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SINsister
the towering inferno
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| LivingOutsideTheBox wrote: | | Just don't be shy. |
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Mattsmum
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Joined: Mar 31, 2008
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| Nice guys should never change who they are. They will find the right person, it may just take a little time. I think its the same for girls too - when you are younger you go for the opposite - nice girls tend to go for bad boys, nice guys tend to go for nasty women. As you get older you look for a deep connection (not just physical) I always used to go for the good-looking guys but often got hurt - there was always another pretty girl to catch their eye. However, when I met my husband I was attracted to the whole package - his personality, his political and moral values, his laid back nature, his kindness, his sexy charm. And he is short and bald not tall, dark and handsome, lol! When you meet the right person, you meet the right person. Good guys always win in the end, in my opinion. |
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Maddkow
Blue Jay
Joined: Sep 24, 2008
Age: 23
Posts: 91
Location: Orlando, FL
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The fact that only a few girls have like me because of me being the the nice guy/gentleman, is now leading me to believe that those few females around my age (18-23) that DO like the nice guys/gentleman are very mature, while the rest who only want the bad boys are just immature little brats. Even though I'm the "nice guy" type around a bunch of immature freshman (lol), mentioning being a Senior somehow sparks their interest lol (probably because that's considered "status", right?)
Just to not sound sexist/misogynistic, I can say vice versa about my own gender and going after the real trampy/slutty dressed females. (I've never liked that slutty type either)
My friend has advised me to look for "women", and not "girls", that is, females who are not into head games and want to be mature instead of skanks who get drunk at frat parties every weekend.... he mentioned I should look for women whom are like 24-29 range.... Then again, I'm only still in school, with no job, so how could I put myself at high value with a woman who's already out of school and has just began to work?
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PlatedDrake
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Joined: Aug 26, 2009
Age: 29
Posts: 461
Location: Piedmont Region, NC, USA
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| Being a guy in the 25-29 range, finding the right woman isnt any easier. Its especially hard since i lack a decent job and an overall direction in life. I just want someone in my life to prove that there is a reason to wake up each morning . . . and its possible the lack of something meaningful with another person (outside the family) could be hindering my thoughts and focus. Gah, getting depressed because of this topic again . . . |
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OneLuke
Hummingbird
Joined: Jul 06, 2009
Age: 17
Posts: 23
Location: Melbourne, Australia.
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| anandamide wrote: | | Women aren't generally "allowed" to admit that they feel lust but once I had that figured out then those "jerk" guys had a lot less power over me. If you want to help change women's attitudes among the women you meet then make it okay for a woman to admit when she feels lust in your communication with her and let her know it is okay to feel that way because if she can identify lust for what it is then she can deal more effectively with that emotion. |
I am keen to understand more about this alleged problem that females find themselves in. Are you able to elaborate on this 'inability to admit lust in a socially acceptable manner' dilemna? |
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