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Dracula
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 Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:06 am Post subject: The Lieberman Method |
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After so long of reading, watching and listening David DeAngelo material, it's refreshing to come across other's ideas.
I got this from the book Get Anyone to do Anything: Never Feel Powerless Again by David J. Lieberman. It's fluff psychology, for the most part, and annoyingly simplistic in its approach to how humans work, but I found the section on attraction most appealing:
| Quote: | Get anyone to find you irresistably attractive
* Engage in an activity with the person where emotional arousal is high (adrenaline accelerates pationate feelings)
* Youthful posture and gaite makes you more attractive to others
* Gazing into a person's eyes to make yourself more attractive
* You will be more attractive to someone else when they have recently experienced a rejection
* Reciprocal liking; Once someone likes you, deepen the attraction, by letting them know that you are attracted to them. |
No cocky & funny, no asserting masculinity, no dominating...
It might be comparable to bringing a knife to a gun fight, but better than nothing. |
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ToadOfSteel
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:54 am Post subject: |
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| When I heard "The Lieberman method", I thought it was about how to get people to like you when the establishment doesn't... |
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Dracula
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:58 am Post subject: |
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| Why the hell would I put that under Love and Dating? |
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windscar15
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 3:01 am Post subject: |
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Oh boy, another crazy plan instead of, Oh I don't know, actually being normal instead of this pseudo-psychiatric nonsense.
Face it, this pick-up artist stuff is not effective, its sleazy, objectifies women, and is just plain wrong. |
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CanyonWind
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 6:07 am Post subject: |
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^^ Sure, nobody around here needs to consider new ideas. Just take "women's studies" and recite their dumb slogans.
Good luck with that one. Oppressors always appreciate traitors, but they don't respect them.
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Yet could we turn the years again,
And call those exiles as they were
In all their loneliness and pain,
You'd cry, 'Some woman's yellow hair
Has maddened every mother's son.' -Yeats |
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Dracula
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:58 pm Post subject: |
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| CanyonWind is oppressing you, windscar. |
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windscar15
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 4:45 pm Post subject: |
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| traitor? Is that what we call people who have stopped playing the victim? |
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