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iamlucille
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 4:06 pm    Post subject: Anyone Insecure? Reply with quote

Don't worry, you can share this here, we won't make fun of you Smile

I mean, I do. I sometimes don't feel like I can live up to some of the people I know. It's not models, even, it's real people. I really wish I could. I could go into detail here but I'll let youguys do that...
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TheOrangeMage
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 6:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I only feel insecure in the terms of "once I'm out in the world" and "I'm not good-looking enough to get any girl's attention" I'm quite confident in other areas.
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Chris
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 10:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm not as insecure as I used to be, now that I've developed my theory on other adolescents and the triple-threat of Insecurity, Jealousy, and Spite. For some reason, I feel even more insecure and left out when I come to wrongplanet... Sad
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 10:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i used to be really insecure when i was younger but now im ok with myself and my attributes.
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 4:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I used to be more insecure than I am now. It's helped that I have friends (and family and teachers) who accept the way I am and encourage me to do the same. Here's a quote your thread reminded me of, lucille:

"If you don't know and love yourself, then who can?" -Lucy Camden, Seventh Heaven

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 07, 2005 4:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Constantly all the time about every little thing I’m not sure where my insecurities causes my paranoia or visa versa but I am pretty sure there linked and they are both caused by that this rampaging gnome living in my head. You learn to live with it
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 07, 2005 5:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i'm almost always insecure
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 09, 2005 8:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My mom has manifested a diagnosable eating disorder at least twice in my lifetime, once when I was very young. I think partly as a result of this, I started hating how I looked REALLY young. In second grade I hated my hair- I remember bashing myself about it in class. In third grade I started to feel fat, and in forth grade started skipping lunches. I got geniunely obese when I was thirteen or so, and started weight watchers when I was fifteen and have been on that diet (it's behavior modification) pretty much nonstop since then with a couple of -ahem- sabbaticals that did not go well. Now, I'm apparently "small" but I still feel like my body is kinda lousy. Sometimes I can look in the mirror and feel OK; sometimes I just despise how I look.

I also recently noticed that some things kinda "bend" at the edges of my full-length bathroom mirror and I'm starting to wonder if it's warped, and if so, is it making me look fatter or thinner? I hope it's making me look fatter. I really do.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 2:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can be really insecure at times. I'm always trying to look like I'm not. I think it makes people think I'm stupid...
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 10:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah, sometimes I feel like I'm not pretty enough, or just good enough at anything. I feel like other people always have it so much better.

Then I remember that my talent is something they never will have. I remember my family and friends and how they're there for me, and how i'm lucky to have come this far, and how much farther I can go!
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 9:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I suppose that I'm concerned that I'm somewhat ugly and that my voice is horrible (and I clutter), but this is because I think I may want to enter politics and know I want to enter journalism.
The latter's difficult and the former's impossible without charisma.
Chris wrote:
For some reason, I feel even more insecure and left out when I come to wrongplanet... Sad

Why so?
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 6:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I used to be VERY insecure but now I am not.


-SpaceCase Smile
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 3:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Insecure as all get-out. My pride is very easily wounded and very slow to heal. And sometimes I worry that my friends don't really like me, etc.- even with a kid whom I've known for nearly three and a half years and been close to for over two years, I worry about it...
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 3:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rhubarbpluscustard wrote:
Insecure as all get-out. My pride is very easily wounded and very slow to heal. And sometimes I worry that my friends don't really like me, etc.- even with a kid whom I've known for nearly three and a half years and been close to for over two years, I worry about it...


I worry about that too. I would like tot hink that most of my friends would outright tell me if I pissed them off, though, and I think they mostly either would or wouldn't let it bother them. I'd rather be confronted than secretly hated, provided a. I could fix the problem/issue and b. it wasn't some kind of violent physical or verbally abusive confrontation.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 5:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm alot more insecure online than the real world. In the real world, I'm already aware of what little I have to hold of myself, and I accept that. But if I become an exceptionally unpopular figure in cyberspace too, well...
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