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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 12:35 am    Post subject: Emotional Intelligence vs. IQ Reply with quote

http://www.utne.com/1995-11-01/Science-Technology/test-iq.aspx

Do you value emotions in making life choices and relating to people? Or, do you think reasoning and logic are above all?

Here is a short test to gauge your EQ.

http://www.ihhp.com/quiz.php
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 12:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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35 - 44

You have slightly above average EQ - with room to grow! You are likely sensitive to the emotional climate of the people around you - your peers, friends, family and key clients. You are well aware of the effect your behavior has on others. Still, while you may be adept at tuning into others and their needs - you must remember your own! Don't be afraid to honestly communicate these difficult needs and feelings. The world is well stocked with martyrs - it doesn't need any more! Think also about your passion for work (or whatever constitutes your main roles in life - manager of people, doer of tasks, 'meeter' of clients' needs, etc). We spend countless hours in our given roles - sometimes without much joy or satisfaction. In the process we become tranquilized by the trivial. Sedated by the small details of life. Sure, the laundry needs doing, the groceries need getting, the kids need chauffeuring, the deadlines must be knocked off, but we also need to stop and remember what gives us great joy and meaning. If we fail to remind ourselves (on a regular basis), we risk becoming hostile and cynical. We lose our purpose. And this translates to a diminished ability to be effective, at ease and fulfilled. Areas to work on: Ask yourself: - What situations generally create tension and stress for you? How are you handling these situations? - What negative thoughts play over and over in your mind on a regular basis? Are these a true picture of reality? - Are you afraid to share your needs and feelings with others? Is it because you are taking care of everyone else - being a martyr - or acting 'the strong, silent type'? What 3 things give you the greatest meaning in your life? If you work on gaining clarity in these areas, you will move toward maximizing your full potential and finding greater effectiveness, happiness, and fulfillment in your life. As William James said: I have no doubt whatever that most people live, whether physically, intellectually, or morally, in a very restricted circle of their potential being. They make use of a very small portion of their possible consciousness... much like a man who, out of his whole body organism, should get into the habit of using and moving only his little finger... We all have reservoirs of life to draw upon, of which we do not dream


In real life, I rely heavily on reasoning and logic. Smile I just not a very emotional person.
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 12:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I got 31... what does that mean?
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Your Score: 41
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35 - 44

You have slightly above average EQ - with room to grow! You are likely sensitive to the emotional climate of the people around you - your peers, friends, family and key clients. You are well aware of the effect your behavior has on others. Still, while you may be adept at tuning into others and their needs - you must remember your own! Don't be afraid to honestly communicate these difficult needs and feelings. The world is well stocked with martyrs - it doesn't need any more! Think also about your passion for work (or whatever constitutes your main roles in life - manager of people, doer of tasks, 'meeter' of clients' needs, etc). We spend countless hours in our given roles - sometimes without much joy or satisfaction. In the process we become tranquilized by the trivial. Sedated by the small details of life. Sure, the laundry needs doing, the groceries need getting, the kids need chauffeuring, the deadlines must be knocked off, but we also need to stop and remember what gives us great joy and meaning. If we fail to remind ourselves (on a regular basis), we risk becoming hostile and cynical. We lose our purpose. And this translates to a diminished ability to be effective, at ease and fulfilled. Areas to work on: Ask yourself: - What situations generally create tension and stress for you? How are you handling these situations? - What negative thoughts play over and over in your mind on a regular basis? Are these a true picture of reality? - Are you afraid to share your needs and feelings with others? Is it because you are taking care of everyone else - being a martyr - or acting 'the strong, silent type'? What 3 things give you the greatest meaning in your life? If you work on gaining clarity in these areas, you will move toward maximizing your full potential and finding greater effectiveness, happiness, and fulfillment in your life. As William James said: I have no doubt whatever that most people live, whether physically, intellectually, or morally, in a very restricted circle of their potential being. They make use of a very small portion of their possible consciousness... much like a man who, out of his whole body organism, should get into the habit of using and moving only his little finger... We all have reservoirs of life to draw upon, of which we do not dream.


^I do have trouble admitting what I want but this is mostly so I don't have to deal with the hurtful ridicule of others.
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

TrojanPower:
The assessment pops up when you complete the test. Maybe you should retake the test and read the description at the bottom.
I can't find the scores for others, only my own results.
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

^^MissC, our results are identical. chin
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Indeed I have now found my true soul mate. Laughing
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

^ Cool Laughing
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 9:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Your Score: 51
45 - 54

A good balance is best in my own opinion.
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 10:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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But I got a very uncertain feeling when answering most of the questions, as if I didn't really know.
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 10:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 10:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Your Score: 40

35 - 44


You have slightly above average EQ - with room to grow! You are likely sensitive to the emotional climate of the people around you - your peers, friends, family and key clients. You are well aware of the effect your behavior has on others. Still, while you may be adept at tuning into others and their needs - you must remember your own! Don't be afraid to honestly communicate these difficult needs and feelings. The world is well stocked with martyrs - it doesn't need any more! Think also about your passion for work (or whatever constitutes your main roles in life - manager of people, doer of tasks, 'meeter' of clients' needs, etc). We spend countless hours in our given roles - sometimes without much joy or satisfaction. In the process we become tranquilized by the trivial. Sedated by the small details of life. Sure, the laundry needs doing, the groceries need getting, the kids need chauffeuring, the deadlines must be knocked off, but we also need to stop and remember what gives us great joy and meaning. If we fail to remind ourselves (on a regular basis), we risk becoming hostile and cynical. We lose our purpose. And this translates to a diminished ability to be effective, at ease and fulfilled. Areas to work on: Ask yourself: - What situations generally create tension and stress for you? How are you handling these situations? - What negative thoughts play over and over in your mind on a regular basis? Are these a true picture of reality? - Are you afraid to share your needs and feelings with others? Is it because you are taking care of everyone else - being a martyr - or acting 'the strong, silent type'? What 3 things give you the greatest meaning in your life? If you work on gaining clarity in these areas, you will move toward maximizing your full potential and finding greater effectiveness, happiness, and fulfillment in your life. As William James said: I have no doubt whatever that most people live, whether physically, intellectually, or morally, in a very restricted circle of their potential being. They make use of a very small portion of their possible consciousness... much like a man who, out of his whole body organism, should get into the habit of using and moving only his little finger... We all have reservoirs of life to draw upon, of which we do not dream.
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 12:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Which makes me (to paraphrase) a hostile person to work with.

Nothing I haven't already heard all my frickin' life. Rolling Eyes
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 2:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i scored 31
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