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UberElvis
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| Sea_of_Saiyan wrote: | I think it's the 'jocks' and 'populars' you are referring to more than NT boys in general.
I know several NT teen guys who are nothing like you described, and I find them to be very nice people. |
Agreed. My main group of friends consist of two NTs and one aspie. The aspie, is fine by me for the obvious reason of being an aspie. The first NT is actually just returning to school after being bullied and spending years out of school because of school anxiety so he's obviously not 'jock' or 'popular'. The second NT is just a cool dude who enjoys rock music (like me, again not 'jock' or 'popular'). These 'jocks' think they are so special, thus, no self-improvement unless it's in a physical activity. Same with 'populars' only their even worse because they get no self-improvement at all. Just remember, by the time they get out of high school, the 'populars' go nowhere, and a majority of 'jocks' go nowhere unless they are way at the top of the sports food chain. Meanwhile, most of us aspies are most likely to go into college to study our "special subject" whether it's computers, art, music, math, science, etc. We then emerge successful and able to get a job. Meanwhile, these 'populars' and 'jocks' are eating in homeless shelters if they are lucky. |
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dalekaspie
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| Posted: Sat May 02, 2009 3:10 pm Post subject: |
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| can't stand them belughh NTness; it don sit right with me |
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Redbus
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| Posted: Sun May 03, 2009 5:30 am Post subject: |
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ITT: Unfair sweeping generalisations of neurotypicals.
I see this too often, and I've only been here a few days. Not all aspies are deep and meaningful, and not all nt's are idiots. |
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GeorgeM
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| Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 9:57 pm Post subject: |
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Oh god, tonight was the annual "Senior Streak"
Unfortunately all the noise has prevented me from studying for AP European History, which is tomorrow
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Hyperlynx
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| Posted: Wed May 13, 2009 1:46 pm Post subject: |
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| IMO it's more like jocks don't let non-jocks mature. Once I met a boy of my age (I assume he was an NT), whom I previously knew as a total jock. With his "friends" away, his style suddenly changed, and it was immediately clear to me that he was rather mature, but was forced to act "popular" by peer pressure. This was when I thanked my parents for homeschooling me. I guess it's specifically the poor social skills that protects Aspies from such influence. |
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princesseli
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| I cant say much about adolescent NT boys cause I didnt have any friends during highschool. I think that guys can put up with sh** I give them much better then girls cause I give sometimes give people a lotta of sh**. I will more easily make and loose girls as friends more quickly. I've never lost a guy friend cause I gave them too much sh**(but I almost did a couple times) but that was after giving them way more sh** then Ive ever given to any of the girlfriends that I've lost. |
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Emor
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I can't stand most of them.
But, tbh, the Autistic and Aspegeric(is that a word? XD) guys in my year aren't any better, they just don't make it so obvious(but in their social circle it's pretty obvious...)
Online, the aspies are a lot more mature, but there was this one guy who played mind games. The first conversation I had with him we talked about mind games and I stated how much one guy(my ex basically) messed up my head with mind games and made my depression a lot worse. I mean he was twisted, really twisted. Worse than all the immature NTs I've came across. Just what he did with the knowledge of how much mind games messed me up and then him saying he only does mind games to people who deserve it... I just can't comprehend why people have to be such dick heads.
I agree though, NT girls aren't any different from NT males, they're also just better at hiding it. My NT females who I use to trust and define as a friend had done some really juvenile things behind my back...
TBH, I think I just hate everyone today, LOL. Ask me tomorrow and I'll probably think NT guys are awesome or something xD.
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d057
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| Posted: Mon May 25, 2009 11:07 pm Post subject: |
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It depends on the NTs guys personality. Not all of them are bad.
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Henriksson
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| Posted: Tue May 26, 2009 7:22 am Post subject: |
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There are a lot of annoying NT girls too.
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CloudWalker
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| Posted: Tue May 26, 2009 7:31 am Post subject: |
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| Henriksson wrote: | | There are a lot of annoying NT girls too. |
Totally agree. |
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Saph
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| z0rp wrote: | | FireFox wrote: | | z0rp wrote: | | You've been speaking to the wrong ones, some of us are more intelligent and overall more mature than some adults. |
You're an aspie though aren't you? I'm talking about the neurotypical adolescent boys. They're so immature. |
Bah, for the record I'm not entirely sure if it's just a thing with NTs, people who aren't NTs in general (You don't have to be an aspie not to be an NT) could be immature. I bet a decent amount of aspies that are in adolescence are quite immature, especially judging by the people who've messaged me on this site and I've spoken to, some of them were very immature, even those older than me. Now did I say all were immature? No, actually more were very mature than immature but around three people I had issues with.
Regardless I don't even think it's a question of sex, one of the main reasons I find myself uninterested in most girls I meet is because of their maturity levels, which is why I plan to wait a few years. I personally don't see the point in high school relationships that last a week to two months, which is why I tend to turn down people when I'm asked. |
I agree with that. I think it's just people in general. Some guys are immature, and some aren't. It really just depends.
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protest_the_hero
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| CloudWalker wrote: | | Henriksson wrote: | | There are a lot of annoying NT girls too. |
Totally agree. |
True, but not as much. Guys are far more aggressive and want to look tough.
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Lecks
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| Posted: Tue Jun 02, 2009 10:09 pm Post subject: |
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| protest_the_hero wrote: | | True, but not as much. Guys are far more aggressive and want to look tough. |
It depends on your outlook, I've always been more annoyed by popular girls who mentally torment other girls for not being carbon copies of some swimsuit model and look down on any guy who wasn't in the same place as them in the "social hierarchy".
Stuck up little...uh nevermind. |
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Daniel09
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| Posted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 11:01 pm Post subject: |
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| NT guys are annoying, but I can get through to some, and take advantage of others in my own way. It's a lot of fun figuring out there psychology and then using it to get them to tell you things like secrets. *sinister smirk* I'm a baaaad boy when it comes to using people. |
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Darktan
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| Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 8:24 pm Post subject: |
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| While I'm not really NT (ADD! WHOO!), I think putting people into such broad categories just doesn't work. Go on an individually basis, since there are so many people you are bound to meet an example of every type of person many, many times. |
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