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AMessageToYourHeart
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 Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 11:51 am Post subject: people thinking i'm strange |
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| :(every time i make freinds they always laugh and make fun of me and act as if i'm really strange i find it hard to make freinds as i only have one best mate |
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rifler39
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Location: Moses Lake, WA
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 1:06 pm Post subject: |
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This is typical for NTs in your age group. Most NTs are not secure enough nor mature enough to accept anyone who is "different" from their percieved view. We jostle their security enough that they feel the need to distance themselves. Their cruelty is their way of showing their peer group that they are "normal."
When you find those few persons who are mature enough and secure enough to accept you for who you are, rather than how they are afraid others might view them, make contact and cherish them as friends. Those are the worthy ones. Those who prove themselves unworthy aren't worth your effort.
Pops
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AMessageToYourHeart
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 2:41 pm Post subject: |
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awww  thanx for that i know i had loads of problems at school and college some people can't accept different.
thanx for your kind words |
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JerryHatake
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 3:11 pm Post subject: |
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| rifler39 wrote: | This is typical for NTs in your age group. Most NTs are not secure enough nor mature enough to accept anyone who is "different" from their percieved view. We jostle their security enough that they feel the need to distance themselves. Their cruelty is their way of showing their peer group that they are "normal."
When you find those few persons who are mature enough and secure enough to accept you for who you are, rather than how they are afraid others might view them, make contact and cherish them as friends. Those are the worthy ones. Those who prove themselves unworthy aren't worth your effort.
Pops |
Agree
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AMessageToYourHeart
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 5:11 pm Post subject: |
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| i find it very hard to make freinds just because i'm different to non aspergers, but aspergers are the best ASPERGERS RULE! |
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rifler39
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ROCK and RULE, Aspergers! 
Pops
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weather1man
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| Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 12:53 am Post subject: |
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| rifler39 wrote: | This is typical for NTs in your age group. Most NTs are not secure enough nor mature enough to accept anyone who is "different" from their percieved view. We jostle their security enough that they feel the need to distance themselves. Their cruelty is their way of showing their peer group that they are "normal."
When you find those few persons who are mature enough and secure enough to accept you for who you are, rather than how they are afraid others might view them, make contact and cherish them as friends. Those are the worthy ones. Those who prove themselves unworthy aren't worth your effort.
Pops |
I agree, this is very hard though. I have a hard time being friends with those that are different (at least those with more social issues than me), in fear of being made fun of more despite always having few friends.
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AMessageToYourHeart
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| Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 4:13 am Post subject: |
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yer i always worry about what other people think of me, at school people used to laugh behind mt back and the same at college  |
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AMessageToYourHeart
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