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ProtossX
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 Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 8:09 am Post subject: Do girls you like want nothing to do with you? |
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Is this mosly an aspie thing?
I really attracted to a few girls and they were blond hot nice boobs an stuff and well they don't want anything to do with me romantically but instead I get girls who I am not intrested at all talking to me and asking me to go places and i dont wanna go with them anywhere so i just avoid them
Why does it seem like I can't send the right signals to people I like and why do they not like me? |
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Drakilor
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So, you're upset over people ignoring your romantic advances while simultaneously brushing off approaching girls? High standards, much?
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ProtossX
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 8:50 am Post subject: |
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Really? I didn't know it was having too high standards if you're attracted to someone and not to someone else, how can I help who im attracted too physically it either happens or it doesn't.
An so far everyone its happened to is one that doesn't like me at all or not in that way.
Anyway thanks for giving me no help in my question whatsoever and wasting both our time. |
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Drakilor
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 9:07 am Post subject: |
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| ProtossX wrote: | Really? I didn't know it was having too high standards if you're attracted to someone and not to someone else, how can I help who im attracted too physically it either happens or it doesn't.
An so far everyone its happened to is one that doesn't like me at all or not in that way.
Anyway thanks for giving me no help in my question whatsoever and wasting both our time. |
Your taste isn't unique. Everyone likes smoking hot chicks with blond hair and hot nice boobs. Beauty is largely a single dimensional variable.
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Hector
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 9:09 am Post subject: Re: Do girls you like want nothing to do with you? |
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| I can't answer your second question for you, there could be all kinds of reasons and many of them could be out of your control. All I can suggest is to stay patient and look for some other girl if you're not going anywhere with your present sexual interest. Your first question, however, is very simple; the answer is no. |
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kip
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 9:27 am Post subject: |
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You could try re-evaluating why you think particular chicks are hot. If you're just looking to get some, then its obvious.
But, for most people, getting a lasting relationship is based on anything but looks. Yea, you think that girl you're with is the most beautiful woman you've ever seen, but its because you love everything about her. Common interests are a good way to start.
The best advice to find someone to date is to quit looking. Really. If you're looking so hard, you're actually going to miss quite a few good friendships which have the potential to evolve.
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JohnHopkins
In no way offensive to anybody. Honest.
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 10:48 am Post subject: Re: Do girls you like want nothing to do with you? |
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| ProtossX wrote: | | Is this mosly an aspie thing? |
No.
Although you rejecting these other girls shows you clearly don't have as many problems as most people on this board. |
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ProtossX
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 10:57 am Post subject: Re: Do girls you like want nothing to do with you? |
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| JohnHopkins wrote: | | ProtossX wrote: | | Is this mosly an aspie thing? |
No.
Although you rejecting these other girls shows you clearly don't have as many problems as most people on this board. |
oh believe me you don't want these other girls that im talkin about
HUGE AN FAT and ugly
or ugly an face looks bad and idea of fun is going to a book club an wantin me to come along an talk about shelving books on a library
id rather kill myself then date some of ethes ppl |
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JohnHopkins
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| Well aren't you just lovely. |
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Gamester
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 11:24 am Post subject: Re: Do girls you like want nothing to do with you? |
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| ProtossX wrote: | | JohnHopkins wrote: | | ProtossX wrote: | | Is this mosly an aspie thing? |
No.
Although you rejecting these other girls shows you clearly don't have as many problems as most people on this board. |
oh believe me you don't want these other girls that im talkin about
HUGE AN FAT and ugly
or ugly an face looks bad and idea of fun is going to a book club an wantin me to come along an talk about shelving books on a library
id rather kill myself then date some of ethes ppl |
So. What you're saying is that you're a male chauvinst pig.
LADIES AND GENTLEMEN for your consideration, avoid PROTOSS X, he's an idiot, and stupid at at as well, since he knows nothing at all about women.
You know if you ever want to get a girl little boy, you just might want to consider how much of an arse you are, how much of an arse you're going to be, and twenty years from now when you're still single, and start complaining, remember that it's because you turned down a lot of great possiblities, because you didn't want to keep your pants zipped up at all.
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ProtossX
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 11:34 am Post subject: |
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wow im an idiot now becuz i dont want to date girls im not attracted too?
what do I win?
im chauvisistic cuz i have a certain taste of girls i like? again why can't i have tastes?
knows nothin bout women then why do they keep comin up to me an askin me to go places with them? hmm basically i do know women and i know all about life and im smarter then anyone in here |
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JohnHopkins
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 11:52 am Post subject: |
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| ProtossX wrote: | | hmm basically i do know women and i know all about life and im smarter then anyone in here |
Ha. Previously, I thought you were just misguided. Now... |
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Gamester
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 11:58 am Post subject: |
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| ProtossX wrote: | wow im an idiot now becuz i dont want to date girls im not attracted too?
what do I win?
im chauvisistic cuz i have a certain taste of girls i like? again why can't i have tastes?
knows nothin bout women then why do they keep comin up to me an askin me to go places with them? hmm basically i do know women and i know all about life and im smarter then anyone in here |
Hahahahahaha, you're funny. Have you considered comedy as your life's work?
Kid, i got news for you. I'm 21, and I've been down the path you call life. Obviously you must of taken the scenic tour for lesser mortals, because you know nothing.
you want blondes and boobs? Okay, go to a strip club and hire a dancer to get you a lap dance, and then go find a hooker out there and get laid. there problem solved.
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ProtossX
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wow this is just great someone deleted my Le Petit Prince thread 
hes my favorite user on this forum
hes probably the most REAL person ive ever read from on here
He doesn't pull back punches and doesn't fall intoall the hype easily |
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Xercies
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| Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 12:49 pm Post subject: |
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I really do despair sometimes, one word those smoking hot blonde woman with big boobs usually do not have a brain and just want to text their mates and have steming sex with romantic hunks and talk about their hair all day.
"Fat woman" as you say to them usually have a great(but usually troubled) personality, soem of the mwill actually talk to you and may be interested in some of the subjects you like.
If your looking for more then a one night stand the fat woman is probably the way to go...
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