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Postperson
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 1:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I decided to kill my limerence off yesterday. I think it's working, I'll just keep killing it when it tries to reanimate. I feel a lot stronger. It's a weak state this limerence thing. yuk.
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The Daughter of Indifference


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 2:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I also wonder if it corresponds to a kind of beguilement?
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 9:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Experiencing limerence indicates that you are human. As were your parents when a similar force brought them together to create you. It's pretty childish, this whole Down With Love thing. Are you all pre-adolescents?
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 6:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

slowmutant wrote:
Experiencing limerence indicates that you are human. As were your parents when a similar force brought them together to create you. It's pretty childish, this whole Down With Love thing. Are you all pre-adolescents?


Basically. I was raised by wolves.......you know the rest of the story. Sigh.
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 8:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote


I was raised by Squibbles Smile
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Tim_Tex
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 8:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I found that wiki a bit confusing.
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 8:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

but then, Limerance can be so sneaky...Wink and hard to spell...Wink
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 8:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Limerance. Sounds like a quaint little Irish village. Smile
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 9:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

slowmutant wrote:
Limerance. Sounds like a quaint little Irish village. Smile


Filled with insane people? Wink
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 12:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Postperson wrote:
I decided to kill my limerence off yesterday. I think it's working, I'll just keep killing it when it tries to reanimate. I feel a lot stronger. It's a weak state this limerence thing. yuk.


good. I am doing the same....but I have already made an idiot fool of myself....ah well...don't need no stupid dumb friends anyway nohow.....blah...
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 1:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

But just how DOES one "kill" their limerence?
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 1:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i think you starve it out, stop thinking about it, reject thoughts about it, replace them with other interests. just mental discipline.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 2:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Postperson wrote:
i think you starve it out, stop thinking about it, reject thoughts about it, replace them with other interests. just mental discipline.


I don't know how to do that. >.<
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 2:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Laughing

Just assume you're rejected and turn that lerv into hate.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 1:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Funny....but there is a shade of that to it.

I am a "gift giver"...the subject rejected my gift...(i meant it as a barter)....so I take that as being rejected.

It made me feel very embarrased and cranky......

oh well...

I will also stop going to places where said person goes. Which will kinda suck because that is one of my few social/creative activities that I enjoy right out the window.

oh well.
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