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Aurore
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 Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 12:13 pm Post subject: Wanting an apology from fiance |
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My fiance just got me into a massive amount of trouble - I may end up kicked out of my residence hall, suspended, possibly even expelled. It was him doing the idiotic thing that got us citations, I was just in the wrong place at the wrong time. He said it sucked he got me into this mess but I am still waiting for an apology. Am I wrong to be super pissed he hasn't formally apologized to me?
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SPCDavid
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| Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 12:33 pm Post subject: |
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| Guys are bad at apologizing. Sometimes it takes us a while to process the extent of how bad we messed up, and sometimes the thought just never occurs to us. He clearly owes you an apology though. I hope your school isn't unreasonable enough to punish you on account of his misconduct. |
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Aurore
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| Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 1:31 pm Post subject: |
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| SPCDavid wrote: | | Guys are bad at apologizing. Sometimes it takes us a while to process the extent of how bad we messed up, and sometimes the thought just never occurs to us. He clearly owes you an apology though. I hope your school isn't unreasonable enough to punish you on account of his misconduct. |
Yeah, this is why I was trying not to be too frustrated with him.
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sinsboldly
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| Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:04 pm Post subject: |
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An engagement is not complete, nor is the relationship tested until he can come back to you and say (in his own way, of course) "honey, I was an idiot, but losing you would be far more idiotic, can you ever forgive me?"
then you know you have a man and husband material!
good luck!
Merle
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Aurore
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| Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 5:02 pm Post subject: |
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| sinsboldly wrote: | An engagement is not complete, nor is the relationship tested until he can come back to you and say (in his own way, of course) "honey, I was an idiot, but losing you would be far more idiotic, can you ever forgive me?"
then you know you have a man and husband material!
good luck!
Merle |
Heheh...we've just got over dealing with this too. He just formally apologized, both to me and my parents. I think I love him more than ever.
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| Aurore wrote: | | sinsboldly wrote: | An engagement is not complete, nor is the relationship tested until he can come back to you and say (in his own way, of course) "honey, I was an idiot, but losing you would be far more idiotic, can you ever forgive me?"
then you know you have a man and husband material!
good luck!
Merle |
Heheh...we've just got over dealing with this too. He just formally apologized, both to me and my parents. I think I love him more than ever. |
I just got a little tear in the corner of my eye! This is the best thing that could have come out of this, Aurore.
Merle
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