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KingofKaboom
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Location: North Mississippi
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 Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 12:10 am Post subject: Graaaaa so infuriating... |
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This really cute girl I have met her once on the second day of school and I helped her in the bookstore b/c she couldn't hold all her stuff and she's so cute but I thought I'd never see her again and now I have she's in the same dorm as I am and I know which room she is in but I have no way as of yet to introduce myself maybe I'll ask my roommate to help me out I dunno.. I found her on facebook but I won't send her a message as that does seem to put them off if I just send them one so quickly like that w/o talking with them more but dang if she and I don't have a lot in common according to her facebook atleast just wish I could find a way to talk to her again just need an idea but if it comes down to it I'll ask my roommate who told me her name to introduce us sometime.
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Butterflair
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| Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 12:19 am Post subject: |
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You could just say "Hi, I met you at the bookstore. Looks like were in the same dorm." Then smile. If a conversation ensues, then ask if she has facebook or my space and if she says yes, just ask if you can add her as a friend. If a conversation is awkward then ask some questions or talk about the dorm and the bookstore. That's your connection.
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KingofKaboom
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| Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 12:34 am Post subject: |
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I know what to talk to her about I just need an excuse really though  I think she may like me a little and she seems really cool but I just need a chance to talk to her... I can see her door and were right across from each others rooms so maybe if I'm lucky we'll run into each other by accident if not I might be able to force chance a little and meet her anyway 
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Akajohnnyx
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Location: Caro, Michigan
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| Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 1:07 am Post subject: |
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Girls love compliments, dude. But say a genuine one. If her hair looks nice, tell her. Girls spend a lot of time on their hair, so when a guys says it looks nice, then all that time was worthwhile. And if she says something along the lines of, "Well I think it looks like crap" or "I only spent two minutes on it", then you two can have a good laugh. That's another thing. Girls love when a guy makes them laugh. And if she starts laughing at everything you say, then you know you've got her hook, line, and sinker.
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KingChaosNinja
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Location: Pittsburgh
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I believe in the trial by fire approach. Get a big NIKE poster from the 90's that has MJ on it and says "JUST DO IT!" in big bold letters and put it on your wall. It's the only way you're going to get anywhere on your own.
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ToadOfSteel
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Location: New Jersey
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| Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 1:29 am Post subject: |
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| Akajohnnyx wrote: | | And if she starts laughing at everything you say, then you know you've got her hook, line, and sinker. |
Not necessarily true. There was this girl I asked out back when I was 14 (promptly rejected with the "let's just be friends" comment due to the awkwardness on my part). I truly did love her, but alas, it didn't happen. We're still friends to this day. Anyway, She often laughs at 95% of the witty comments I make (and I make alot of them in conversation...)
| Quote: | | Haha, but I'm single, so what the hell do I know. |
Being single has no bearing on what you know or don't know. I'm single, and you don't see me refraining from giving advice... |
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Akajohnnyx
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Good point(s), ToadOfSteel.
Yeah, it's a good sign if the girl's a laugh-o-matic but it's no guarantee. Girls seem to laugh a lot when they're nervous (like when meeting someone new) so it may not mean anything.
As someone with little personal experience with relationships, I just think there are others better qualified to be dispensing this sort of advice.
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ToadOfSteel
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| Akajohnnyx wrote: | Good point(s), ToadOfSteel.
Yeah, it's a good sign if the girl's a laugh-o-matic but it's no guarantee. Girls seem to laugh a lot when they're nervous (like when meeting someone new) so it may not mean anything. |
Well I, for one, can usually tell nervous laughter from genuine laughter, especially with people I know (another reason I'd rather go out with someone I know over a stranger...) I don't know if that's the case with everyone, but it's usually obvious to me. Nervous laughter lacks the enthusiasm that real laughter has...
| Quote: | | As someone with little personal experience with relationships, I just think there are others better qualified to be dispensing this sort of advice. |
As someone with little experience with the executive branch, I just think there are others better qualified to be President than Obama, and yet half the country supports him...
PS: Sorry if I'm coming off like a jackass; it wasn't my intention to... |
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Akajohnnyx
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It's all good, dude.
Well, I've had a long day- I'm turning in.
Best of luck, KingofKaboom.
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