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SpaceCase
Always Here,Never There...
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 Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 9:55 pm Post subject: I've figured out my sexuality. |
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I am a lesbian.I figured that out today.I don't believe that I've ever had any real romantic feelings towards guys and plus I have had alot of bad experiances with boys.I am VERY attracted to girls and I have had romantic feelings towards girls.I do not mind being friends with guys but having sex or going out with a boy absolutely repulses me.I hope that no one is scared of me now...please don't hate me...
-SpaceCase 
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Morlock
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Joined: Mar 29, 2005
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Location: Albany, OR
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| Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 9:59 pm Post subject: |
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| It's good you've come to a firm conclusion. Don't EVER let anybody tell you you made the wrong decision. |
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airbikecop
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I still want to see pics.
Someone was bound to say it.  |
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TheOrangeMage
Toucan
Joined: Oct 20, 2005
Posts: 271
Location: Vandalia Ohio, USA
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| Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 10:09 pm Post subject: Re: I've figured out my sexuality. |
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| SpaceCase wrote: | I am a lesbian.I figured that out today.I don't believe that I've ever had any real romantic feelings towards guys and plus I have had alot of bad experiances with boys.I am VERY attracted to girls and I have had romantic feelings towards girls.I do not mind being friends with guys but having sex or going out with a boy absolutely repulses me.I hope that no one is scared of me now...please don't hate me...
-SpaceCase |
Just remember, depending on your age, this might not be the last time you decide. But anyways, I bet it's refreshing to have a good concrete idea what you feel, eh? |
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Nomaken
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Joined: Jun 10, 2005
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Location: 31726 Windsor, Garden City, Michigan, 48135
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Are there some boys which you find attractive, but very few, and with much higher standards that you have for women?
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pooftis
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Joined: Oct 11, 2005
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Location: San Marcos, CA
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Being gay/straight/bisexual is something your born as (just like being an aspie) no one should hate you for it, and if they do it is thier own problem, not yours.
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Astarael
Numquam obliuiscor..
Joined: Aug 07, 2005
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Location: Western Australia
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| Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 2:18 am Post subject: |
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Hey good work on finding out I wish I knew what sexuality I was! It's great that you've come to know though!
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hale_bopp
Ruffle some Feathers
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Age: 23
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Location: New Zealand
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| I'm 20 and I know I like guys, and am kinda attracted to girls, but just being attracted to a gender doesn't mean you like them like that.. i'm probably straight and confused, or bi-curious at the most. |
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grayson
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Joined: Dec 05, 2005
Posts: 239
Location: Netherlands
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| Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 3:11 am Post subject: Re: I've figured out my sexuality. |
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| SpaceCase wrote: | | I am a lesbian. [...snip....] I hope that no one is scared of me now...please don't hate me... |
SpaceCase, I hope you don't really feel this way (that people might be scared of you or hate you because of your sexual preference)! Being a lesbian is great (just like being a gay man or straight or bi or a or anything else.....the more flavors the better ). Be happy for yourself!
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Sanityisoverrated
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Hey, so long as you can still cook and clean, you're fine with me.  |
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Serissa
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| Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 8:37 am Post subject: |
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| There's no reason for anybody to be scared of you or hate you, and it's good to have that sorted out in your head, so yay for you having figured it out. |
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Relyt
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Joined: Nov 05, 2005
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Location: Bellflower, CA
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| airbikecop wrote: | I still want to see pics.
Someone was bound to say it. |
seconded |
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AbominableSnoCone
Cybernetic Vampiric Werewolf Ninja
Joined: Jun 16, 2005
Age: 25
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Location: Jersey
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| hale_bopp wrote: | | but just being attracted to a gender doesn't mean you like them like that.. |
Wha? that makes no sense to me...
I know that I'm not gay because I've never popped a boner while looking at a guy... I'm well aware that girls don't have that litmus test but don't you have some other kind of way that you can know what you find sexually attractive? 
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thepeaguy
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Joined: Sep 01, 2005
Posts: 497
Location: Bristol, UK
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| Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 3:57 pm Post subject: Re: I've figured out my sexuality. |
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| SpaceCase wrote: | I am a lesbian.I figured that out today.I don't believe that I've ever had any real romantic feelings towards guys and plus I have had alot of bad experiances with boys.I am VERY attracted to girls and I have had romantic feelings towards girls.I do not mind being friends with guys but having sex or going out with a boy absolutely repulses me.I hope that no one is scared of me now...please don't hate me...
-SpaceCase |
Why would anyone want to hate a nice girl such as yourself for being gay is beyond me.
Sod 'em, I say. |
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fahreeq
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I'm honestly not sure.  |
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