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Zara
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 Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 12:52 pm Post subject: Well it's over now |
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After a small squabble over not answering my calls about a get together today(which isn't happening now) I've gotten my confirmation that she only likes me as a friend.
I don't want to bother with this anymore now. I don't feel too bad now that I know for certain, but I also feel like I've wasted my time and needlessly embarrassed myself enough over this.
And yet, I don't see the friends angle working out. I've trying to be just friends, it's fine with those few rare moments we hang out, but otherwise it's too damn stressful to stay in touch with her. I wouldn't even call us "good" friends. I don't know what I'll do about it now... I think I'll just do nothing.
I'm already back to looking at dating sites again. Man this feels pathetic. I can't ever find anyone who seems genuinely appealing with my same interests online. All the girls just say the same things on their profiles. This just looks so hopeless for someone like me.
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt66976.html
You know, I keep thinking that I should have said something then. It just seemed like things had been "off" ever since then. Maybe I would've gotten the friends spiel then and avoided the rest of this.
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Silver_Meteor
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| Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 1:41 pm Post subject: |
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Well, if she only likes you as a friend then that settles the matter.
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MissConstrue
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| Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 4:53 pm Post subject: |
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Hey rejection happens to a lot of people and it hurts, move on.
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matsuiny2004
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| Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 4:59 pm Post subject: Re: Well it's over now |
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| Zara wrote: | After a small squabble over not answering my calls about a get together today(which isn't happening now) I've gotten my confirmation that she only likes me as a friend.
I don't want to bother with this anymore now. I don't feel too bad now that I know for certain, but I also feel like I've wasted my time and needlessly embarrassed myself enough over this.
And yet, I don't see the friends angle working out. I've trying to be just friends, it's fine with those few rare moments we hang out, but otherwise it's too damn stressful to stay in touch with her. I wouldn't even call us "good" friends. I don't know what I'll do about it now... I think I'll just do nothing.
I'm already back to looking at dating sites again. Man this feels pathetic. I can't ever find anyone who seems genuinely appealing with my same interests online. All the girls just say the same things on their profiles. This just looks so hopeless for someone like me.
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt66976.html
You know, I keep thinking that I should have said something then. It just seemed like things had been "off" ever since then. Maybe I would've gotten the friends spiel then and avoided the rest of this. |
did you try aspie affections or set up a profile aimed specifically at a person on the spectrum? Are you looking for another person that is on the spectrum
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MR_BOGAN
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Joined: Mar 06, 2008
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Location: The great trailer park in the sky!
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| Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 5:45 pm Post subject: Re: Well it's over now |
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| Zara wrote: | I've gotten my confirmation that she only likes me as a friend.
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Zara that is what I was trying to tell you, no suprises there. It is your own fault if you are disapointed.
What is wrong with having women as friends anyway, she sounded like a nice person. |
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Zara
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I have a profile on AA. Haven't looked at it in a long while. Not really anyone in my area though.
We can still be friends. But for now, I need a break from her. I'll just wait for her to contact me again when she is ready.
I'm disappointed because I know I made mistakes and blew it. She was just the kind of girl I wanted as a GF, we shared the same interests, same passions, same beliefs, incredibly cute, is single and was willing to hang out with me one on one... Such a combination is just so incredibly rare. It was too good to be true.
It might do me good to start looking for other women again. I just don't see how I'll find someone that tops that...
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