zacb
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| I have been looking on a certain online forum, and they have been making the claim that American women tend to be picky, and foreign women tend to be better. And since people with autism spectrum disorders can relate, I was wondering if there is any truth to this, or is someone just over killing things. Are foriegn women better overall to date? |
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JanuaryMan
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It's all relative, my friend.
Depends on yours and their upbringing, each other's cultures, what you want and what they want.
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I can tell you with certainty that you can go to the Philippines, point your finger at a random group of single women, pick one out from the lineup, and she'll marry you, no questions asked. I've met some American man who were older or overweight or whatever who had fairly beautiful Filippino wives. The women were obviously not picky at all.
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zacb
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| Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 8:43 pm Post subject: |
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| What about in first world nations? |
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| redrobin62 wrote: | | I can tell you with certainty that you can go to the Philippines, point your finger at a random group of single women, pick one out from the lineup, and she'll marry you, no questions asked. I've met some American man who were older or overweight or whatever who had fairly beautiful Filippino wives. The women were obviously not picky at all. |
Well, when the possibility of American citizenship is on the table, many foreign women won't be too picky.
That said, I remember reading about a guy who got an adult diagnosis of Asperger's. He said that when he was in college, before he knew, he'd often date foreign women. In retrospect, he believed it's because both he and his foreign girlfriends would chalk up misunderstandings between themselves to cultural differences, whereas looking back, some differences may have been NT/AS, but at the time they believed it was simply cultural. |
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I think some American women are picky, but then so are some America men. They will only look at potential mates who are within 5 years of their age and could pass for supermodels. If I was into females I'd be the first MF on the airlines to the Philippines. Of course, there are lots of single ones in the U.S. so that wouldn't be actually necessary.
In (somewhat) related news, I'm into Asian guys but they look through me like a pane of clear glass. You just can't win.
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| Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 11:29 pm Post subject: Re: Are foreign chicks easier to date? |
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| zacb wrote: | | I have been looking on a certain online forum, and they have been making the claim that American women tend to be picky, and foreign women tend to be better. And since people with autism spectrum disorders can relate, I was wondering if there is any truth to this, or is someone just over killing things. Are foriegn women better overall to date? |
Well there are places on the internet that resent "western women" for a variety of reasons (most seem to add up to they don't need to be financially dependent on a man so they can afford to chose a partner based on compatibility and love).
Women from a patriarchal culture or a very poor country might be good if what you want is someone who can be manipulated or bought with money or citizenship.
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| Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 12:15 am Post subject: Re: Are foreign chicks easier to date? |
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| DogsWithoutHorses wrote: | | zacb wrote: | | I have been looking on a certain online forum, and they have been making the claim that American women tend to be picky, and foreign women tend to be better. And since people with autism spectrum disorders can relate, I was wondering if there is any truth to this, or is someone just over killing things. Are foriegn women better overall to date? |
Well there are places on the internet that resent "western women" for a variety of reasons (most seem to add up to they don't need to be financially dependent on a man so they can afford to chose a partner based on compatibility and love).
Women from a patriarchal culture or a very poor country might be good if what you want is someone who can be manipulated or bought with money or citizenship. |
Or who when you ask "Honey, I'd really like if you could cook dinner" wouldn't go "YOUR NOT THE BOSS OF ME, YOU CANT TELL ME WHAT TO DO, I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR." On a more serious note, foreign women I think are a bit more receptive to traditional gender roles. They understand that men and women are different.
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i think that people of other cultures have an easier time dating sometimes. a man with a russian or ghanian or japanese accent can be considered very sexy in canada, for example (not in every case, but sometimes). i think that otherness is attractive to many people.
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I wonder if one partner's social inabilities (or--I don't know what word to use--eccentricities, maybe) are less obvious to a person of a different nationality.
Like, people of your nationality might be able to pick you out as odd easier than someone of a different nationality. That could go both ways, and it could be good or bad.
I think it's dangerous to suggest that certain nationalities of people are less or more picky. |
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| Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 1:34 am Post subject: Re: Are foreign chicks easier to date? |
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| 1000Knives wrote: | | DogsWithoutHorses wrote: | | zacb wrote: | | I have been looking on a certain online forum, and they have been making the claim that American women tend to be picky, and foreign women tend to be better. And since people with autism spectrum disorders can relate, I was wondering if there is any truth to this, or is someone just over killing things. Are foriegn women better overall to date? |
Well there are places on the internet that resent "western women" for a variety of reasons (most seem to add up to they don't need to be financially dependent on a man so they can afford to chose a partner based on compatibility and love).
Women from a patriarchal culture or a very poor country might be good if what you want is someone who can be manipulated or bought with money or citizenship. |
Or who when you ask "Honey, I'd really like if you could cook dinner" wouldn't go "YOUR NOT THE BOSS OF ME, YOU CANT TELL ME WHAT TO DO, I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR." On a more serious note, foreign women I think are a bit more receptive to traditional gender roles. They understand that men and women are different. |
Exactly, some guys want a woman who thinks all domestic things are inherently her responsibility so they don't have to do things like their on laundry or cook their own darn food.
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| I think my ideal mate would be Asian, particularly Chinese, Japanese, or Filipina. Western women can be such bitches. They're hot but all their demands make me want to be single. No way would I ever get someone a wedding ring worth 3 months of my salary. Would rather spend it on prostitution, charity work, or buying a porsche. |
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| I once had a Mexican MILF flirt with me, telling me how she would cook me meals because my mom wouldn't and how American women don't treat men right. So ya, I would prefer a foreign girl over an American based on that and other experiences. I love my sister but she's one of the reasons I don't want to get married. |
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| Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 2:02 am Post subject: Re: Are foreign chicks easier to date? |
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| zacb wrote: | | I have been looking on a certain online forum, and they have been making the claim that American women tend to be picky, and foreign women tend to be better. And since people with autism spectrum disorders can relate, I was wondering if there is any truth to this, or is someone just over killing things. Are foriegn women better overall to date? |
Most American woman are looking for true love. Most women from Eastern Europe or a developing nation, who eye American men, are looking for a way into the developed world. Essentially, they want a man to get them to the US and buy them things.
Or just buy them things.
So if you want a woman who will "date" you and occasionally have sex with you in exchange for a western lifestyle, then you might considering pursing such women. However you should be aware of what the relationship is and what it isn't.
If you want someone who actually cares for you as a person and wants to be with you because they like you then it is advisable that you avoid "foreign" women who are after the things listed above. |
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| Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 2:13 am Post subject: Re: Are foreign chicks easier to date? |
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| 1000Knives wrote: | | DogsWithoutHorses wrote: | | zacb wrote: | | I have been looking on a certain online forum, and they have been making the claim that American women tend to be picky, and foreign women tend to be better. And since people with autism spectrum disorders can relate, I was wondering if there is any truth to this, or is someone just over killing things. Are foriegn women better overall to date? |
Well there are places on the internet that resent "western women" for a variety of reasons (most seem to add up to they don't need to be financially dependent on a man so they can afford to chose a partner based on compatibility and love).
Women from a patriarchal culture or a very poor country might be good if what you want is someone who can be manipulated or bought with money or citizenship. |
Or who when you ask "Honey, I'd really like if you could cook dinner" wouldn't go "YOUR NOT THE BOSS OF ME, YOU CANT TELL ME WHAT TO DO, I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR." On a more serious note, foreign women I think are a bit more receptive to traditional gender roles. They understand that men and women are different. |
Yet the vast majority of married women in the US adhere to traditional gender roles....even in two income households the woman tends to retain household responsibilities such as cooking and cleaning and tending to the children.
On the subject of foreign women....I've known three such women who have come from developing nations such as those in South East Asia or Eastern Europe, who all married American men...twice. They eventually divorced the man who brought them here and re-married a man they actually fell in love with. I'm not sure how they were with their first husbands but with their second husbands, they were no more or less willing to tend to domestic chores than American women. |
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