Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 11:12 pm Post subject: How do you kiss a girl?
I've been with this girl for 4 months now, I haven't kissed a girl yet and I know I want her to be the first. I'm fairly sure she is ready for it, I'm not good at guessing this stuff, but I have my reasons. One being today she completely didn't mind me touching her romantically, now we're 15 so it wasn't anything sexual, but it was more than I would do to other girls. She was perfectly fine with this and seems to enjoy being with me alot. There I a high chance I see her next weekend and want to do it then. So how does one go about doing a first kiss, even if it's awkward then it's out of the way.
Not sure if this helps te answer but it's a AS/NT relationship with her NT.
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:08 am Post subject:
Maintain eye contact and slowly lean in, giver her a chance to meet you half-way, if she want's to kiss she probably will.
I eye-contact doesn't work for you I think asking "can I kiss you?" wouldn't be a bad move. _________________ If your success is defined as being well adjusted to injustice and well adapted to indifference, then we don’t want successful leaders. We want great leaders- who are unbought, unbound, unafraid, and unintimidated to tell the truth.
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:24 am Post subject:
Do not lead with a puckered mouth. Create a bridge to kissing by nuzzling your eye area against her cheek or by kissing her head/hair. This gives her a chance to respond; yes - by lifting her mouth to you or responding; no - by not offering her mouth to you. In this sort of way you will allow physical communication as opposed to the awkward push to just get it done and out of the way.
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:39 am Post subject:
I would ask her how before kissing her for the 1s time but I'm an Aspie who has a very hard time understanding anything that isn't directly spelled out. I'd rather scare her off by being my Aspie self & discuss it with her than scare her off & getting slapped by misinterpreting or something. _________________ For info about where I've been & what's up with me check this post~
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 3:08 am Post subject:
Kinme wrote:
Kiss her on the cheek first and then let her initiate the next one?
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 3:19 am Post subject:
Kinme wrote:
Kiss her on the cheek first and then let her initiate the next one?
that would be cute _________________ If your success is defined as being well adjusted to injustice and well adapted to indifference, then we don’t want successful leaders. We want great leaders- who are unbought, unbound, unafraid, and unintimidated to tell the truth.
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 5:44 am Post subject:
My first kiss was awful because I had no idea you were supposed to open your mouth and get your tongue involved in it, too.
Be aware that if the other person has kissing experience they may be expecting to be allowed to stick their tongue into your mouth.
It may come as a bit of a surprise. _________________ "Those that wish to be clean, clean they will be; and those that wish to be foul, foul they will be."
With my ex, we just leaned in and did it. With my current girlfriend, the first one that we had when we were actually together (She kissed me on the cheek, and I her before we were together.) was actually a French kiss, all things considered (Something I didn't do with my ex.), so you can count me out on advice!
The most common answers seem to be either kiss her on the cheek and wait for her/see what happens, or ask her. Those seem easy enough to do. And thanks for all the answers, it's nice to wake up and see useful responces to my question.
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Posted: Tue Apr 17, 2012 7:24 am Post subject:
Just try not to take it all too seriously. You might come across as way too soppy if you try and make it a scene from Hollywood or a soap opera. Just try to treat it as a normal thing, and do what feels natural, then you'll come across as natural, and soon enough kissing will become a normal thing for you. _________________ THINGS I LIKE
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