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ericc
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 Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 10:02 pm Post subject: Felt messed up since the last time I've been here |
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I've been doing some research for myself trying to discover what kinds of girls I like and get back to my original dream girl type. I found out that I love Tomboys and not Feminine Women. I like ones that can doninate and control males just for fun (aka play rough) whille someone like me can be a sissy boy (or what the term is called). So I kind of got too obsessed with researching Tomboy and Sissy role-reversal relationships and going on Answers.Yahoo.com and asking the same question about 10 times until they finally said "QUIT IT!". Maybe that's just an Aspie thing, you keep asking the same dang question until you get a responce you like. Oh well, I'm still learning how to control my Aspie urges of stress and overwhelming situations so at least that's a positve note. Man, I've felt kind of screwed up in the past weeks. I've been on Google trying to find more info on Tomboys and reading too much into transgender subjects and femdom....I've forgotton the purpose of what I'm looking for.
I love Wacky Tomboys!
A modern punk Tomboy that has the personality types of Lucy Recardo, Bugs Bunny, Tank Girl and Haruko (FLCL)
I Really Love Tank Girl and FLCL. Plus I just got into the 1987 film "Some Kind of Wonderful" and now have a crush on Walttz.
Ever since I saw my first Tomboy in 3rd great, my vision of women has changed forever. I would constaintly have crushes on girls that didn't like me. It's been a problem until my first year of college.
Now I'm starting to think more clearly now.
But I'm running out of places to look at meet girls (don't worry, I don't rush into stuff anymore, I've already learned my lesson).
I want to meet punk tomboys with wacky senses of humor and like to play rough with sissys like me.
Why do I feel this way I often question myself. It's like each time I think of Wacky Tomboys that like sissies like me, I often feel more feminine and wanting her to become more masculine. I'm totally straight but I hate to admitt this or tell my parents. It'll shock them.
So, that's where I'm at know. Any advice or ideas will help. |
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sim
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| Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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| Hmm, well, I'm not going to be of much help here - but I can definitely say that FLCL-type girls (whom have the attitude and spontaneity of a bass-playing-smashing-over-your-face-oh-my-god-she-is-trying-to-molest-me-and-I-like-it) are awesome. |
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MissConstrue
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| Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 10:30 pm Post subject: Re: Felt messed up since the last time I've been here |
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| ericc wrote: | I've been doing some research for myself trying to discover what kinds of girls I like and get back to my original dream girl type. I found out that I love Tomboys and not Feminine Women. I like ones that can doninate and control males just for fun (aka play rough) whille someone like me can be a sissy boy (or what the term is called). So I kind of got too obsessed with researching Tomboy and Sissy role-reversal relationships and going on Answers.Yahoo.com and asking the same question about 10 times until they finally said "QUIT IT!". Maybe that's just an Aspie thing, you keep asking the same dang question until you get a responce you like. Oh well, I'm still learning how to control my Aspie urges of stress and overwhelming situations so at least that's a positve note. Man, I've felt kind of screwed up in the past weeks. I've been on Google trying to find more info on Tomboys and reading too much into transgender subjects and femdom....I've forgotton the purpose of what I'm looking for.
I love Wacky Tomboys!
A modern punk Tomboy that has the personality types of Lucy Recardo, Bugs Bunny, Tank Girl and Haruko (FLCL)
I Really Love Tank Girl and FLCL. Plus I just got into the 1987 film "Some Kind of Wonderful" and now have a crush on Walttz.
Ever since I saw my first Tomboy in 3rd great, my vision of women has changed forever. I would constaintly have crushes on girls that didn't like me. It's been a problem until my first year of college.
Now I'm starting to think more clearly now.
But I'm running out of places to look at meet girls (don't worry, I don't rush into stuff anymore, I've already learned my lesson).
I want to meet punk tomboys with wacky senses of humor and like to play rough with sissys like me.
Why do I feel this way I often question myself. It's like each time I think of Wacky Tomboys that like sissies like me, I often feel more feminine and wanting her to become more masculine. I'm totally straight but I hate to admitt this or tell my parents. It'll shock them.
So, that's where I'm at know. Any advice or ideas will help. |
Sounds all good to me. I've never been all that attracted to masculinity in guys or all that domination in them.masculine. Sometimes there's also such a thing as a little too much when one exaggerate's their specified gender into a role.
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ericc
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| Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 10:31 pm Post subject: |
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Totally.
I feel like I'm not much of a masculine guy. Almost like a sissy who wants a girl who acts like a masculine guy and wants to cuddle and play rough with a sissy like me.
Almost like an Ed Edd N Eddy / Kanker Sister sort of thing except on the show Eds hate Kankers, but if I was one of the Eds, I'd fall in love with a Kanker instead of Nazz.
Denonitating Tomboys are the best. Reversing the roles of masculine and femine to the oppisite genders is the kind of relationship in which I want to be in someday. I'm afriad to tell my parents, they'll think that I'm weird.
The only research results that come up is naughty web sites which kind of sucks because it's not like wikipedia where they edcucate you. |
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Pobodys_Nerfect
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| I like this kind of girl too. I think it's because they seem to be smarter. You can have a good convo with them about stuff you're interested in. They must still look feminine though. |
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Ah_Q
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I can definately relate to where your coming from. I am attracted to female anatomy but not so much to femininity. I have always been strongly attracted to tomboys for as long as I can remember. I like short haircuts not long ones. I like sneakers and boots not heels. The girly-girls, they just seem like clouds in dresses to me. All those wispy, lacy, frilly things they get all dressed up in do nothing for me. Leave that makeup alone, that stuff's for theatre people and movie stars.
I don't really know where you're coming from with the role reversal. How are you a sissy? All the girly stuff I don't really care for in women I don't like for myself either. I'm not really concerned or really cognizant about my own gender but I don't think there's anything overtly feminine about me. And I don't want to be dominated or controlled, or to do the same to someone else. Why would you want to be dominated?
I'm sorry, I'm a little confused about what's got you distraught. It sounds like you've figured out what you want. Are you just concerned about how you're going to find it now? |
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ericc
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 1:44 am Post subject: |
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| Ah_Q wrote: | I can definately relate to where your coming from. I am attracted to female anatomy but not so much to femininity. I have always been strongly attracted to tomboys for as long as I can remember. I like short haircuts not long ones. I like sneakers and boots not heels. The girly-girls, they just seem like clouds in dresses to me. All those wispy, lacy, frilly things they get all dressed up in do nothing for me. Leave that makeup alone, that stuff's for theatre people and movie stars.
I don't really know where you're coming from with the role reversal. How are you a sissy? All the girly stuff I don't really care for in women I don't like for myself either. I'm not really concerned or really cognizant about my own gender but I don't think there's anything overtly feminine about me. And I don't want to be dominated or controlled, or to do the same to someone else. Why would you want to be dominated?
I'm sorry, I'm a little confused about what's got you distraught. It sounds like you've figured out what you want. Are you just concerned about how you're going to find it now? |
Well it's like this. I feel that not only Tomboys are attractive, but more stronger and Masculine than me. So what a typical feminine women feels about a masculine guy, I feel for Tomboys. This strong fasinating creature that loves me. I don't want to be the dominate one. I want the Tomboy to be.
Role Reversal is kind of simular to this.
I'm the sensitive gental one and the Tomboy is the rough masculine one.
You know how when guys fool around with girls, they pick them up and kiss them. I want a Tomboy to do that to me.
And when it comes to role reversal relationship, mentally I'm the wife and she's the husband. But it's not like I want to me a feminine women and where a dress. Though I would like my Tomboy wife to wear mens clothes and have buzzcut hair.
I did research on FTM or transgenders, but that's too far for me. I like Tomboys who cross-dress like men. |
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LePetitPrince
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 4:44 am Post subject: |
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It seems that you want more than just a tomboy girl , what you are seeking for is a dominating masculine manly girl , a girl that leads the relationship, It's kinda unusual.
I define tomboy girl as a normal girl who has 'male' interests such as computers , video games, 'male' sports...etc but she's a girl nevertheless.
I like femininity in girls (ie. feminine body, voice, kindness...) and I don't dislike tomboy girls ,many of them are extremely feminine, having 'male' interests doesn't make a girl less feminine.
The thing is that tomboy girls usually have a damn strong personality and tend to try to dominate the relation and we aspies tend to be calm and they might take advantage of them and think that they can take advantage of. Personally, this is a red line that I can't allow it to be crossed, no one can dominate me.
And oh....btw I don't think tomboy girls usually like sissies. |
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ericc
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 8:57 am Post subject: |
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| LePetitPrince wrote: | It seems that you want more than just a tomboy girl , what you are seeking for is a dominating masculine manly girl , a girl that leads the relationship, It's kinda unusual.
I define tomboy girl as a normal girl who has 'male' interests such as computers , video games, 'male' sports...etc but she's a girl nevertheless.
I like femininity in girls (ie. feminine body, voice, kindness...) and I don't dislike tomboy girls ,many of them are extremely feminine, having 'male' interests doesn't make a girl less feminine.
The thing is that tomboy girls usually have a damn strong personality and tend to try to dominate the relation and we aspies tend to be calm and they might take advantage of them and think that they can take advantage of. Personally, this is a red line that I can't allow it to be crossed, no one can dominate me.
And oh....btw I don't think tomboy girls usually like sissies. |
Although there might be possibilities. The Mainstreem society now uses "Tomboy" as a social slang to discribe girls who like boy stuff instead of it's original use where I believe.
Though when I mean dominating, I mean more masculine with love control not the control of relationships.
Like I mentioned before, it's almost like role reversal mentally. Say in a marrage, Even though I would be a husband, mentally I'm the wife and she's the husband. Or in a relationship, mentally I'm the girlfriend and she's the rough yet kind hearted boyfriend. Noticed that I've said mentally so it doesn't count as transsexual or goes deep into those roots.
I found this article fasinating
http://blogs.smh.com.au/lifestyle/asksam/archives/2008/04/role_reversals_the_urbane_tomb.html
I'm not sure if Sissies and Tomboys fall in the catergory of Androgy or something like that, though I'm not sure what it is exactly or if I'm personally one. It's like I don't feel like I'm masculine like most men, but I like to joke around in a rough sense.
I know that I'm not homosexual because I just don't like men. Though even though I'm straight, I like buzzcut girls who act like men. It's strange. |
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ericc
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 10:26 am Post subject: |
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| I've been in depression a lot because I like wacky Tomboys. It's like life isn't excitng anymore, Is I age more and more, life doesn't seem to move. I feel there's no where to go to meet one. That's all I want to do in my free time now, is hang out with a masculine Tomboy. I wished I knew what to do. My parents don't allow me on MySpace and I'm 20. I'm trying out OkCupid and trying to research other dating sites. I don't want to seem despirate or anything, but I wouldn't ever want to date anyone outside the Tomboy image. It's the only girl that I'm attracted to. |
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ericc
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It was a good thing that my pajammas on one of my shelfs where hiding a open notebook in which I wrote notes about Sissy / Tomboy role reversal relationships on because my parents sometimes come home earlier that I do and they come in my room so they can add to the laundry. Plus my parents are homophobic and they believe in what society taught them........for example they might say that a Tomboy or the kind of girls I like are homosexual or I need to get rid of my homosexual outlook on looking for women who dress and act like boys. They haven't said this yet because I'm hiding all this from them. Plus most of my life, my father was kind of disapointed at me for not liking sports, being masculine and being more of an overly sensitive guy, But my father still cares for me a great deal because I'm his only kid. I'm not saying that my parents are evil and they are coming after me, they care for me a great deal. It's just that they are serious logic society conformists that only believe in Society Norms of all sorts, that includes GENDER ROLES which kind of scares me.
I have my pharapist next week and I'm thinking of revealing this to him since he's the only one who I can openly talk to about this but you know how they are..............they write stuff down in their books.............and plus I don't know if they are going to reveal this stuff to my parents? Well, I guess I can trust him. He's talked to a pationt who's homosexual and who was afriad of telling his father.
I'm really starting to like Boyish Girls! Girls who wear men's clothes and behaves like guys mostly.
I haven't mentioned this but one time I was curious about cross-dressing, and I like silky clothing and wearing color, but it freaked me out so much that I had to take all the stuff 2 minutes after I put everything on. It scared me to death. Each time I looked in a mirror, I never really see myself as a 20 masculine man but a cute teenage boy. I always considered myself more of a cute, gental and very sensitive person than a Masculine strong person.
I've been very confussed and overwhelmed over this. I'm not into men, but manish behaving cute Masculine Tomboys. |
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ericc
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 8:24 pm Post subject: |
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| I think that I'm Androgyne that is attracted to Andromimetophilia http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andromimetophilia But not too much into FTM because surgary can totally take the girl look away. |
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 8:29 pm Post subject: |
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That's cool, I think tomboys are attractive myself. I'm not entirely masculine either. I think I have a fine balance between the two sides.
But I've always liked it when girls show up the boys in anything. 
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ericc
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 8:51 pm Post subject: |
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| For some reason, the thought of a Women acting, dressing and have buzzcut haircuts makes my heartbeat. I would want them to do whatever they wanted to me. It's strange. |
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youknowandy
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 10:05 pm Post subject: |
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| i understand some of what you're saying. sometimes, i think that I want either a very submissive ladylike wife or a very dominant tomboyish wife. it's somewhat of a comforting notion that one or the other will call the shots. trying to balance out the power in a family just seems so stressful. being "equal" in a close partnership marriage seems to take a lot of social skills. i'm not saying that this is what i actually want or think is actually healthy, but there is an appeal to it. |
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