should i be friends with this person or not?

jus4u76 · Posted: Wed Oct 01, 2008 6:03 pm Post subject:

she's tired of me because i talk often about how im feeling. im depressed all the time, so i tell about things, but now i just randomly tell her about things related to my problems. i've known her for over a year, but she thinks that she shouldn't get close with me because this is what happens. now i don't want to call or see her(although i don't see her much) unless she does it first. is this an aspie thing? i admit that im the only one talking on the phone and i always have a certain topic im obsessed about to her like what kind of mental illnesses i think i have. i did talk only and a lot about these kind of things like movies and actors. do you think i have severe asperger's? i have it mild. we were close, but now we aren't. she goes mad once in a while because of this. i also didn't bring a book and her umbrella she told me to bring. i was focused on giving the umbrella before she went away, but i guess she wanted it before then. do other aspies notice their problems, too? if so, do they fix it?same with the book. when i picked up the phone, i told before i said anything that i would bring the book, but she said asked how i was going to bring it if i didn't bring it today, so i thought that she didn't need it the next day. i was also focused on giving it to her the day she had that class. but she got mad and surprised that i didn't.