ablomov
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 Posted: Fri May 04, 2012 6:37 pm Post subject: never dated ... |
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never had a girlfriend,
seen as garbage at school, tho met a woman when i got homeless.
women look at me like i just f**** the cat ...... |
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Maerlyn138
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Age: 41
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Location: The Island of Misfit Toys
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| Posted: Fri May 04, 2012 10:18 pm Post subject: Re: never dated ... |
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| ablomov wrote: | | women look at me like i just f**** the cat ...... |
Thats usually the look I get too. You know, I try and smile my best smile and give the max amount of eye contact I can muster....but ya, they look at me like I just farted or something. Now in contrast, if its a women that I see on a daily basis at work or where ever and I smile at her I usually get a nice smile back. I think I just come off as intimidating at first. Do you think that might be it for you? You may just look intimidating without wanting to or realizing it.
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ablomov
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| Posted: Sat May 05, 2012 5:33 am Post subject: interesting point... |
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tho I never encounter women on any regular basis, i usually get on best with asian shopkeepers actually, usually I know them on a several year basis, otherwise its near zilch human encounters, I'm very sensitive to the signals I get from others, a bit like radar; its for self preservation.
theres my wifes friends but they are garbage, stone wall me etc if I eneter the room say once every two yrs, yet still send pointless Xmas presents ..... two faced twats.
I keep eye contact very brief, as if i've got all the womwn i want' perhaps they think i'm gay ....
I keep on the move, I always sense to loiter or initiate anything as has occasionally been proven is pointless. y'know its only people that make me miserable and i crave the wide outdoors with no-one present. society would like to make you think you shld 'mix more' its only so that they feel less pointless because they cannot see outside the box, i read, pursue many interests, life is full and stimulating to me. most ppl to me seem to have feet of clay. |
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diniesaur
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| Posted: Sat May 05, 2012 5:37 am Post subject: |
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| I don't understand. How do we know if people are looking at us this way? Do you have any pictures of this facial expression? I've never heard of one like that before. |
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ablomov
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| Posted: Sat May 05, 2012 5:52 am Post subject: sorry .... |
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| what do u mean ?? |
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DogsWithoutHorses
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Joined: Apr 06, 2012
Posts: 1145
Location: New York
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| Posted: Sat May 05, 2012 6:50 am Post subject: Re: interesting point... |
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| ablomov wrote: | tho I never encounter women on any regular basis, i usually get on best with asian shopkeepers actually, usually I know them on a several year basis, otherwise its near zilch human encounters, I'm very sensitive to the signals I get from others, a bit like radar; its for self preservation.
theres my wifes friends but they are garbage, stone wall me etc if I eneter the room say once every two yrs, yet still send pointless Xmas presents ..... two faced twats.
I keep eye contact very brief, as if i've got all the womwn i want' perhaps they think i'm gay ....
I keep on the move, I always sense to loiter or initiate anything as has occasionally been proven is pointless. y'know its only people that make me miserable and i crave the wide outdoors with no-one present. society would like to make you think you shld 'mix more' its only so that they feel less pointless because they cannot see outside the box, i read, pursue many interests, life is full and stimulating to me. most ppl to me seem to have feet of clay. |
You have a wife and have never had a girlfriend?
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