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Gothgal666
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 Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 8:22 pm Post subject: Is it common for a teen Aspie to feel sexually frustrated? |
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| I'm a 14-year-old girl, I want to have sex, I want a boyfriend, I am sick of the NT girls at my school talking about having sex, I want to have it!! Who else feels this way? |
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dustintorch
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| Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 8:44 pm Post subject: |
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| I think it's common for any teenager to be sexually frusterated. However, 14 is soooo young to start having sex. Believe me, you don't want to start adding numbers to your sexual partners list this early. I did and I wish I had waited. When you're older and you start thinking of how many people you've been with, believe it or not you're going to want the number to be low. |
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DeaconBlues
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| Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 8:52 pm Post subject: |
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You can also take the word of an older, supposedly wiser head - most of the girls (and boys) bragging about having sex aren't really, they just think it makes them look cool. They're getting their details either from porn (if they have access), or from some of the modern "romance" novels, which are really more like soft-core porn these days anyway.
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jamesp420
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| Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:56 am Post subject: |
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im frustrated as hell. ive had sex but not in a while i think i lost what game i had.
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david_42
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| Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 10:55 am Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | I think it's common for any teenager to be sexually frusterated |
Agree 100%. OP - having sex just to be having sex isn't much fun. And unless teenagers have changed tremendously recently, far more of them are talking about it than doing it. |
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thedaywalker
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| i'm feeling sexualy frustated havn't wanked for almost 2 weeks sleeping over at my girlfriend this weekend though... about having sex when youre 14 i've heard from alot of people that have had sex when 14 that its bad although i also have heard that its a good thing... gues it depends on you personality arnt you just curious about sex or do you want to rebel against anthing. sex is a good way to rebel its fun and fobidden. |
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then don't listen to them, i'd bet way more than half of them have been used, contracted some sort of illness, or even got pregnant, especially the first one.
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protest_the_hero
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Every single guy you're ever with makes you that much less desirable to the next one. I don't think you want to be that whore who gave it up at 14 when you grow up. Those other sluts will probably just end up pregnant with herpies before they graduate anyway. Your fingers will be good enough until you're at least 18, okay? The guys at age 14 probably aren't any bigger yet anyway  If you do it, it'll just be awkward and uncomfortable.
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TheOddGoat
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| protest_the_hero wrote: | | pregnant with herpes |
Congratulations ma'am!
Its.... a.... disease  |
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wormsto
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its very common.
you dont want to have sex for a couple more years at least. |
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SoulcakeDuck
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| Posted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 5:39 pm Post subject: |
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| very, I was born sexually active |
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L_Lawlliet
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i guess we all feel sexually frustrated....
but i think it's not okay to start having sex just to stop the frustration
i really am... but you know.... masturbation helps a lot (please do not say i'm gross because masturbation is perfectly normal)....
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JamesM7
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| Posted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 6:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Sexual frustration is inevitable unless you are having regular intercourse, which most Aspies I know are not. Add this onto the all ready hard times faced by teenagers, and you can see how stressful and big of an issue it can be. |
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thedaywalker
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| i dont get you people why do you all act like having sex while in puberty is a bad thing to do. |
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Fickle_Pickle
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| Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2009 1:27 pm Post subject: |
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| thedaywalker wrote: | | i dont get you people why do you all act like having sex while in puberty is a bad thing to do. |
On one, hand maybe not, on the other, maybe so. They just don't want her to get herself into trouble or for anything bad to happen to her. |
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