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HairlessAlbinoCat
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 5:20 am Post subject: Would you date me?

People seem to act as if though I was ugly, is there something wrong with me. I'm the boy in the mask ^_^ My face is like that from trying to take the picture with acellular phone ^_^ plus we are standing on a bench

PastFixations
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 5:36 am Post subject: Re: Would you date me?

HairlessAlbinoCat wrote:

People seem to act as if though I was ugly, is there something wrong with me. I'm the boy in the mask ^_^

Is the mask a medical thing in regards to your eyesight or is it just for show?
Also it depends on who likes you enough to date you if that makes sense. The right person will come to you if you also come to them.
Yeah, check out me going all philosophical. =]
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auntblabby
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 5:39 am Post subject:

you are a handsome well-dressed man who would look even better with the proper hat and sans the mask. just my opinion.

HairlessAlbinoCat
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 6:22 am Post subject: Re: Would you date me?

PastFixations wrote:

HairlessAlbinoCat wrote:

People seem to act as if though I was ugly, is there something wrong with me. I'm the boy in the mask ^_^

XD - thanks

The mask was given to me as part of an activity, I don't go everywhere in a mask, though I have thought about it Rolling Eyes

I'd wear a phantom of the opera one. Maybe that's why no one likes me ???

nostromo
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 6:24 am Post subject:

I wouldn't date you since I'm not gay, but you have good bone structure and skin and are well dressed, I would say you are a good looking dude, if you are having problems with people, that is not the reason. Edit: have you noticed theres an attractive woman at your shoulder Just saying.

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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 6:33 am Post subject:

nostromo wrote:

Edit: have you noticed theres an attractive woman at your shoulder Cool

Just saying.

Has it occured to you that she could be the mother?
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nostromo
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 6:45 am Post subject:

PastFixations wrote:

nostromo wrote:

Edit: have you noticed theres an attractive woman at your shoulder Cool

Just saying.

Has it occured to you that she could be the mother?

No it has not.

vanhalenkurtz
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 6:51 am Post subject:

I think the mask could really simplify your dating concerns. It might take patience but when you finally meet someone else wearing a mask (on a common day), the odds of hitting it off seem promising. _________________ ASQ: 45. RAADS-R: 229. BAP: 132 aloof, 132 rigid, 104 pragmatic. Aspie score: 173 / 200. NT score: 33 / 200. EQ: 6.

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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 7:55 am Post subject: Re: Would you date me?

HairlessAlbinoCat wrote:

PastFixations wrote:

HairlessAlbinoCat wrote:

People seem to act as if though I was ugly, is there something wrong with me. I'm the boy in the mask ^_^

XD - thanks

The mask was given to me as part of an activity, I don't go everywhere in a mask, though I have thought about it Rolling Eyes

I'd wear a phantom of the opera one. Maybe that's why no one likes me ???

lol, ive wanted to do the same

singularity
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 8:06 am Post subject:

You look very nice, although a picture without the mask would be better. I stick my tongue out when I'm concentrating too!

ToughDiamond
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 9:24 am Post subject:

vanhalenkurtz wrote:

I think the mask could really simplify your dating concerns. It might take patience but when you finally meet someone else wearing a mask (on a common day), the odds of hitting it off seem promising.

I agree absolutely. Mask compatibility is everything in relationships. Wink

Erm........why did the OP post a photo of himself in a mask, if he wanted us to judge his attractiveness? I mean, he might be hideous underneath, with acne or even green scales.

Really, OP, you've got nothing to worry about in the looks department, assuming what's under the mask is of compatable quality. Just look at the hideous men all around you who manage to get married........most women don't much go for looks anyway, and neither would men if they didn't swallow all this stupid media propaganda, IMHO.

The_Face_of_Boo
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 9:43 am Post subject:

Even if they all say yes here, what that would change for you?

ValentineWiggin
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:13 am Post subject:

You shared absolutely nothing about yourself. So.... _________________ "Such is the Frailty of the human Heart, that very few Men, who have no Property, have any Judgment of their own. They talk and vote as they are directed by Some Man of Property, who has attached their Minds to his Interest."

ToughDiamond
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:32 am Post subject:

ValentineWiggin wrote:

You shared absolutely nothing about yourself.

So....

True, there ain't much. He's shared the fact that he's a boy (that put me off him immediately). He's also revealed that he's got a thing about whether or not he looks pretty, that he has a sense of humour and can laugh at himself, that he's not afraid to put himself up for judgement here, and that at least one person was happy to be in a photo with him, and to share a joke with him. On the downside, he says people seem to act as if he's ugly. Given that he doesn't look creepy, there must be some other factor that's scaring them off. But we're autistic round here, so that doesn't worry us much.

Given that it's not the appearance, when are we going to settle down and focus on identifying the behavioural features that must be causing society to shun him?