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ebec11
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 Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 11:57 pm Post subject: Are you shy and outgoing at the same time? |
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I'm really shy with strangers and people I don't like, but I'm really outgoing and silly with my friends  Anybody else like this?
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JerryHatake
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Yeah same here pretty much but I do talk a bit sometimes to people.
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TheBladeRoden
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| Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 1:11 am Post subject: |
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Yes as in I go out but i don't talk when I go out.
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pinkbowtiepumps
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| Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 2:15 am Post subject: |
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| Yes: I love meeting new people and having a good time, and if you catch me at the right moment I am very social. On the other hand, I'll sometimes get uncomfortable, and would rather be by myself. |
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EvilKimEvil
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| Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 3:01 am Post subject: |
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| I'm some sort of combination of shy and out-going that is hard to explain - you'd have to hang out with me to understand. |
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Josie
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| Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 3:05 am Post subject: |
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I am very shy...
But I am outgoing and silly with people I know very well.
I rarely speak to anyone. |
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simplyhere
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| Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 3:18 am Post subject: Re: Are you shy and outgoing at the same time? |
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| ebec11 wrote: | | I'm really shy with strangers and people I don't like, but I'm really outgoing and silly with my friends Anybody else like this? |
Yes I was like that through much of my life |
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kaytie
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| Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 4:10 am Post subject: |
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yes, i appear shy,
but sometimes if i can't relate to the
person i may appear aloof and rude,
my facial expression would be "angry"
like i'm pissed over something,
i think it's just a defense mechanism
i do to keep them off... |
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Tim_Tex
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I've had my moments.
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ebec11
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| Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 4:58 pm Post subject: |
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| EvilKimEvil wrote: | | I'm some sort of combination of shy and out-going that is hard to explain - you'd have to hang out with me to understand. |
That's what I am
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Dantac
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I think thats the very definition of awkward.
at least in my case.  |
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beef_bourito
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| Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 7:58 am Post subject: |
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| right here... sort of. it's really weird, i find it easy to approach a stranger about something, or strike up a conversation with them if it goes well, but once i start seeing them a bit i feel shy and kind of awkward until i get to know them a lot more. i feel awkward around a lot of the people i know in engineering but i was fine the last time i met new people and i'm fine with my close friends. |
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Happyhelen
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| Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 8:05 am Post subject: |
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| I am always a bit shy when I am meeting new people for the first time, but when I get to know them really well then it generally comes natually if they are understanding of me. |
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Thecodonts
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I am cynical and aloof about people half the time.
The other half, I confide in a few fellows, but nothing too deeply. |
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DarkOnister
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| Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 1:30 pm Post subject: |
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I would say so that I'm shy but not too sure about outgoing.
I find speaking to new people challenging and if its a group I won't get to know them.
I go out, but only when need be as there nothing outside worth being outside for.
I'd say I'm shy or very low voiced and to myself when I'm speaking to a shop keeper or somebody who grabs the door for me.
I think its really to do with responding to appreciation. |
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