...
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
RampionRampage
Velociraptor
Velociraptor


Joined: Feb 04, 2008
Age: 24
Posts: 426
Location: Greater Philly Area, PA

PostPosted: Wed Jun 04, 2008 8:49 pm    Post subject: Re: I didn't get the job! :( Reply with quote

drybones wrote:
ah, sorry to hear that

when i get turned down, i usually convince myself its their loss not mine. do it for long enough and i soon forget about it and focus on another job.

kip wrote:
He says just come back and test again in october.<


well thats better than "dont bother coming back" i guess but not great either


true. and you can always work on your push-ups in the meantime... give the asshat one a real lesson.
exercising in general can give your life a boost, so if you're still waiting on a job, take advantage of the extra time. Smile
_________________
As of 2-06-08 --- Axis I: Asperger's Disorder | Axis III: Hearing Impaired
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message AIM Address
KenithSobel
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse


Joined: May 21, 2008
Age: 22
Posts: 41
Location: Las Vegas NV

PostPosted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 8:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey Kip, you know ill do everything in my power to help you get that job ill even workout with you.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Wrong Planet Forums Forum Index -> Work and finding a Job All times are GMT - 5 Hours
Page 1 of 1

 
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum

Wrong PlanetTM Copyright 2004-2008, Alex Plank and Yellow Sneaker Media, LLC
Alex Plank  Aspie Affection 

Terms of Service - You must read this as a user of Wrong Planet

RSS Feed Add to Google Add to My Yahoo!

Subscribe: Wrong Planet News  Wrong Planet Forums

Privacy Policy

Asperger's is not a disease

fine art