As stated by above posters, it really sounds as if You have it!
There's only two things, in Your list, i can't say i struggle with. And that's 7 and 8. (thanks Mum for learning me not to... - i think!)
So as diagnosed AS, I would very much say that if it's possible for You to get a diagnosis, You should. As there's at least some chance of getting help, with some of Your issues. But remember, getting a diagnosis isn't the answer, but a tool to understand Yourself, and thus work with Your weaknesses. - As well as, in some countries, getting some official support.
But, remember there's no free lunch! - If You get a dx, You'll have a label on You that can be a barrier in Your achievement of reaching Your goals...
- There's still a lot of persons out there, that sees ASD as a retardation! And the more competitive the environment, the worse...
But. Very welcome to the right Wrong Planet!! !
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AS/ASD... vs. NT? We're all on the spectrum of humanity...
AQ=44, EQ=7, SQ=64, Aspie-quiz AS=162/200 NT=37/200